how to manage the bad temper of your partner???

[bher]

how you manage the bad temper of your husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance?... better to tell whats wrong or just be quiet?...

[raynaputi]

you definitely need to tell him/her what's wrong..every relationship, especially LDRs, depends on having good communication too aside from being in love..issues will immediately resolved if u talked about it right away.

[bher]

you definitely need to tell him/her what's wrong..every relationship, especially LDRs, depends on having good communication too aside from being in love..issues will immediately resolved if u talked about it right away.

thats one thing that i don't like bout my husband' he admit that he have bad temper and not much patience with little things... we r opposite! sometimes we talk bout certain issues between us then there are arguements which is normal ofcourse' then i will jst keep quiet, then aftr few mins everything will be ok again' its like nothing happend..

[kalabasa]

how you manage the bad temper of your husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance?... better to tell whats wrong or just be quiet?...

Loads of patience and think the outcome if you both burst with temper and anger
being quite wont help but sometimes it good as to let the temp slow down

[bher]

Loads of patience and think the outcome if you both burst with temper and anger
being quite wont help but sometimes it good as to let the temp slow down

with the 3 yrs relationship we have i know i am the one who have lots of petience.. even if im younger than him.. i agree with you' sometimes it doesn't help but sometimes it is.. but most of the time when there is something wrong' he raise his voice and got mad without much reason i prefer to be quiet and not talk totally esp when his here... less talk, less arguements...

[kalabasa]

with the 3 yrs relationship we have i know i am the one who have lots of petience.. even if im younger than him.. i agree with you' sometimes it doesn't help but sometimes it is.. but most of the time when there is something wrong' he raise his voice and got mad without much reason i prefer to be quiet and not talk totally esp when his here... less talk, less arguements...

no matter what age gap we have with our partner the temper.bad feelings anger does arise but be strong rem we only lives ones so do not take it seriously just rem everyone is going through this stages of being married.

[bher]

no matter what age gap we have with our partner the temper.bad feelings anger does arise but be strong rem we only lives ones so do not take it seriously just rem everyone is going through this stages of being married.

i guess wat ever age both in a relationship there are really differences esp us its the culture... me even if its jst a light arguement i take it seriously and then i get emotional... bernadette are u also very emotional person?..

[kalabasa]

i guess wat ever age both in a relationship there are really differences esp us its the culture... me even if its jst a light arguement i take it seriously and then i get emotional... bernadette are u also very emotional person?..

oh yes i used to be that .. but the more emotion u put into things the more you get weaker but instead use your emotion to learn something new and it will lead you to be more mature and tough to when trouble comes you could stand in your own and not to be hurt that much

[raynaputi]

but if u wont tell him u have issues regarding him always raising his voice, he would think this is okay and u accept this kind of behavior, which in fact, u don't..yes, less talk less argument..but don't u think your feelings about this wouldn't bottle up in the process? I mean would u not be bothered by him raising his voice if he'll have another bad temper later?

[bher]

but if u wont tell him u have issues regarding him always raising his voice, he would think this is okay and u accept this kind of behavior, which in fact, u don't..yes, less talk less argument..but don't u think your feelings about this wouldn't bottle up in the process? I mean would u not be bothered by him raising his voice if he'll have another bad temper later?

when im quiet he knows theres something wrong.. but sometimes he is not bothered to make a move, jst want me to do the first.. and when he raise his voice i tell him don't do that bcoz it scares me, and he listen.. it jst sometimes he forget and i accept that! we cnt blame ourselves sometimes esp when we r upset or annoyed it shows in our voice and actions.. hes still my husband we have differences and we have to accept that even if its good or bad... thank's rayna...

[kalabasa]

but if u wont tell him u have issues regarding him always raising his voice, he would think this is okay and u accept this kind of behavior, which in fact, u don't..yes, less talk less argument..but don't u think your feelings about this wouldn't bottle up in the process? I mean would u not be bothered by him raising his voice if he'll have another bad temper later?

everybody i think has got that but depends on the couple how she/he gonna cope with that but does not mean you are taking all his temper and just be quite

[bher]

everybody i think has got that but depends on the couple how she/he gonna cope with that but does not mean you are taking all his temper and just be quite

im not taking all his temper.. sometimes wen its non sense im jst ignoring him and likes nothing is happening.. lol

[KeithD]

It helps if both partners are dumb

[bher]

It helps if both partners are dumb

hahahaha,u enlighten me boss lol...

[sars_notd_virus]

how you manage the bad temper of your husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance?...

Man always wants to be right!!!!

so just tease him and say his abs looks even more sexier when he is on bad temper

[kalabasa]

Man always wants to be right!!!!

so just tease him and say his abs looks even more sexier when he is on bad temper

well said sars and the more you tease the more the merrier

[bher]

well said sars and the more you tease the more the merrier

sars & dette- wen husband/wife is mad can they stil make while there is a problem?... jst asking!!!

[triple5]

sars & dette- wen husband/wife is mad can they stil make while there is a problem?... jst asking!!!

Isn't that called "making up"

[bher]

Isn't that called "making up"

i mean can they make L while there is a problem?...

[kalabasa]

sars & dette- wen husband/wife is mad can they stil make while there is a problem?... jst asking!!!

of cousre why not do that evrytime to release the bad feelings it helps..

[bher]

of cousre why not do that evrytime to release the bad feelings it helps..

haven't try that yet... hahahha, is that still feel comfortable even if there is a bad feelings?....

[kalabasa]

sars & dette- wen husband/wife is mad can they stil make while there is a problem?... jst asking!!!

why not rem life is for living

[bher]

why not rem life is for living

ooh definitely it is... i must try that when husband come here, lol...

[bher]

Man always wants to be right!!!!

so just tease him and say his abs looks even more sexier when he is on bad temper

sars, same as women.. we want everthing to be right.. he has a little tummy, so he doesn't have abs lol...

[rani]

just ignore, leave him and go to a quiet place... talk to him at bedtime and tell him how you really feel about it.. but never do the "head on" coz it wont do any good... maybe when he's more older then he will slow down.. hahaha then its vengeance time

[kalabasa]

just ignore, leave him and go to a quiet place... talk to him at bedtime and tell him how you really feel about it.. but never do the "head on" coz it wont do any good... maybe when he's more older then he will slow down.. hahaha then its vengeance time

dont ignore it count every minutes and everyhour his bad temper arises and at the end of the day give him a nice warm cup of tea to remind his a very loving husband in anyway he acts

[bher]

just ignore, leave him and go to a quiet place... talk to him at bedtime and tell him how you really feel about it.. but never do the "head on" coz it wont do any good... maybe when he's more older then he will slow down.. hahaha then its vengeance time

te rani yeah sometimes i jst ignore and i will be quiet but i wont leave... that wont help for us.. i jst wanna share this' sometimes wen we r having arguements wen we go to bed we don't really talk much.. and i don't say good night and wont kiss him.. im also doing that everytime im upset and mad.. then nxt day we r stil not talking but i make sure i'll make him a tea and food.. then one of us will start the conversation, say wat was the problem and fix it..

[rani]

te rani yeah sometimes i jst ignore and i will be quiet but i wont leave... that wont help for us.. i jst wanna share this' sometimes wen we r having arguements wen we go to bed we don't really talk much.. and i don't say good night and wont kiss him.. im also doing that everytime im upset and mad.. then nxt day we r stil not talking but i make sure i'll make him a tea and food.. then one of us will start the conversation, say wat was the problem and fix it..

its hard for me to sleep without solving the issue with my partner... i am a crying lady and i always cry whenever i feel bad

anyways, hope that everything will go on smoothly between the two of you...

[bher]

[QUOTE=rani;245185]its hard for me to sleep without solving the issue with my partner... i am a crying lady and i always cry whenever i feel bad

anyways, hope that everything will go on smoothly between the two of you... [/QUOTE

not easy to sleep while there is a problem behind but sometimes we cnt stop our pride... i am also crying lady te rani' i always cry infront of him.. im jst too emotional... then he will tell me to stop crying and give me a big hug and a nice kiss... were ok te, jst had a little tampo lst night to him... thank you te rani...

[triple5]

I used to have a partner with a short temper, and it just brought out the worst in me. If somebody raises their voice to me I can get quite which isn't really in my nature I read somewhere that bad tempers stem from past troubles and there's not a lot you can do to change that in somebody... so i eventually left her