I cant make babies

[jakeob]

As my search continues for a philipine bride, i an chatting with some beautiful young women, some with a child and most with out. I had a vasectomy 10 yrs ago, and i dont think i would want to start with babies again anyway.

I guess my question is did other men in the 40s have this obsticle when looking for a much younger woman to marry??

[KeithD]

I guess my question is did other men in the 40s have this obsticle when looking for a much younger woman to marry??

I got an older woman who eats kids so wasn't a problem.

[Tawi2]

You could always marry someone who is 40 with children already.Pinays love children,thats the plain and simple truth,thats one thing thats liable to cause a rift or chasm in a relationship,however much she says she doesnt want one in their heart of hearts they all do when they hear the biological clock ticking away in the background

[trader dave]

As my search continues for a philipine bride, i an chatting with some beautiful young women, some with a child and most with out. I had a vasectomy 10 yrs ago, and i dont think i would want to start with babies again anyway.

I guess my question is did other men in the 40s have this obsticle when looking for a much younger woman to marry??

no i had the chop 6 yrs ago my wife is young we discussed it she has 1 child already i have 3 older children

its done its finished as the wife would say it was not gods wish be thankfull for what we have already

its quite simple you cant give its over forget it find the right girl she will understand

[trader dave]

You could always marry someone who is 40 with children already.Pinays love children,thats the plain and simple truth,thats one thing thats liable to cause a rift or chasm in a relationship,however much she says she doesnt want one in their heart of hearts they all do when they hear the biological clock ticking away in the background

you are a glutton for punishment tawi this guy is looking for nourishment not punishment a 40 yr old wife with 6 kids i know a very nice lady like that our nanny

[mrs traderdave]

As my search continues for a philipine bride, i an chatting with some beautiful young women, some with a child and most with out. I had a vasectomy 10 yrs ago, and i dont think i would want to start with babies again anyway.

I guess my question is did other men in the 40s have this obsticle when looking for a much younger woman to marry??

its doesnt really matter if u cant give babies anymore as long u tell her everything and open to her that ur already vasectomy in 10yrs ago,im sure the right young woman will understand u and accept the reality that u cant give baby if she loves u so muchi got many friends in fs that there hubby cant give baby even they dont have any baby yet because they are still 19 and 21 and there hubby is 58 but as they said it doesnt matter because they discuss already earlier before they start there serious relationship and they accept already the reality because they use there heart not always there mind just to think to have baby even there hubby cant give as long they are both happy

[jakeob]

LOL i think i'am with dave on this one

[britishdetained]

having babies is a miracle...but what is more important is that your love to each other, that is the best recipe for a relationship. when you get the partner and met your soul mate she would understand you

[mrs traderdave]

LOL i think i'am with dave on this one

i got friend she looking for good man and we are the same age 24she have a chatmate english man but she was turn off cause very greedy to have a sex chat even she explain shes in public cafe

[Tawi2]

you are a glutton for punishment tawi this guy is looking for nourishment not punishment a 40 yr old wife with 6 kids i know a very nice lady like that our nanny

Dave I will be honest with you,theres nothing wrong with a 40 year old woman with 6 children,its a ready made family and saves all that grunting,and groaning,and fluid exchanges in the middle of the night

[jakeob]

Yes i have always thought if a guy puts his cards on the table and tells the truth then a woman can decide if she wants to marry him or not. Thats the logical way to do it, but i wonder when the honymoon period wears off, and the "Young Beautiful Virile" wife gets settled in the uk, will she change her tune?

I think a girl with a kid is a safer bet.

[KeithD]

having babies is a miracle...

....and here's me thinking it was down to a good hard

[jakeob]

Hey Tawi, i am looking forward to all the grunting and groaning, thats what keeps me going

[Tawi2]

Hey Tawi, i am looking forward to all the grunting and groaning, thats what keeps me going

Nights are meant for sleep,maybe read a book and have a cocoa before lights-out,the last thing you want is some nubile sweet smelling firm bodied female trying her hardest to keep you awake

[trader dave]

Nights are meant for sleep,maybe read a book and have a cocoa before lights-out,the last thing you want is some nubile sweet smelling firm bodied female trying her hardest to keep you awake

GOOD JOB you are not married to my wife you wont get no sleep she has a few years to catch up on

[trader dave]

Hey Tawi, i am looking forward to all the grunting and groaning, thats what keeps me going

me and my wifes way of thinking is ==== if you get the physical side sorted the rest falls into place

well it works for us

[jimeve]

Tawi, looks like your spanking the monkey, your latest avatar,

[Tawi2]

Tawi, looks like your spanking the monkey, your latest avatar,

Your the only one who realised Jim,such is the curse of the single guy

[JimOttley]

As my search continues for a philipine bride, i an chatting with some beautiful young women, some with a child and most with out. I had a vasectomy 10 yrs ago, and i dont think i would want to start with babies again anyway.

I guess my question is did other men in the 40s have this obsticle when looking for a much younger woman to marry??

jakeob one of the first things my partner asked was 'could I make babies?'

I was 45 she was 31 and already pregnant although I did not know that for the first few months, (long story so please don't judge her she is a good woman).

So yes it is important to them, I was single, never married and I was not looking for a relationship, I had pretty much given up on ever finding someone and for me it was a blessing and a massive surprise meeting my partner.

I knew very early that she wanted children and to be honest in the Phils I could not imagine a life without kids, over here in the UK I could (I have lots of friends that chose that kind of life) but somehow that has a sterile feel to it these days even at my age.

We decided last year after our daughter was born that enough was enough, Ana wanted to get sterilised but at 36 she is still to young, much safer cheaper and simpler for me to have the op which I did last year her in the UK.

There are lots of really nice girls in the Phils that need rescued for one reason or another, that is true everywhere in the world I suppose, you have to think about what you want to give and what you want to receive in a relationship.

Much older man (55+) with very - young woman (20 something) : you are probably going to be a surrogate father, I find it hard to imagine how people can connect over that age gap, it could I suppose be a lot of fun but probably a good idea to have a lot of cash to start with.

Age gap a bit less and a couple of kids already in tow - well divorce does not exist in the Phils and there are a lot of ladies that have been badly treated by their husbands and a lot who have lost their husbands, these are good people you could have a good life if you are kind and understanding man.

You have to be there and mix with the people and have an extremely open non-judgemental mind, if you can do that you may well meet someone that you can fall in love with and that loves you back.

I was always utterly crap at dating, so I'm not the best person in the world to give advice but just be honest say what you want in life and if there appear to be language difficulties (not all Filipina's have great English language skils) make sure that you make yourself really clear. After that it is all up to actual being with a person and seeing if you have chemistry not really any different to making a relationship anywhere else in the world.

My Ana is the best English speaker in her family, she also speaks Korean, a little Spanish and some Japanese, language is her main skill in life but we still end up in terrible misunderstandings over interpretation of English sometimes

Hope you find someone!


Jim

[pennybarry]

We, Filipinas loves to have babies but if you will discuss ealier then that will be have no problem at all if you love each other.

In our case, hubby can surely make a baby as he has children in the past and I had none. We kept on trying until I've found out that pursuing to have even one will cause me a very poor health and my 2 Gynecologists advise me to have an operation rather than taking the risk.

I had a choice, good health or still keeps on wishing? Me and hubby decided to choose not to have one and just enjoy our life and that was great, nothing change, we still love each other.

I have no regrets, as I feel better after operation than before. HEALTH is most important

[Ana_may365]

me and my hubby are contented and happyeven we cant make our own baby.he has 14 children all together to all his past ex's[married and live in]and i have 5 childrens.the important is we love each other in a bits even we have no baby.my hubby is 61 and im 44.

[Tawi2]

FOURTEEN Only?

[trader dave]

me and my hubby are contented and happyeven we cant make our own baby.he has 14 children all together to all his past ex's[married and live in]and i have 5 childrens.the important is we love each other in a bits even we have no baby.my hubby is 61 and im 44.

14 and 5 for you my god tell your husband to get a hobby joke lang

[JimOttley]

14 and 5 for you my god tell your husband to get a hobby joke lang

My mum was the youngest in a family of 11 and my dad was the eldest of 13, it's only a generation or two ago that this was common in the UK.

I think Ana_May's husband had a pretty good hobby

Ako din joke lang

(please pardon my poor Tagalog, I try hard but I'm not good at human languages only computer ones )

[badrock]

think of the fun trying.

[Braveheart]

hmmmmmmmmmmm.... maybe i could introduce you to a very good friend of mine, very much single (never married), in her 40's, not considering having children.

[Ana_may365]

14 and 5 for you my god tell your husband to get a hobby joke lang

what i mean is14 in my hubby's all ex's,and i have 5 for my past,see we dont need to make a lot of
coz were happy what we have

[lizaphil]

what i mean is14 in my hubby's all ex's,and i have 5 for my past,see we dont need to make a lot of
coz were happy what we have

wow ate ana 19 children all together,hehehe
it isent alot???
joke lang po i wish me too,i only got one??

[bystander09]

As my search continues for a philipine bride, i an chatting with some beautiful young women, some with a child and most with out. I had a vasectomy 10 yrs ago, and i dont think i would want to start with babies again anyway.

I guess my question is did other men in the 40s have this obsticle when looking for a much younger woman to marry??

When your relationship becomes clearer, I am sure that you could find a proxy on this site to act on your behalf....

bystander

[GaryFifer]

Heck just enjoy the relationship first before you even get talking about the baby side of it. When it comes up in conversation I think, then that is the time to talk about it.

Is it possible to get it reversed? Talk with a doc.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasectomy