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    What is a commitment to you and when do u say you r committed in a relationship??

    ..in this crazy world we live in today .. when does commitment really starts and do we really know what it means??
    ''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''


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    Hey, if you're looking for a real headache.. sorry, some musings on the matter of love and committment (and if the moderators don't mind a slight diversion.. ) have a look at my blog on:

    http://gavin-lifeintheshell.blogspot.com

    I've given these matters quite a bit of thought lately.. so much thought in fact that I didn't really consider it a wise move to cut and paste them into here!


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    commitment means different things to different people. Difficult to define really


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    yes:got 65 views and only 2replies
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    Quote Originally Posted by sars_notd_virus View Post
    ..in this crazy world we live in today .. when does commitment really starts and do we really know what it means??
    Hello

    I was commited soon after meeting my wife in person, in fact I was too commited as she used me only for money, we are now in the oprocess of divorce.

    Mick.


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    For me it's when you want a relationship with that person/agree that you are in a relationship with them and want to know them even more. Also that you decide that you are only interested in them and off the market as far as other members of the opposite sex are concerned.


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    Commitment is different to different people, even in a marriage you'll find that both parties give a different explanation.

    Wife: I give my heart and soul to my hubby.
    Hubby: I may miss the odd match on a Saturday to take her shopping.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mickcant View Post
    Hello

    I was commited soon after meeting my wife in person, in fact I was too commited as she used me only for money, we are now in the oprocess of divorce.

    Mick.
    Hi mick
    yeah i've read most of your thread and i have to agree with u really into deep commitment to your wife and more than so but your wife is not even into 'a pre-commitment' made me but glad u woke up mick so goodluck my friend
    ''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''


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    Quote Originally Posted by South-east boy View Post
    For me it's when you want a relationship with that person/agree that you are in a relationship with them and want to know them even more. Also that you decide that you are only interested in them and off the market as far as other members of the opposite sex are concerned.
    In other words... both person is conscious and aware that both of them are into a relationship and in commitment?
    ''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''


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    Quote Originally Posted by sars_notd_virus View Post
    ..in this crazy world we live in today .. when does commitment really starts and do we really know what it means??
    When does it start? When the 2 people actually agree on something and work towards a common goal

    I always find the word commit a bit strange in this context. After all if one is commited, he is commited to murder. Always hear that in the police drama. So its an old fashioned word.

    How about pledge? But that sounds like polish
    It's time to kick ass and chew bubble gum. And I'm all out of gum.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post

    Hubby: I may miss the odd match on a Saturday to take her shopping.
    yes boss ... to miss the odd match and take your wife shopping is commitment...but the wife to give up her shopping to go to a match ,,that's just asking too much
    ''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''


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    Quote Originally Posted by sars_notd_virus View Post
    yes boss ... to miss the odd match and take your wife shopping is commitment...but the wife to give up her shopping to go to a match ,,that's just asking too much
    I dont know I managed to get the missus to a football match when shops were open..

    Ok via a Fillpino Buffet in Earls court and quick shifty round regent/bond street but it can happen. She was delighted she could go shopping at the football and now has half the family kitted out in Spurs outifts

    I think its when you both start to realise the big scarfices you make without even thinking about them or needing to justify.
    Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops


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    Commitment for me is willingly give my time, talents, thoughts, efforts, and trust. It is also keeping promises and a pledge of loyalty and faithfulness with someone.

    I can say I am committed in a relationship when I want to share all my sentiments, dreams, hopes, worries and my entire life. I am ready to compromise, sacrifice, and fight for our relationship.

    I believe in our relationship to stand by it through the worst of times and to have faith in our strength as a couple and to never give up. I HIM THAT MUCH to spend the rest of my life and never want to leave him or live without him
    Though you do not write books, you are the writer of your life. Because everything depends on YOU.


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    My commitment is to make love to them until Ive had enough!! Getting older now so dont read too much into that!


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    Quote Originally Posted by fred View Post
    My commitment is to make love to them until Ive had enough!! Getting older now so dont read too much into that!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sars_notd_virus View Post
    In other words... both person is conscious and aware that both of them are into a relationship and in commitment?
    Yep, but sadly I've never had anyone want to properly commit to me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by South-east boy View Post
    Yep, but sadly I've never had anyone want to properly commit to me.
    Be a winner, not a whiner!


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    Quote Originally Posted by pacificelectric View Post
    Be a winner, not a whiner!
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    Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops


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    "When you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible".


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    Quote Originally Posted by GaryFifer View Post
    When does it start? When the 2 people actually agree on something and work towards a common goal
    true enuff working as a team


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    I dont know I managed to get the missus to a football match when shops were open..
    She was delighted she could go shopping at the football and now has half the family kitted out in Spurs outifts
    Lucky wife

    Quote Originally Posted by liane View Post
    Commitment for me is willingly give my time, talents, thoughts, efforts, and trust. It is also keeping promises and a pledge of loyalty and faithfulness with someone.
    Commitment,promise,pledge not much a difference ...the general consensus is that when u make a pledge/promise u r making a commitment

    Quote Originally Posted by fred View Post
    My commitment is to make love to them until Ive had enough!! Getting older now so dont read too much into that!

    ''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''


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    Quote Originally Posted by aryM View Post
    "When you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible".
    Hello Rayna
    ''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''


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    Quote Originally Posted by aryM View Post
    "When you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible".
    Quote Originally Posted by sars_notd_virus View Post
    Hello Rayna
    Hahahaha! EXACTLY!
    -=rayna.keith=-
    ...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...



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    I realised my commitment when I offered to buy Jhean an iron

    Then she blew me away by perfectly ironing my shorts with my zippo lighter (I dont normaly lend it to anyone)in less than 30 minuits what a woman

    We are looking forward to spending the rest of our lives together and its already started

    When I asked her what she wanted she said "somewhere quiet to live and rice three times a day and a snack" and ive promised her I will always make it my first priority in life


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    Quote Originally Posted by keithAngel View Post
    my first priority in life
    i agree....good answer
    ''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''


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    I give my heart, body and soul to my husband.

    My heart if boyfriend.

    But not my rights and freedom.


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    Quote Originally Posted by pennybarry View Post

    But not my rights and freedom.
    Girl Power!!
    ''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''


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