To all SINGLE Filipina Ladies

[bornatbirth]

LOVE THIS!!!!BOSS UR AMAZING,U TRULY KNO wHAT wOMEN wANT!

[beppe]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

well said but I always believe a bit of good luck helps a lot

[satchuna]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).


Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

love! love this!(^_^) since I am a Filipina

[ynacielo]

yes i ran away aswell from my husband,he talks about money a lot,it seems that his life evolve with money,he normally telling me,everything is his..........i cant use some stuff in the house like computer,telephone,coz according to him thats his,sometimes he hid car key ended me calling my friend to take me to work,telling me that asian is just a novelty and scammers,,,,,throwing me out of the house whenever his angry.threatening me, i had enough,now i might get deported,coz social worker old me to apply residency,im such in a big mess,i thought social worker knows what they are doing....i shudnt believe them.....

[South-east boy]

yes i ran away aswell from my husband,he talks about money a lot,it seems that his life evolve with money,he normally telling me,everything is his..........i cant use some stuff in the house like computer,telephone,coz according to him thats his,sometimes he hid car key ended me calling my friend to take me to work,telling me that asian is just a novelty and scammers,,,,,throwing me out of the house whenever his angry.threatening me, i had enough,now i might get deported,coz social worker old me to apply residency,im such in a big mess,i thought social worker knows what they are doing....i shudnt believe them.....

I'm sorry for what has happened with you- your husband has acted quite unreasonably, immaturely and cruely. Have you doccumented everything like that that he has done? If not, then do so as soon as possible. Also book an appointment with the citizens advice burreau -it's free. I'm sure other people on here can offer some more help and advice as well. I hope u can spend Christmas with some friends and that next year will be better for you

[sensi*]

interesting thread!

[triple5]

You're replying to a banned member who posted 9 months ago

[ceekays]

This is true, i am only 23, i been looking for someone to be with but im a true gentleman and when i go out with someone in the uk i am always too good for them or not good enough never found that just right.

I have only just recently started to speak to some filipina girls and already found them to be more polite and easier to get along with. They have that upbringing which i could only dream of in a girl.

[LuisaKC]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over )....

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

hello ,sir. those are nice thoughts for Pinays.
I agree with 2nd and 3rd.. but the 1st thing you said...hmm..
Theres this "cultural differences" thing you know... and we all know culture-wise we differ wth europeans in so many ways... so i guess arguing at the 1st part of the relationship is normal..specially if this pinay has a very strong character ( like moi ) and the foriegn guy likes a submissive gf/wife ( w/c is often times the case thats why foriegners like filipina)
maybe its safe to say ... Argue and discuss alot BEFORE being married to each other and then dont forget the 2nd and 3rd Signs

I'd also advice a SINGLE Filipina to becareful meeting up first time with your foreign boyfriends. You might fall so inlove too fast and not be able to think logically and make wise decisions. you wont be able to see the 2nd and 3rd advice of mr Keith if your logically blinded by love

But enjoy life and learn from mistakes! ... people who are here ( married couples ) are Gods walking proof that nothing is impossible!

[dontpushme]

I agree. Marriage is a partnership. It can't be just one person trying to provide for both and the other person sending everything to a 3rd party.

Luisa's point on Filipinas falling in love too fast, I think that happens a lot. Filipinos are hopeless romantics (yes, the guys too) and think that every crush is the love of their life. Gotta be careful about "falling in love" when you don't know the person well enough to actually love them yet. It could just be falling in love with the idea of being in a relationship with them.

[rani]

Filipinos are hopeless romantics (yes, the guys too) and think that every crush is the love of their life. Gotta be careful about "falling in love" when you don't know the person well enough to actually love them yet. It could just be falling in love with the idea of being in a relationship with them.

[dontpushme]

.Their attractive highly feminine outer appearance is combined with a tender romantic loving/caring inner side.

Sorry, I just had to laugh. I'm Filipino, but anyone who knows me would laugh at the "highly feminine" bit in your lovely description of my race and gender. Although the Chinese name given to me means "a lady who walks with grace and beauty", everyone, including my own mother, has laughed at the irony of it and says I'm anything but!

Maybe you mean half the Filipinas are highly feminine and the rest of us are hoydens.

[Terpe]

My personal opinion is that Philippine ladies make the best friends, girlfriends and wives.
Compared to ladies in many other countries, they just don't seem as strict, serious, prudish or hung up. Instead, they are more relaxed, carefree, happy-go-lucky, easygoing and playful.They are also very nonjudgmental and nonracist.
They have a great sense of humor, with the ability to enjoy the simplest and silliest things which easily amuse them. You can always have fun and joke around, even if you have nothing else important to talk about.
That's so comfortable and refreshing.

Philippine ladies are also a great blend of outer and inner traits.
Ethnically Asian, Malay and Spanish, is a very exotic and beautiful mix.Their attractive highly feminine outer appearance is combined with a tender romantic loving/caring inner side.
A wonderful blend to say the least.

I can really understand why so many of us men are addicted to the Philippines and to Philippine ladies. For me they seem to bring this natural balance to your life and soul.
They are just so comfortable to be around, in a way that you could never imagine possible.

It's beyond words; it's something you need to feel and experience to understand. And when you do, you realize it's what you had always desired.

The only minor drawback I have found in my mind, is that Philippine ladies may sometimes become moody and quiet for unexplainable reasons. It seems to be in their nature somehow.
Patience and a loving hug are the recogonised cure.

For me Philippine ladies give new birth to your heart.
If ever your heart had lost faith in love, they awaken it and renew it with their faith, hope and belief in love, making it a reality for you, and making you a believer again.

[sweetnote143]

The only minor drawback I have found in my mind, is that Philippine ladies may sometimes become moody and quiet for unexplainable reasons. It seems to be in their nature somehow.
Patience and a loving hug are the recogonised cure.

that's what we called here "tampo", synonymous to sulking but quite different altogether. "tampo" doesn't last long so men only needs to be patient and extra attentive to their wife. and extra sweet.

[grahamw48]

Agree !

Many thanks for reminding me to get off my backside and find one.

[grahamw48]

I would describe my stepdaughter as more of a fierce little wildcat, yet looking at her you wouldn't think butter would melt in her mouth.

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[Faye_and_Brian]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

Yes you are very right, if he is really into you he will find a way to see you no matter how many thousand miles away you are apart from each other. That is true love

[angellegwen]

ohh my...my butt hurts sitting and reading everything on this thread, very interesting...from morning until this afternoon...ohhh nooo my garden outside i forgot to check

[grahamw48]

ohh my...my butt hurts sitting and reading everything on this thread, very interesting...from morning until this afternoon...ohhh nooo my garden outside i forgot to check

Too late to read it now, isn't it ?

[angellegwen]

Too late to read it now, isn't it ?

hahaha still reading..im done reading this thread so ill go find something else but i did check my garden for like a minute and back inside, its so cold outside and i think foxes keep digging my plants its not cute and its not funny(my bulbs are dug out and my garlic's beheaded ) and i think my newly planted strawberries won't survive so its a bit disappointing. I think im gonna train my dog to kill them lols Anyway, i love reading threads here and time passes so quickly the next thing i know its already late hahaha

One response here mentioned "My Big Fat Greek Wedding" and after reaing the thread I watched it, very funny...hubby caught me giggling in the dayroom when he arrives from work. This forum and all the members especially the admins and the creator of this site, its really of great help. Thanks everyone.

[simpleHeart]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.


[ to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

If it is as easy as ABC to just dumb him, I would.... But funny me!!!Im still hoping in our relationship to be saved.

Im just a martyr

[ynai4]

i like this conversation... our culture is to help our family in the philippines...and i dont understand that sometimes..why were helping our parents and whole family...?in that case whos helping us.......

[Dr Graham]

This thread makes me smile
The FACT is that MEN, regardless of Nationality, Age, Wealth, or Intelligence, .......
CANNOT UNDERSTAND WOMEN .... even Women of the SAME Nationality and Culture.

So throwing DIFFERENT CULTURES into the already bubbling Melting Pot, is a bit like letting kids loose in the Chemistry Lab ..... WITHOUT a Teacher persent !

[grahamw48]

This forum attracts grumpy old men I guess.

[tipzy23]

single now.....

[anc25]

single now.....

[desiderata_78]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

Thanks for the posts guys. It helped me a lot.

[skinicuk]

I am 34 years old a Filipina, got my annulment 2 years ago and also I have a handsome 11 year old son...

I hope a really find a good person that is willing to love a single mother.

[babes]

Very well said Keith! thunbs up!

[elvie89]

We do have some misunderstanding sometimes which is i think is normal into a relationship but for having an argument that there both parties feel themselves they are both right,thats a big trouble lol hehe i believe making a long lasting relationship is to have this three.criteria..be able to explain why,and be able to listen and of course willing to compromise!!!