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How to forget someone that you love if he doesn't love you anymore?
My X-Partner has a boyfriend now.
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I'm sorry to say it, but its not going to be easy. Unrequited love can be incredibly painful.
IMHO, if you are able, I think it helps not to feel bitter about things, and to wish your ex the best with their new life and new partner, rather than wishing they were with you.
That hole inside you is going to take a while to fill up tho. :(
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Yeah...I know it wont be easy for me. Im so much in pain right now. I want to move on now. Its been 5 months since we part ways.
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Time............................................................. Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
Yeah...I know it wont be easy for me. Im so much in pain right now. I want to move on now. Its been 5 months since we part ways.
It just takes time.
Be strong and your feelings will come back.
Best of luck.
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Originally Posted by aposhark
thank you so much....
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The fiesta today is the biggest in Europe fated,I am going there NOW,just about to log off,I think Alan K is there today?The comedian who owns the comedy bar Zirkoh in manila?If I see any bayots/baklas I will ask for a pic for you k?
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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Move on life is beautiful and besides you are about to study here in UK u can meet better than him/her whatever u prefer Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
My X-Partner has a boyfriend now.
Goodluck and enjoy life
Don't make promises when you are in JOY. Don't reply when you are SAD.
Don't take decisions when you are ANGRY. Think twice, Act wise. BE happy.
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I dont know but from this moment i feel the pain. Originally Posted by LEAHnew
Move on life is beautiful and besides you are about to study here in UK u can meet better than him/her whatever u prefer Goodluck and enjoy life
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Eat some chocolate,ice cream or cake it will ease the pain quick Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
I dont know but from this moment i feel the pain.
Don't make promises when you are in JOY. Don't reply when you are SAD.
Don't take decisions when you are ANGRY. Think twice, Act wise. BE happy.
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"That hole inside you is going to take a while to fill up tho."
Me bad,double entendre
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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Sorry to hear about that paul..... Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
My X-Partner has a boyfriend now.
it's been 5 months since you separated, and now he got somebody else.....clearly he already moved on......and SO CAN YOU,
the earlier you accept that, the better for you and the easier for you to get over and forget your ex......
Of course the pain is unbearable.......but trust me, you'll get over it.........
And don't find reasons anymore to blame yourself or anyone for the failure of your relationship, it happens all the time....people fall out of love....
Let go and do not feel sorry for yourself nor wallow in self pity, just have fun, be happy on your own and enjoy what you have now - your family, friends, career
I'm sure you will find someone new in time, but don't rush, take time to heal before you jump into another relationship....
a relationship on a rebound is always a bad idea................so cheer up, he's just a man - soooooo replaceable
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
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I give everything to him, my love and my soul but what he did from me is horrible! I hate him a lot!!! Originally Posted by Sophie
Sorry to hear about that paul.....
it's been 5 months since you separated, and now he got somebody else.....clearly he already moved on......and SO CAN YOU,
the earlier you accept that, the better for you and the easier for for you to get over and forget your ex......
Of course the pain is unbearable.......but trust me, you'll get over it.........
And don't find reasons to blame yourself or anyone for the failure of your relationship, it happens all the time....people fall out of love....
Let go and do not feel sorry for yourself nor wallow in self pity, just have fun, be happy on your own and enjoy what you have now - your family, friends, career
I'm sure you will find someone new in time, but don't rush, take time to heal before you jump into another relationship....
a relationship on a rebound is always a bad idea................so cheer up, he's just a man - soooooo replaceable
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Now put all that energy into loving someone who loves you back just as much. Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
I give everything to him, my love and my soul but what he did from me is horrible! I hate him a lot!!!
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Loving who? I haven't see the right guy for now but i know in time. I wish this is all a dream. Originally Posted by Win2Win
Now put all that energy into loving someone who loves you back just as much.
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Move on,dont be consumed by hate,forgive and forget,if that doesnt make you feel better give him a decent kick in his itlogs
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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You will find the right guy, just be patient.....love will come, in time Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
Loving who? I haven't see the right guy for now but i know in time. I wish this is all a dream.
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
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we all invest so much and put a lot into our relationship.....sometimes we even give all, that we forget to leave something for ourselves... Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
I give everything to him, my love and my soul but what he did from me is horrible! I hate him a lot!!!
so it's normal that you feel so hurt, enraged and angry now, as you gave your all in that relationship.....and now that he's got someone new, you feel betrayed..
The pain is terrible and horrible indeed but try to accept the reality that he doesn't love you anymore and he already found somebody else....
You wouldn't want to force yourself into someone who doesn't feel thesame way about you anymore...
Let him go and move on.....i'm sure you'll have a chance for new love later on...."10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
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Thanks for all the help sophie...I want to cry! but people says boys dont cry right? Originally Posted by Sophie
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Guys do cry,but a very wise woman once told me its not actually full on sobbing like a woman,when guys cry its called "Controlled crying"
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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Hey, cry it out paul, you can even scream if you want.....it will make you feel a lot better.... Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
Thanks for all the help sophie...I want to cry! but people says boys dont cry right?
And crying doesn't mean you're weak and it's a perfectly healthy outlet....makes you feel a lot less heavier inside....
The more you keep it all in, the harder will it be for you to get over the pain, so cry it out as much as you want.....
eventually, your tears will run out and so does your feelings for your ex....
you're welcome by the way
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
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Crying can help you release all the pains in someway so cry if you feel crying Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
Thanks for all the help sophie...I want to cry! but people says boys dont cry right?
Keep yourself occupied stop thinking about the person move on life is always beautiful. I know its not easy but keep on Time will heal the pains
LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL
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Oh dear...sacrificing yourself for someone can make you feel angry and hurt and resentful if they don't treat you right..
I keep myself happy by keeping my mind open to the magnificence of this life/world/universe....the media are always giving us bad news stories, it's as if they are deliberately trying to condition us into believing life is bad..
I believe life is so magnificent, that our minds are unable to comprehend just how great it is!
You don't need a relationship to make your life happy, a good relationship is obviously a bonus though!
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7 Material Plane: The earth, where you are right now.
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3 Too mysterious to describe.
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You are still young and can still find better than your ex. There's always a good reason why it happened! Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
I give everything to him, my love and my soul but what he did from me is horrible! I hate him a lot!!!
If you have already met the right one for you, you'll probably feel you were silly before
Cheer up!!! and Goodluck!!!
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move on fated and cheers up don't think about your ex Originally Posted by fatedtoloveyou
My X-Partner has a boyfriend now.
all things are possible!
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Now I am confussed about fatedtoloveyou a boy or a girl
Sorry now I am late sa news
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he's a man. Originally Posted by Mrs.JMajor
Now I am confussed about fatedtoloveyou a boy or a girl Sorry now I am late sa news 
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Originally Posted by Mrs.JMajor
Now I am confussed about fatedtoloveyou a boy or a girl Sorry now I am late sa news
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The best way is to stop being the victim... and feeling like a victim... life is beautiful if you allow it to be... you are alive and therefore, can still have a chance to find the love that you truly deserve... be proactive... you have the choice to wallow in pain and misery... or pick up the pieces and enjoy the life you have now...
Better be single than in a bad relationship... like what Sophie said, he has clearly moved on and so you should too.. you deserve to be happy...
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Ok fated,just for you I approached several Bayots earlier,I had a chat with them,they told me there are so many bayots here its like you have died and gone to heaven
I think this guy was funny,because when I approached him and said "Nene,pakuha naman ng litrato oh?" he started laughing,see,told ya,wont be long for youas soon as you get here they will be fighting over you
There was a pinay sitting near him who heard me chatting to him,she became my "Friend" she is 38,working here as a nurse,when I asked her was she single she said yes but hoping to be double 
I can take a hint and left rather quickly 
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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I told the guy the picture was for you Fated,he was ok with that,he was asking when your coming etc
Love is in the Air everywhere I look around. Love is in the Air every sight and every sound. And I don't know if I'm being foolish, don't know if I'm being wise. But it's something I must believe in, and it's there when I look in your eyes
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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