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22nd January 2008 #1
To all SINGLE Filipina Ladies
You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).
If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.
Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.
Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:
Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.
Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.
Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.
I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.Keith Driscoll - Administrator
Managing Director, Win2Win Limited
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22nd January 2008 #2
Boss Keith,your brilliant.Your definitely right boss.And i would take this advice of yours into my heart and mind for me not to commit mistakes again.
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Ladies, I think what the boss said is right
Here's my take.
Arguing: A good relationship needs a good foundation. Arguing and 'trying to hold it together' at the start is not a good foundation. ...time to run!
Money: Any man who is serious will have an idea of how much he will have to spend to pull it off. Some guys will be sailing pretty close to the wind but that doesn't mean they can't support you. Being careful with money shouldn't be taken as a sign he is broke... maybe he's just being sensible which should be seen as a quality. However, if he's struggling financially to make the first trip to PI... he ain't got a hope of funding the rest.
Doesn't want to visit: Yes, he should be gagging to get to you... and you should feel the same. Also, a relationship naturally has to move forward or it will starve. However, you do need to consider his work commitments. Don't assume he can drop everything, fly half way round the world, so you can leap into his arms like the scene in Armageddon! Personally, I would ask right at the start with all the other questions... but tactfully.. like, 'if he met a girl he liked, would he visit her and when?'. If he answers 2/3 months for example, hold him to it, then if he starts making excuses .... time to run!
Good luck to you all
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23rd January 2008 #6
Take the good advice from the boss, he is definitely right Arguing isn't healthy especially in a long distance relationship. If he is always going on money this is not so good, later on, that will be the cause of failure in the relationship.
Yeah i believe that a man should have the initiative to visit you in PI, but if he says he can't visit you at early stage, give him a chance because some guys although they can afford to visit you or cantravel immediately, they just want to test you. Anyway he if truly up to you, he will travel to visit you sooner, this is from my own experience
Good luck to all.CPLURLTC Care, Patience, Love, Understanding, Respect, Loyalty, Trust & Concideration / Compassion Are all the values Me & Anilyn hope to give each other, sometimes we may both fail, but we will always try, I am sure most of u in here are the type to do the same with their loved ones.
Ingat Paul & Anilyn
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the only problem that i can forsee with my bf would be..statement no.2..about the MONEY..the only thing that hinders us from our plans is his financial capability..i do believe he loves me and there's no doubt in what i feel for him..we keep on setting dates for our plans but its constantly changing bec of his financial capabilty..he doesnt support me financialy but that doesnt matter all i want is for us to be together..i know this might just be a test for us..and i would want to stick with him no matter what..but i cant deny that this is already frustrating..and its sad to see him down and sad because of this problem..he is working as a chef..and sometimes i cant help but wonder how other people can manage to save up just to make their relationship work..but on a second thought he's been changing jobs just to make it all work..so i know it will all happen because i can see the effort but the only question is when..now.im trying to check if there is any way for me to go to UK using my own options..bec i really dont know how long do i have to wait if i will just sit here and do nothing..
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Eh?! only single ladies are beautiful?? What about us, married ladies?
Good advice Doctor LoveNot an expert, I only try to help.
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22nd January 2008 #11
There are 7 Planes Of Existance:
7 — Material Plane: The earth, where you are right now.
6 — Plane of Forces
5 — Astral Plane
4 — Mental Plane
3 — Too mysterious to describe.
2 — Too mysterious to describe.
1 — Too mysterious to describe.
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10th February 2009 #13
There are 7 Planes Of Existance:
7 — Material Plane: The earth, where you are right now.
6 — Plane of Forces
5 — Astral Plane
4 — Mental Plane
3 — Too mysterious to describe.
2 — Too mysterious to describe.
1 — Too mysterious to describe.
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Hi,the right one might just have emailed you!
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22nd January 2008 #17
You haven't "committed" anything.
The guy was very insecure and unwilling to work to make a success of the partnership.
You are lucky that it didn't go any further.
It could have been disaster.
You better believe it.......
The right person for you, is out there waiting....... only that he doesn't know yet.....
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23rd January 2008 #20
talking by experience Boss?he he he he
what about the advise for in a relationship with a British guy?what to expect or anything?
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27th January 2008 #21
Sounds my dad
Boss you’re such a caring and protective admin…
In my situation we don’t argue my Bf made me feel I’m always right even I got mad at him…(Mostly from misunderstanding)
Knowing him almost 2 years I’ve been aware to his ups and down coz we started friends.
The first time he didn’t make it to visit me I was so disappointed
but knowing his reasons really made my heart soften and more supportive and more inlove with him…
Financial and emotional support he’s there for me even miles away…The only thing is to give him time to finally meet me ..…
if that won’t happen 2-3 months starting now I’ll run then (Kidding beb)
like the always saying move on and let’s see things turn out.
Life is so short so live to the fullest…No worries ... just stay happy and remain positive thinking!
To my kukupops I want you to know that I love you so much ..
oh btw thanks for replacing my mobile
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27th January 2008 #28
It pays for all our holidays
Keith Driscoll - Administrator
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2nd April 2008 #29
dear win2win,
your advise really does something to everyone here at the forum...
well, as per my case, maybe u can help me find my special one...
am still waiting for him...
r u there mr. unknown?, give me a hint where to find you!..you must been hiding all your life
lavander
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3rd April 2008 #30
nice advice po!!!
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