Large Age Gap And Happy :)

[anonymous]

Welcome to the forum Ann

Thanks aug06_2006

[sars_notd_virus]

I am sorry if I need to comment on this thread , but as I've said before, an age gap of 20-30years will be fine but 40years and plus is a big NO NO ....why????? its doesnt look healthy !! c'mon people be real!!

[grahamw48]

It's up to the individuals involved. Nowt to do with anyone else.

I think fat people look unhealthy, but they are entitled to be fat (and happy) and it's not illegal.

[joebloggs]

Actually, where my wife comes from in the Philippines they dont abandon there loved ones into institutions...they actually care and look after them by themselves....as is the norm in the Philippines....its whats expected of the family...unlike here in the west

that's because they or their families cant afford to pay care home fees, which are minimum of £25k a year without nursing care in the UK , and with nursing care could be up to £45k a year depending where you are in the UK .

[melovesengland]

It's up to the individuals involved. Nowt to do with anyone else.

I think fat people look unhealthy, but they are entitled to be fat (and happy) and it's not illegal.

Im fat, im happy and its not illegal.

[grahamw48]

Im fat, im happy and its not illegal.

Ooops.

[anonymous]

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[grahamw48]

Should 60 year-olds be banned from Ice-Skating, or racing their cars ?

Pah !

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[imagine]

my favourite saying is ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, your as old as the woman you feel,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

is that allowed

[grahamw48]

Well, as long as you have her permission.

[Doc Alan]

Wow ! There's me thinking fat people are unhealthy, and mostly unhappy . Drinking alcohol to excess and smoking are also not illegal for adults, but I also don't think they're good for health. There's an " epidemic " of obesity, inactivity, and alcohol abuse in the UK. This costs OUR NHS - taxpayer funded - an unsustainable amount, not to mention cost to the individual and their loved ones.
I don't make judgements on lifestyle choices - whether age gap in a relationship, diet, exercise, drinking, smoking, legal sexual preferences, or even illegal drug abuse. Illness should not be stigmatised because of its cause(s). I can't dictate - on a forum where I don't know most members - what their lifestyle should be.
What I have done during my membership of the forum is to give information on health matters which is accurate to the best of my knowledge. Members may ignore, take note, or disagree ( with their evidence for doing so ).
My point in this thread is only that - in my humble opinion - members in ANY relationship, regardless of age difference, should try to look after their health. Surely that is beyond argument. If members disagree, it's time I left the forum !

[Steve.r]

My point in this thread is only that - in my humble opinion - members in ANY relationship, regardless of age difference, should try to look after their health. Surely that is beyond argument. If members disagree, it's time I left the forum !

No argument there Alan

Maybe our 'younger' spouces should make sure us older ones stay fit and healthy. After all, it is in everyone's interest to live a long and happy life together whatever the age gap. I know in my relationship, my beautiful wife and I made a beautiful baby who will keep us on our toes for years to come

[RickyR]

Well I can't argue about age differences. My wife is 35, and I'm 27 years old. What cradle snatchers these Filipinas are!

[anonymous]

I am sorry if I need to comment on this thread , but as I've said before, an age gap of 20-30years will be fine but 40years and plus is a big NO NO ....why????? its doesnt look healthy !! c'mon people be real!!

No need to say sorry sars_notd_virus . Everybody has a freedom to express or state his honest opinion I respect your opinion though. God bless

[lastlid]

A couple of threads on the very topic...

http://filipinaroses.com/showthread....age+difference

http://filipinaroses.com/showthread....t=relationship

[gWaPito]

I certainly agree with, in order of posts, Graham's, Steve r's and Doc Alan's take on this

Graham mentioned the ugly sight of a lardy couple walking hand in hand..for me an even more repugnant sight is a couple of gays walking hand in hand

It puts the sight of the young/old couple into perspective...I mean, at least copulation is normal...with the prospect of being able to multiply...as the Good Lord intended.

[Arthur Little]

Im fat, im happy and its not illegal.

Judging by your avatar, you certainly look ... but DEFINITELY NOT fat - NOR, even in the slightest, overweight!

[grahamw48]

I certainly agree with, in order of posts, Graham's, Steve r's and Doc Alan's take on this

Graham mentioned the ugly sight of a lardy couple walking hand in hand..for me an even more repugnant sight is a couple of gays walking hand in hand

It puts the sight of the young/old couple into perspective...I mean, at least copulation is normal...with the prospect of being able to multiply...as the Good Lord intended.

Yep...can't really knock it...male of legal age plus female of legal age, mutually consenting and in a healthy loving relationship.

Meanwhile laws are being changed to permit those taking part in unnatural (and to many, UNACCEPTABLE ) sexual relationships to marry in church and receive the blessing of the man in the clouds.

Do I feel bad having the effrontery to still find fertile young ladies attractive ?

No I don't.

[LastViking]

Welcome to the Forum Ann and I hope you enjoy the experience. When do you hope to come to the UK?

[MissAna]

after reading all other comments here , i'm quite shocked that 'some' people think that having a relationship with older men is not healthy. anyway it's their opinion

all i can say is: AGE IS JUST A NUMBER if love is genuine

[Steve.r]

i'm quite shocked that 'some' people think that having a relationship with older men is not healthy.

Not sure if that is the case Ana. I think the suggestion is that the 'extreme' age difference is probably more frowned upon as it looks like the girl (generally the case) is gold digging.

example: an 18 year old with a 75 year old isn't really looking for a long term relationship is she But maybe the guy is just looking for and ego boost, trophey wife, home help or just a .

[grahamw48]

I'll be willing to give it a go.

[gWaPito]

Not sure if that is the case Ana. I think the suggestion is that the 'extreme' age difference is probably more frowned upon as it looks like the girl (generally the case) is gold digging.

example: an 18 year old with a 75 year old isn't really looking for a long term relationship is she But maybe the guy is just looking for and ego boost, trophey wife, home help or just a .

I would imagine the 75yo is well past trophy hunting and ego boosting..such things are for the kids ...perhaps he's just looking for company for the remainder of his days...both are getting benefits from eachother.

[lastlid]

I'll be willing to give it a go.

And that brings your original "double entendre" posting flooding back.....

[MissAna]

Not sure if that is the case Ana. I think the suggestion is that the 'extreme' age difference is probably more frowned upon as it looks like the girl (generally the case) is gold digging.

example: an 18 year old with a 75 year old isn't really looking for a long term relationship is she But maybe the guy is just looking for and ego boost, trophey wife, home help or just a .

BUT in my opinion we cannot judge people , only GOD
if that's their happiness let it be. it's their life

[grahamw48]

I agree...and with my list of sins, what's one more ?

[sars_notd_virus]

after reading all other comments here , i'm quite shocked that 'some' people think that having a relationship with older men is not healthy. anyway it's their opinion

all i can say is: AGE IS JUST A NUMBER if love is genuine

hey girl, you obviously dont get my point ,..its not that its wrong its just doomed to failure can you imagine a 70 year old bloke trying to keep a 20 year old sexualy happy with out the use of tools
and other equipment ? each to their own and age is just a number but when they
are living in such a generation gap then its not going to work, never!!

[grahamw48]

We're all different.

If a lot of 20 and 30 something guys were keeping their wives happy they wouldn't be getting divorced after 4 or 5 years.

If the 70 year-old lasts 10 happy years, with or without the benefit of Cialis, then pegs it...leaving his wife some security, what's the difference ?

[lastlid]

We're all different.

If a lot of 20 and 30 something guys were keeping their wives happy they wouldn't be getting divorced after 4 or 5 years.

If the 70 year-old lasts 10 happy years then pegs it...leaving his wife some security, what's the difference ?

I have to say that I never thought of it like that before. Its a fair point. The only area I might differ on is that in one case it is known beforehand that the marriage will not last whereas in the other case the marriage may well succeed.

But I still agree with the point that you make.

[gWaPito]

I wholly agree with Graham's last post here.

You dont need to be seventy to be deemed dead between the legs either.....many a thirty and forty something having those same problems. Many of my nieces and nephews have fertility problems...all thanks to self indulgence in there much earlier years

Alot of it self inflicted through excessive drinking smoking and substance abuse..

On the flip side, my mum and dad were at it up to when he started having mini strokes mid seventies.

As for the bigoted remarks of the glory seeking ex ABC backing singer, well, you make your own mind up about him