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6th March 2009 #121
Thanks Piamed, I just need to get there ASAP. You wouldn't believe me, if I told you.
[QUOTE=Florge;119212]Hi Florge, she lives in the city & that's where she is now...Her parents live in the province, that's where she was called back to.
& yes, she will meet me at the airport, all being well.
This whole experience, has been an eyeopener....believe me.
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6th March 2009 #122
Well done Sim, I'm convinced that this is the right thing to do. I wish you both all the best.
She's in CDO? If you happen to travel down Davao direction, it would be good to meet you both.
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6th March 2009 #123
Goodluck to you Sim Keep us posted
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6th March 2009 #124
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6th March 2009 #125
Im good now thank you
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6th March 2009 #126
hin sim its nice to hear that something willhappen soon for ur love story wish u goodluck and happyness.
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6th March 2009 #127
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hi ive just come back from cagayan deoro and i met my fiaces family and family is so inportant to them i realy dont think if the family new he had attacked her they would except him into there family i think there is more to it but thats only my opinion but i no my fiance would put me before her family if she truly wants to be with you she will be. think you need to talk to her face to face .good luck.
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6th March 2009 #128
Thank you...I hope it's all good.
That's what I thought too. My advice...don't take anything for granted.
Well it seems in the end, she has done just that, but not without a lot of heartache in between.
There maybe a lot more to come, particularly for her as she has gone against her family. It could build up as resentment to me?
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6th March 2009 #129
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6th March 2009 #130
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6th March 2009 #131
Pag-ibig nga naman good luck SIM
can't wait to see Phils again this Dec 2009 hopefully with my dear one
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6th March 2009 #132
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7th March 2009 #133
Goodluck Sim, wishing u all the best..hope this time everything will be sorted out, u desrved to be happy..
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7th March 2009 #134
All I can say is that I hope all goes well in your favour, and get the result you wish for.
Family pressure can break relationships, but if she agreed to see you despite it, might mean that she is willing to be indipendent.
So don't despair, think positive, act positive and all will be ok.
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7th March 2009 #135
I am so sorry to hear your sad story sim.it was unexpected never thought you in this situation.I just hope you will get through all this.God Bless
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
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7th March 2009 #136
Reads as if there maybe some good news. But like you say a lot for you to take in. The Wife and I had problems which if we lived round from the corner of one another would most likely been over in the blink of a eye or never happened.
I hope things work out for the best for both of you.Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops
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7th March 2009 #137
I am a newbie and this thread caught my eye. I wish you all the best Sim! I hope it would turn out as a good news! Keep us posted, will you? Take care!
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7th March 2009 #138
Hi Sim...
Hi there,
Wow!!! you sure have your problems and you don't need to go and look for them. Where do I start?, anyway, I have read your post and to be honest with you if your woman really loves you then she will fight for it and stick with you because no matter what type of hindrances may come you have only one principle on your mind that you have to be true and honest with your feelings and follow what your heart says, well, if you think and feel that she really loves you then no worry you can go on with your plan but if she's doubting where to go wether to follow her family or to be with you then if it's meant to be its meant to be but you're right don't mention about any redundancy money, to be honest if you are going to marry her I think it would be better if she applied for a Marriage settlement visa in Phils. and marry her in the U.K, the visa will take 3 months to process and if she is granted a visa then she can come here to the U.K for 6 months but you must marry her within the 6 months period or she needs to go home. A word of warning, if you are going to settle in the Phils. then you need to be careful if you are buying a lot or house and lot because you can't own the land in your name and you are a foreigner it has to be in your wife's name and thats when the problem can start after you've been together for a while.
Hope I can help you ......
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7th March 2009 #139
yey yey yey... I might be wrong after all!!! yey yey yey!!! everything seems to be good!!! love prevails .. wooohooooo.... god bless you sim.. all's well that ends well!
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7th March 2009 #140
Thank you Kimmi, very kind words.
Thanks aromulus, I hope we both get what we wish for...She is certainly very strong.
Thanks Mrs Daddy, well hopefully we will get through it.
Thanks somebody, I guess this long distance thing makes you fight harder. I know I wasn't really prepared to let it go.
I'm all fired up now...Let me on that plane NOWWWW!!!!!!
Hi there, nice to meet you...Well, I'm off there tomorrow morning.
Thank you, wise words indeed...I'll take on board what you are telling me.
Thanks Florge, we just have to be sure we want the same thing.
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7th March 2009 #141
try and have a good time at least you will know the truth and can decide whatever the problems are and how to deal with them?
so goodluck!
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8th March 2009 #142
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8th March 2009 #143
Right I'm off...got 3 planes to catch.
Cheers! everyone Take care
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8th March 2009 #144
hi sim goodluck to ur love hope to hear a good news.
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8th March 2009 #145
Ingat, Sim, have a safe trip. Hope everything will be all right.
Faith makes all things possible.
makes them easy.
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8th March 2009 #146
Good Luck Simon,
Have a couple of san migs at the night cafe for me.
Cheers,
Iain.
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8th March 2009 #147
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8th March 2009 #148
Good luck and God speed.
Have a safe and enjoyable trip, I hope everything turns out the best for you.JOHN and VANESSA
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8th March 2009 #149
Goodluck Sim
It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy.
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8th March 2009 #150
Go Simon, Go Simon, go Simon..... hmmmmmm we need Kimmi for cheerleading!
I hope it all works out for you guysLive your life for a reason and don't worry be happy
if you don't know where you are going then any road will do!!
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