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6th January 2010 #91
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good luck Mick - its difficult to trust again, you're a strong man, hope its worth it
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7th January 2010 #93
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Is love really understanding and kind?
Is love doesn't keep any record of wrong?
Is love conquers all? Is she's the last woman on earth for you?
True or not, at your age and being retired, all you need is enjoyment of life.
We are concerned about you Mick!
You are the only one who can feel if she's the right woman for you.
I would like to see you happy like other retired/pensioners here.
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7th January 2010 #95
Hi all, I am trying toattch two photos of Jennifer in the snow, I have used the add button.
Hope they show up.
mick.
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7th January 2010 #99
You could be right, but if Mick is prepared to give her the benefit of the doubt only time will tell. Personally, after what has gone on, if I were in Mick's shoes I would at least be trying to take some steps to protect my interests financially and with regard to property etc.
Iain.
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7th January 2010 #100
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7th January 2010 #101
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7th January 2010 #102
Hi Iain,
There really is nothing left to protect!
We live in a Housing Association Sheltered Home, it is a nice ground floor flat in a block of only 4 flats, they are well insulated and we get no problems with noise, and get on well with the other residents.
As it is sheltered housing, Jennifer cannot become a joint tenant, nor could she in any futcher martial dispute get me out, as I am the tenant, if I die she will have to move from the flat, this does not mean she would be made homeless but nobody can be a tenant here until they are 55 or disabled, and Jenn is 29.
As for finances I do still have some savings but not much, in an account in my name only, she cannot access it.
I have told her we need that for the next stage in her settlement plan in 2 years time.
Things do seem to be better this time, but only time will tell, I do hope it continues to get better.
To be honest, if this relationship does fail, I could not afford to start again with another woman after paying for a divorce, nor do I think would I want to.
So my only hope of being happily settled is with Jennifer, and yes I do want it to work.
I have had mixed reaction from my family (siblings) but both my sons have given us their blessing; one of them also has a Filipina partner.
Thanks Mick.
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8th January 2010 #103
I wish you all the best of luck Mick. I hope her reasons for coming back to you are genuine, no ulterior motives.
Just be very careful and I hope this time she better be good to you. You've done too many things to make her happy and have a comfortable life. I wish she knows how to appreciate you with all of these.
I wish you luck in your happiness.Though you do not write books, you are the writer of your life. Because everything depends on YOU.
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8th January 2010 #104
Mick..Is she still sending your money to P.I?? Does she work? Is she sending her own cash perhaps?
Regards,
Fred.
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8th January 2010 #105
I’m just got a read now for the new update with your wifey, we followed your story and frustration, disappointment .. etc. I agreed for them too but still glad to hear that you made a decision for having your wife again… I know it is hard and not too easy but I salute the way you work your marriages now even for what the heartache she gives to you still you stand on it. You’re a truely and a very strong man… we only hope and pray that it is the last things she can do for you and I hope she do the right things too as your wife and built a happy family… she is too young still and her mind still looking something that she feel happy and make her satisfied.. I know you learn lots of things in your heart just don’t give all the trust and love again for her because it is really hard to stand again when you fall but always remember that life still keep going on and for wanting the completeness of our life we under go for all trials where we can surive or not ...time really so fast to come... you are the one who knows things just hoping it is working last forever and we wish you good luck Mr. Mickcant, this year and the years to come…
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8th January 2010 #106
Good luck to you Mick.
Its easy to draw the conclusions that so many people seem to have come to here, but you're the man on the frontline that sees the whole picture and not just piecing together the bits fromn threads here.
As always, my advice is to be cautious, but not paranoid.
There are plenty of ways to keep an eye on people, including software to track computer usage. (I've worked in the IT industry for alooong time so if you need any info drop me a line).
Good luck - I hope to hear positive news from you for a long time to come'The mind is like a parachute - It works best when its OPEN'
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8th January 2010 #107
Good luck to you Mick.
Its easy to draw the conclusions that so many people seem to have come to here, but you're the man on the frontline that sees the whole picture and not just piecing together the bits fromn threads here.
As always, my advice is to be cautious, but not paranoid.
There are plenty of ways to keep an eye on people, including software to track computer usage. (I've worked in the IT industry for alooong time so if you need any info drop me a line).
Good luck - I hope to hear positive news from you for a long time to come'The mind is like a parachute - It works best when its OPEN'
If you find my posts useful, amusing or interesting please feel free to add to my reputation
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8th January 2010 #108
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8th January 2010 #109
Hi Fred.
We have not sent any money as yet since she returned, there will be some I am sure.
She does not work yet, we have applied for a National Insurance number, but they send a pack, then call her for an interview.
Does anyone know if some employers might let her start work before she has a Number?
She would if possible like to be a "carer" in a nursing home.
Thanks Mick.
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9th January 2010 #113
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9th January 2010 #116
After all that Mick has gone through, I really hope that it works out this time with no more problems and they both have a very happy future together and the past problems will end up being a distant memory.
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9th January 2010 #117
Hi all,
I hoped I had coverd this when I said as we had been apart 20 months since the wedding,apart from the 12 days she was here first, we were more or less starting again in getting close to each other.
Jennifer does now sleep in the bed normally.
The rest will hopfully follow in time.
I am really not comfotable talking about our (lack of) sex life, while everything I have said about our marriage it the truth, if Jennifer were to read that I was talking about it, I think this could couse even more damage to our relationship.
I do think things will work out given time and love.
Mick.
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9th January 2010 #118
if she ever read this, i think your sex life and your marriage will be over...
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
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