Quote Originally Posted by Northerner View Post
I know this has been touched upon time and time again, but I wanted to just pick the brains of the current forum members.

which option do you guys think is best considering A, possible future immigration rules, B costs and C ease of passing??

Sean sir i know you need to start planing but its always worth going back for the 2nd trip if you can to make sure you are both right for one another.

Spouse in my view but make sure you really are suited as especially for your Mahal once she is married its not quite so simple (at least in Phill) to be divorced and free to remarry.

I know you dont want to be contemplating that but worth bearing mind.

Its a big ask of a young woman to come to the hustle and bustle yet totally often socially quiet neighbourhoods of the UK. Some can adapt, some thrive (my Wife is one) others cant so do make sure your Mahal is fully aware of what moving to the UK means.

Look on this site at how Ladies who we have as a forum had the privillige of knowing both while they are still in phill and then in the UK how they change and often struggle to deal with life in the UK.


I know there is always a hurry on been there and got the T shirt