Just wanted to update you guys that i already have my schengen visa and it was delivered this midweek.
i want to share my experience also for the benefit of other people here who will be filing their visa application in the future.
I arrived in the french embassy as early as 11am. there was already a line outside. but when they checked my paperwork before i enter the embassy premises. they asked me to go back at 2pm. so i suggest anyone who has an appointment to make sure you are there 30 mins before as to skip the long line i encountered when i went back. the nice lady checked my paperworks upon entry and asked me to fall in line for the cashier. note you will have to present your marriage cert etc here and there is no fee. then they asked me to fall in line in the interview room. this took me a very long time waiting. i was interviewed around 430pm already and there was still a long queue after me. the consul basically just asked for the photocopies of my paperwork. they didnt ask for my travel insurance documents and my marriage cert stamped by the embassy. they were only interested with my original marriage cert from NSO and my other paperworks. I suggest everyone should submit a self-addressed pre-paid special delivery envelope so you dont have to go back to claim the passport.
It was quite straightforward so i suggest to anyone not to be nervous. the application is just all about proving you are the spouse of an EU national.

here are the documents that i submitted:
Marriage contract from NSO
Marriage contract certified by the Phil Embassy
Travel insurance
ID Picture
Application form - read it carefully as you dont have to answer the one with the asterisk on them if you're an EU spouse.
Letter from my company
Passport
My husband's passport - which they gave me back but I suggest to bring it still
a self-addressed pre-paid special delivery envelope for the return of your passport

Photocopy of everything