stevewool
1st January 2017, 20:11
Well its been 4 weeks since i have made any sort of comments on here and what has changed "nothing really".
I have been coming on the odd time just to see if there is anything that takes my fancy and there is nothing .
I do like the thread about "whats happening to the forum", and all the comments about it, the name change , we need new people , we need humor and the list can go on,
To me its boring, the same folk saying the same things most of the time.
The trouble is without a certain few who can help in matters that are needed to bring your partner here the rest of us maybe are here just for a chat , friendship and something to do, many of us are in a rut.
There have been a few of us who have tried to inject new things into the forum and yes i understand its not to everyones taste what i or others have added, but it does make you think why should i bother when you get no replies and whats worst is its been seen by many but some folk are so far stuck in there own world they would rather just make a comment when others have.
What i have found interesting is from people and there experiences and how they came to be where they are and yes you do listen but it turns out they just contradict themselves over and over again , so really they are offering nothing but bad advice, most of usThey say that learn from our mistakes they say but if you are still living that way well how can others learn , thats unless you are wanting people to do what you have done "some people can be cruel that way".
They say that talking is good, and it is but sometimes you have to listen to yourself too. how many of us ever do that sit and listen to yourself.
Some people may think explaining things to folk is like bulling them but deep down some folk will never listen to good honest advice.
Well happy new year to you all , i do hope everything you are wanting will happen in time ,
I have been coming on the odd time just to see if there is anything that takes my fancy and there is nothing .
I do like the thread about "whats happening to the forum", and all the comments about it, the name change , we need new people , we need humor and the list can go on,
To me its boring, the same folk saying the same things most of the time.
The trouble is without a certain few who can help in matters that are needed to bring your partner here the rest of us maybe are here just for a chat , friendship and something to do, many of us are in a rut.
There have been a few of us who have tried to inject new things into the forum and yes i understand its not to everyones taste what i or others have added, but it does make you think why should i bother when you get no replies and whats worst is its been seen by many but some folk are so far stuck in there own world they would rather just make a comment when others have.
What i have found interesting is from people and there experiences and how they came to be where they are and yes you do listen but it turns out they just contradict themselves over and over again , so really they are offering nothing but bad advice, most of usThey say that learn from our mistakes they say but if you are still living that way well how can others learn , thats unless you are wanting people to do what you have done "some people can be cruel that way".
They say that talking is good, and it is but sometimes you have to listen to yourself too. how many of us ever do that sit and listen to yourself.
Some people may think explaining things to folk is like bulling them but deep down some folk will never listen to good honest advice.
Well happy new year to you all , i do hope everything you are wanting will happen in time ,