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5th January 2009 #31
Haha, just pop them out like poo...lol
i think its a lot better rather than saying that they are pain in the pussycat,
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6th January 2009 #32
I'm not keen on having children at this time...maybe when I'm loaded with.. One thing for sure though..it's important to me that my Vimvie has my children!
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6th January 2009 #33
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6th January 2009 #34
Been married for only 6 months and my husband and I have decided to wait for at least a year before having kids...we're not in a rush and we really have to save up first. Having kids comes big responsibility and extra expenses, enjoyable as it might be.
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6th January 2009 #35
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10th January 2009 #37
Since we are talking about babies... here is my points of view...
Before even meeting my husband I worked as a parttime preschool teacher and I adored little monkies so much... They have this aura that you can never explain... They are sweet, funloving and very innocent. I learnt so much from them. From being silly to being so so happy and appreciative of any lil blessings being received... I said to myself, one day i will want to have one of those little cheeky monkies...
Now, on the 15th of this month will be our 2nd Wedding Anniversary and in April we are expecting for that lil munky to come out in this world to complete our family. We are thrilled, scared but excited of things to come...
Smelly nappies, poos, crying name it! Can be horrible but this is waht I have put in mind... I was once a baby and my parents once were very excited to see me (i hope lol) so i want to experience that kind of happiness too...
Think about, looking at your kids' eyes, their dainty lil hands, their cutest smile, very dependent on you... arent those great feelings? At the end of the day, it is you who will decide whether you like to have a kid or not... It is a responsibility, it is a joy, it is life that you are going to give and your kids' will give you life.
Parenthood will never be easy. Just be prepared. Lots of surprises will come... It is what we call life...
Enjoy!!!
Thank you!
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11th January 2009 #38
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i really love kids so much...
when i was young i've been a yaya to my younger cousins and 2nd mother to my nephews...
when i was 15yrs young i was wishing to have my own baby but of cors not to have a husband yet though it was really impossible that time.
my family knew that i rather have kids than to get married. well that was just in case i won't find a good husband..
so, unfortunately (or better say fortunately) got pregnant when i was 25 and my exbf just abandoned us... it was heart breaking and painful. but soon that my son was born and i laid my eyes on him everything's change. i feel complete and all my problems had gone.. made me a better person. goodbye nightlife and goodbye vices!!!
after 3 years being single (not even entertaining suitors).. it was my son who pushed me to find a husband. i thought i'll be enough for him... and i thought i'll be happy being a single parent too.
to cut the story short... i started dating.. meeting guys who just wanted me but not my son, well it's not my lost. how can they just love me and not my adorable son?!
finally, me and adam are destined to each other... a perfect husband and a perfect father to my son Yujin and to our coming son Isaac..
a dream come true... and still planning to have more babies. i know it's tough to raise a child and being a parent is all we (me and adam) are wishing for. even how hard and tough it will be... i'm sure it's WORTH having them.
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11th January 2009 #41
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i'm broke but i would rather be broke and have the kids, than 2 cars and a 50inch plasma ....... ....
Correct!!!
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11th January 2009 #43
After all that hard work for ILR now you got a wedding to avoid paying for
Should have seen the look my Wifes dads face when i said in the UK the Father of the Bride picks up all the bills To save a huge medical bill due to him going in to shoock i had to reasure him my family had it coveredOh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops
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18th April 2009 #50
I always think a house without a kid is like a jigsaw puzzle with a piece missing,children make a house a home,without a kids chatter bouncing off the walls its just a sterile dwelling,kids add character My sister is married to a Thai national,she has two sister in laws,both living in the UK and both have houses worth more than a million pounds,they came here with absolutely nothing and concentrated on their restaurant businesses expanding them and in that respect both have done well,but neither have a child and just like the old maids in pinas who sit and watch the happiness on the faces of local children,I see sadness in their eyes when they reflect on the one piece missing from their own particular puzzles Money means absolutely zip compared to a childs smile or one of those creased wrinkled smiles a young child gives you
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18th April 2009 #51
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18th April 2009 #52
Thats from the heart Mavid,I lost a woman in 2002,breast cancer,but she left a legacy sure he gives me headaches,heartaches,and earache,but as sure as the earth orbits the sun our lives revolve around our kids
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18th April 2009 #53
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18th April 2009 #54
He is a cutie,but only when he is asleep Good luck in the future Mavid,a child is a miracle,I hope you have one(or two).
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18th April 2009 #56
the house i live in has seen many sad times over the years, but for the last few years its been filled with the laughter of my 2 kids
i do more for my kids than i do for the misses, if my misses asks me to get up and do something, she would have to ask a few times , but little joe, he only has to ask the once
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18th April 2009 #57
I have a good friend living in Cebu,he is a brit,he has the most incredible daughter,her face radiates happiness,she is the most content kid I ever saw in my life,I havent seen her cry once,she is 3 years old now and never stops smiling,I think it would be nice to have a daughter,but when I asked my boy he asked for a puppy instead
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18th April 2009 #58
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18th April 2009 #59
People can be complete without having children. Children will take up alot of your time and can be expensive. That said my daughter Chloe has just turned 2 and the best thing ever to happen to me and she brings me joy everyday!
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18th April 2009 #60
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As for me, i guess its better to have children but only when you're ready. For now, i'm not yet keen on having a baby coz i wanna spend more time with just my hubby for a while and enjoy our marriage to the fullest and grow and mature even more before we take the big leap to parenthood.
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