To me and many others, "being a man" does not mean standing and watching over the wife while she hoovers, washes the dishes in the kitchen, dusts, changes the dirty nappies, gets the kids ready for school after having prepared brakfast for everyone, etc, etc.....

Being a man, means, broadly speaking, taking responsability for your own actions, being helpful and ready to share the workload with your partner.
Being generous with your time, to listen, and guide, give advice even if it not followed through, generally being compassionate in everything you do.

Not forgetting being protective without possessiveness.

But obviously mr "bloke" medallion man likes to be compared to club carrying neanderthals.