A birthday and everyone turns up , a wedding and again everyone turns up, infact if there is a sign of anything that may be free they all turn up.
Now this could be family members and friends and there has been known that a stranger may be among the people and they are all there to help celebrate the special occasion.
So where are all these people when the person who is throwing the party needs help, a little cash help for a medical bill, or a school fee, or just for food as they have none, yes all these folk disappear never to be seen , never to answer there phone unless its to say " i have no money"., but try so and so they have just been paid.
A celebration is shared between the family but it seems a problem , well they are just past on to others, who i may add dont get the invite.
May i just add this is from my own experience .