boys vs men, despairing over my generation

[bigtombowski]

Usually when it comes to age gaps, i would say that when a guy is older .. i often have a serious of thoughts...

but

the way i am thinking now, and it's a new view of mine ... if a guy is just out of puberty ... probably not marriage material ... especially if the lady is old enough to have a MAN not a BOY!

u want kids? great, get a MAN and a woman together and have your kids ...

not some kid...


to everyone here ... i admire you older men, and i really want to look to you as mentors, especially as you know more about life than i do. I admit, at 25, i still got a lot of growing and learning to do . . . but...it's taken me to the age of 25 to get here.

anyway, this is angry and disappointed message .. . i hope u can make something of my disjointed thoughts,
as im sure u can gather, im writing thru my tears because i have just been hit emotionally by some boy who should be a man, and i really don't want to be like him

i cry because i mourn for this guy and manhood and i pray i can be different
and
i am also angry coz i wanna smash someone's face in now:Brick::Brick::Brick:

[fred]

Ouch!
Sounds like someone just had a bad day.:cwm3:
Best stay well clear..Let the dust settle.
:peepwall:

[Alan]

Tom - read the good book mate - turn the other cheek.

al.:)

[fred]

I might be wrong but I doubt that post was from Tom.
Sounds more like Toms girlfriend to me?? :Erm:
Someone please explain??

Anyway talk about confusing...
This should take their mind off of things for an hour or two!



http://www.littleblackdog.com/gallery/albums/userpics/10972/CountThis.gif
How do 12 men become 13??




:ARsurrender:

[gracia143]

I admire you Tom, you're true to yourself and to your feelings...sometimes I do get to the point that I too would want to smash some people's faces or hit them or beat them up and I do think it's healthy in a way. I call it a bad acid trip though and I think the only antidote here would be your Mar, I think she'll know how to deal with you when you're angry just like a good chemical balancer. I hope you feel better soon Tom, I really do...Keep safe!

[fred]

Hey Tom.. I read your post about 4 times trying to understand the message..Im sorry that I misunderstood..I think the penny has finally dropped.. ME=DUH!!
The message came across as being very "disjointed" but under the circumstances that is understandable..
Hang on in there.
Best wishes..
Fred.

[gracia143]

Hey Tom.. I read your post about 4 times trying to understand the message..Im sorry that I misunderstood..I think the penny has finally dropped.. ME=DUH!!
The message came across as being very "disjointed" but under the circumstances that is understandable..
Hang on in there.
Best wishes..
Fred.

Very well said Fred...it's just not a good day for Tom I think...he'll be alright soon.

[Yossarian]

Tom - you know who I am, we talked on Yahoo the other day... Feel saddened to see a post like this from you, mate, and hope things'll be looking brighter this morning.

illegitimi non carborundum and all that. You're a good bloke, Tom, so stay true :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[bigtombowski]

thank you, all you lovely people, thanks Yossarian (i was wondering who u were, now i know :D). Thanks everyone for being kind and lovely and not beating me up lol! :D

I am glad i can share my actual feelings without fear of being forcibly silenced :D yay

so thanks again everyone
salamat

[bigtombowski]

I might be wrong but I doubt that post was from Tom.
Sounds more like Toms girlfriend to me?? :Erm:
Someone please explain??

Anyway talk about confusing...




:ARsurrender:



gosh fred,
mar is more articulate than i am, even on my best day :)
lol

i can assure you, it was me, just peeeeeved! lol:ARsurrender:

[gracia143]

Feeling better now Tom? :BouncyHappy:I hope...

[aromulus]

For a minute or two, I thought you been smoking something illegal....:rolleyes:

Between the lines.....

I do share the pain....

If I only could get away with it.....

Repressed feelings are the worst.

[kimmi]

oh tommi what happened?do i miss something here?sorry to hear about it but i am sure everything will be alright..

[gracia143]

Hey Kim! You missed me today too, what happened?:NoNo:

[kimmi]

hi ate gracia,i really had a hard time today..i will send u a pm..

and i dont want to add to his rant..he he he

[gracia143]

It's alright Kim, no problemo. And yeah, Tom is ok now I think.

[kimmi]

well i hope tommi is ok now..

[bigtombowski]

hey grac and Dr kimmi (mommy) lol :)
thank you for your asking, and yep, i am feeling wonderful now :D
thank you
oh and i am very glad u can relate dom :D

tom

[charlwill]

This is only showing immaturity, Tom. Don't entertain this kind of behavior. Charge it to experience.

[bigtombowski]

i know wot u mean, the guy in question was being immature? ok
i agree
and yes char, i will definately put it on my experience :D

thanks mate

[bigtombowski]

once again, i just want to thank everyone here for being so supportive and helpful and kind through all my silly rantings and ravings, and thanks for also putting a smile on my face! I woke up today and i checked to see if anyone had written anything and i was just so amazed and made so very happy that people cared enough to take the time to make sure i was ok

so for that
i want to say a big salamat to you all and
I love yAs! :D

tom

[kimmi]

are u sure ure ok now?

[bigtombowski]

yes kimmi mommy :) thank you and i hope u r really well also today :)
bless you

[aromulus]

Top o' the morning.... :D

You ok, today...???

[joebloggs]

I might be wrong but I doubt that post was from Tom.
Sounds more like Toms girlfriend to me?? :Erm:
Someone please explain??

Anyway talk about confusing...
This should take their mind off of things for an hour or two!



http://www.littleblackdog.com/gallery/albums/userpics/10972/CountThis.gif
How do 12 men become 13??
:ARsurrender:

i'm still trying to work out where the guy is hiding !!! maybe the extra guy is a bit like scouser keith, made up from bits and bobs, the first guy look's like he's been scalped :yikes: after the move... :Erm:

sorry about the thread fred, but looking at the animated gif is better than work :D .. looks like its from the 'MAD' magaiznes from the 60,70's..

[fred]

One theory is that 12 pieces of the 12th man is cut off to make a 13th..
If you look at the 13 men,they are actually a little bit shorter so it might be true.. To be honest I still haven`t figured it out.:NoNo:

[bigtombowski]

Top o' the morning.... :D

You ok, today...???

yes dom mate, thank u for asking, i had a wonderful day today and im glad ur feeling really good now that u got ur wife jet with u :)
tom:cwm12:

[baboyako]

One theory is that 12 pieces of the 12th man is cut off to make a 13th..
If you look at the 13 men,they are actually a little bit shorter so it might be true.. To be honest I still haven`t figured it out.:NoNo:

i think thats it fred. i started counting the number of black shorts, white shirts, etc etc.. :doh i have a headache now

[KeithD]

The hair on the left one becomes feet.....

[ervenescence]

anyway, this is angry and disappointed message .. . i hope u can make something of my disjointed thoughts,
as im sure u can gather, im writing thru my tears because i have just been hit emotionally by some boy who should be a man, and i really don't want to be like him

i cry because i mourn for this guy and manhood and i pray i can be different
and
i am also angry coz i wanna smash someone's face in now:Brick::Brick::Brick:

Hey Bigtom, wazzup?!!
Are you having a PMS recently? LoL
Don't you worry mate you are not alone, I sometimes felt that syndrome too. :Rasp:

[bigtombowski]

haha! it's my "time of the month erve! yeah! how did u know ? ;)

thanks mate
tom