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22nd May 2013 #61
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thank you for welcoming me Mark! oh I stand corrected my statement was a bit confusing.. what I was trying to say was MAYBE the gf behaved that way because her demands wasn't given! which absolutely unbecoming! Therefore I say its not acceptable to be like what she is.
"life's difficulties" all people of all races undergo life's difficulties what i am trying to emphasize is before he will think of ending up maybe he has to weigh things first or talk why she acted that way. the girl could do as well if the guy is acting the same. Communication!
i would say the same as you said, Both! that is why is said deal with different culture. I mean is both will do. This time he is confused, so he must consider taking a look at this end.
by the way , I am not in the side of the girl what the girl had shown was pretty much unbecoming but again I cant judge her at the end of the day its still the guy who will make a decision.
and agree with you.."mutual respect to be shown by both parties"
I appreciate your reply Mark
Cheers!
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22nd May 2013 #62
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Beejudge73....I appreciate the appreciation. That's sure been in short supply. Thanks
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22nd May 2013 #63
he didn't do it to test me, it was actually me who test him.
you see, i'm kinda weird woman, i like scaring a man off instead of impressing him. my hubby has no idea of the reputation of asians so i told him that some asians are desperate to stay here that they pretend they love their boyfriend to lure him to marry her ( i told him this few days after he found out that my visa is about to expire and i'm struggling to get a new one). i intentionally scare him by saying that i have massive loan from the bank and that i have a big family who needs supporting which will be a responsibility of my future husband..
i always do this to men who shows interest at me and guess what all of them run miles away from me except my hubby.
my hubby told me that it did scare him but somehow he felt that he can trust me so he still marries me..''The grass may be greener on the other side of the fence but there still gonna be on it''
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22nd May 2013 #64
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Have you shown him the letter from the Bailiffs yet...and that big mansion you've had built in the Phils ?
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23rd May 2013 #66
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23rd May 2013 #67
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Good advice
From this guys postings its easy to see that his young lady is just acting like a spoilt brat
Using her temper tantrums to try and control him with added silly remarks
Why should he hang around for more abuse and i am sure it would not be so difficult to find a replacement
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23rd May 2013 #68
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23rd May 2013 #69
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23rd May 2013 #70
I remember the first pinay I dated back in 2005. She was 27 but acted like a teenager and was very insecure. She kept on saying ''Do you still like me?" all the time even though I had only known her a week or so.
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23rd May 2013 #71
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23rd May 2013 #75
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These days I'm grateful if they're under 50 and will give me a second look.
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23rd May 2013 #76
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23rd May 2013 #78
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Oh that's good then, I must still be young in my ways.
Hey...it's hard enough getting worked up about a woman when you're old...gotta have something tasty to look at to set the old wheels in motion.
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23rd May 2013 #80
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JEEZUZ !!!
Don't do that !
Gave me the fright of my life !
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23rd May 2013 #81
Not pleasant viewing I must admit.
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23rd May 2013 #82
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My little sweetheart will do fine for me...even at the ripe old age of 27.
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24th May 2013 #84
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Yeah...got to go and chat to her now, so catch you later.
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24th May 2013 #86
What happen to Jellodude???
I hope he's all right
....update us soon mate''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
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25th May 2013 #87
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Sorry i have not been around. My laptop is broke right now so im using my phone for the internet.
Ok we managed to speak on the phone (skype) and she says she was feeling insecure and because of the long distance between us. I have to say i have had previous girlfriends who were totally batshit nuts so these kinds of antics dont really phase me. I have to remember that we have been communicating mainly via txt by yahoo messenger (my laptop broke atm) so misunderstandings happen. Also we get on great in person. Once i get sorted financially i am planning to visit her for longer in PI later this year (max of 21 days without visa i think yeah)
Also she does have troubles that make her life hard (family stuff) she shares with me. I know i said before she asked me to help her with money for college but she was desperate as she isnt sure she will be able to continue her studies. She has to pay her fees for the next semester which starts very soon. I have asked her to try negotiate paying in installments. So i will find out next week how that goes. She told me the other day she was txted by a professor at her college asking her where she was and she wasnt sure how to answer because she doesnt want to disclose the money problems she has in paying fees (feeling ashamed). So possibly it was last week her fees were due and college started last week. AMA College in Dasmarinas.
As always i am careful but i trust her. I will find out the latest when she comes back from a trip she took this weekend (to a spiritual youth camp thing in Zambales)
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25th May 2013 #88
Thanks for the update Jello,
Photos of the camping will help you to know if she is being honest about her trip.
Small step only though okIf you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up
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25th May 2013 #89
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Yeah she said she will get photos. If she cant get a camera herself then her friend will take photos.
Theres a good chance i will be working within a month and i definately want to help herl rent her own place (living conditions at home not good) ive researched average rent pcm around 3500 so i am happy to help in that regard. maybe also get her another phone where skype works ok because right now i have to pay a skype sub to philippines to be able to phone her mobile in PI. She only has a netbook which is pretty slow.
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25th May 2013 #90
There are alternatives to Skype if she has wifi or internet at home that are free. I use Viber to talk to my wife in Phils as well as WeChat and WhatsApp
At this stage though I feel you are going too far to look after her by renting a place for her. Remember her living conditions are not the same as ours and what you see as maybe crowded or not private are normal. Example, even at my home, everyone sleeps together on a large sponge mattress in the living room. (when I am not home of course) and I have done the same when staying with family. Please consider everything before you make a rod for your own back, because once you start... there is no turning back.If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up
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