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12th July 2009 #1
victims of domestic violence
a new scheme announced for victims of domestic violence whose applications for indefinite leave to remain under the domestic violence rule are successful, will be given more help
http://www.theyworkforyou.com/wrans/...8.h#g282908.r0
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12th July 2009 #2
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12th July 2009 #4
while i wholy agree with you all about domestic violence there are also others that abuse the system make false claims ect, and again in the phils there are no rights ,phone the police because a wife has been beaten sorry they are not interested
i am sure many on here have heard or have there own storys to tell and yes i do have MY OWN story to tell having been charged as a wife beater
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12th July 2009 #5
without medical evidence i don't think anyone would be able to claim domestic violence..
al thou I know what you mean trader Dave, I've read a few cases where the marriage has not lasted, and the wife has gone on to claim she was raped and try to claim domestic violence, as they know they have no chance of getting ILR any other way, because the marriage is over.
but i'm sure for every case like yours there are many more, where the wife is abused and has no money, no friends, no where to go
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"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
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12th July 2009 #7
would breaking a nail while cleaning the house considered as domestic violence? hehehe...
just remembered a telenovela (Latin American one I think) who also mentioned that as indication of abuse... lol
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21st July 2009 #11
hi trader dave,
having been a victim of domestic violence myself is DEFINITELY NOT a thing you would wish to anyone, it's such a very painful process because not only it leaves a scar physically it leaves a scar emotionally as well not only to the victim but also to the victim's loved ones. i understand you have been wrongly accused or charged as a wife beater, all i can say is your ex wife must be on lowest low to do that.
when that incident happened i have to run to the nearest hospital and even agreed to be kept at the psychiatric dept because there was no space available at the hospital. it isn't nice. that's why i just couldn't comprehend how some could abuse the system claiming that they have been abused. like what i said "how low could you really go?"
for some who has been a victim of domestic violence you could contact me anytime thru this forum and i am very much willing to lend my help and knowledge.
good day everyone."Success is not about how much money you have; it's about the choices you can make in life"
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21st July 2009 #12
that`s good news Joe but what if the case is the other way around
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
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21st July 2009 #15
Instant photo images are, i believe, still admissible in court. Thus, victimless prosecution is possible should a victim decide not to or cannot give evidence.
Be responsible with little so that you can be trusted with much!!
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22nd July 2009 #17
Dear, this is a very sad story. What happened to your husband (or ex) after that? Was he prosecuted? Or atleast detained in a psychiatric unit? I can't imagine the sort of anger a spouse could have to end up beating his/her other half.
I know from your other posts that you have moved on and now happy with your new found love. I applaud you for your courage.
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22nd July 2009 #18
thanks miss piggy. yes it is very sad. it makes me angry specially when i hear news about domestic violence and the victim was never taken seriously or the abuser was just given a slap on the hand. he was investigated, he denied the allegations, fortunately his friends testified against him and i got medical records etc to prove that the incident did happened. he has no choice but to admit that he did assaulted me. unfortunately the system failed me as he was given a community service!!! i wasn't surprised to be honest as i have heard some victims ended up being paralyzed or even killed but the abuser just walked free.
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Sorry about that aphrodite.....but the most important thing is you're already over that nightmare.....
It will just be nothing but a bad memory....And you emerged as a stronger and better person....
Your ex may have scarred you physically and emotionally.........but he was never able to take your spirit,
your will and your courage to move on and pick up the pieces of your life and and start over.......
And as they say "You can never put a good woman down", and that's exactly you..."10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
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