because i am here in england

[Moy]

why it seems the whole world is on my shoulder?? have i born to suffer??:cwm3::cwm3::NoNo:

[joebloggs]

:icon_lol: whats up now ?
you've got beautiful kids and above ground what more do you want :biggrin:

[Dedworth]

Chin up - there's always someone worse off than you

[Moy]

:icon_lol: whats up now ?
you've got beautiful kids and above ground what more do you want :biggrin:

if i write here joe woule be so long letter:(.. ill msg u instead:NoNo::NoNo:

[Moy]

Chin up - there's always someone worse off than you


i did try but i think i am the worst ...as what u said..:NoNo::NoNo:

[andy222]

There is always someone worse off than you Moy.:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Moy]

There is always someone worse off than you Moy.:xxgrinning--00xx3:

i can only hope andy...i wish i could share what bothers me...
but thANKS FOR encouraging words

[andy222]

Best thing is to talk Moy dont try and solve things on your own.

[bigmarco]

Disregard the negative Moy and focus on all the positives in your life. I'm sure many of us on here have had our dark moments in life and felt weighed down with all the stresses that come with it.
Give yourself a little treat I'm sure you've earned it :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[gWaPito]

why it seems the whole world is on my shoulder?? have i born to suffer??:cwm3::cwm3::NoNo:

Yes, we are born to suffer. Makes us ''better'' people Moy. :-)

[imagine]

ain't we lucky there is always someone worse of than ourselves


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nWqBsSCvPf4

[imagine]

look out your window, see the sky,see the clouds,see the sun,
go outside feel the breeze, see the flowers the birds and the trees,

isn't it just so wonderful and so wonderful to be alive:smile:

[stevewool]

come on moy it helps to moan, i mean talk, we all have good days and bad days,

[Arthur Little]

...i wish i could share what bothers me...

... y'know, Ros ... there's an old saying:-"A problem shared is a problem halved! And I've found there is very often a great deal of truth in this simple maxim. :wink:

So ... if you feel it's something the *Mods can help you with, then :please: don't hesitate to contact one of *us via a Private Message - which WILL, in turn, be treated with the utmost confidentiality.


but thANKS FOR encouraging words

That's OK. Here's some 'rep' to cheer you up meanwhile. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Michael Parnham]

Good advice from Arthur Moy, follow it up!:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Ako Si Jamie]

Best to get it off your chest Moy and don't beat yourself up about it, whether it's on here or with a friend offline. :smile:

[Moy]

come on moy it helps to moan, i mean talk, we all have good days and bad days,

i am steve..tryin but feelin too hard to express here..:NoNo:

[Moy]

... y'know, Ros ... there's an old saying:-"A problem shared is a problem halved! And I've found there is very often a great deal of truth in this simple maxim. :wink:

So ... if you feel it's something the *Mods can help you with, then :please: don't hesitate to contact one of *us via a Private Message - which WILL, in turn, be treated with the utmost confidentiality.



That's OK. Here's some 'rep' to cheer you up meanwhile. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

thanks Arthur ..ever since you always cheering me up...things so hard at the moment even to write it all down wipes me out..:cwm3: shoulder get weary..too..;(

[Moy]

Good advice from Arthur Moy, follow it up!:xxgrinning--00xx3:

ill try :smile:

[Moy]

Best to get it off your chest Moy and don't beat yourself up about it, whether it's on here or with a friend offline. :smile:

true jamie..xx seems things seems so difficult and no way to solve it that how i feel;(

[Moy]

look out your window, see the sky,see the clouds,see the sun,
go outside feel the breeze, see the flowers the birds and the trees,

isn't it just so wonderful and so wonderful to be alive:smile:

thanks imagine..you always been a good friend to me too..i need people like you..regards to your family..

[Moy]

Disregard the negative Moy and focus on all the positives in your life. I'm sure many of us on here have had our dark moments in life and felt weighed down with all the stresses that come with it.
Give yourself a little treat I'm sure you've earned it :xxgrinning--00xx3:

all this time i did try to focus on postive but it seems this negative sides is stubborn..wont go...its follows me...i am normally a postive person but when it gets me it just get me down..:(...i laugh but inside am cryin:(:bigcry:

[gWaPito]

... y'know, Ros ... there's an old saying:-"A problem shared is a problem halved! And I've found there is very often a great deal of truth in this simple maxim. :wink:

So ... if you feel it's something the *Mods can help you with, then :please: don't hesitate to contact one of *us via a Private Message - which WILL, in turn, be treated with the utmost confidentiality.



That's OK. Here's some 'rep' to cheer you up meanwhile. :xxgrinning--00xx3:
Certainly helped me getting it off my chest. I'd couple it with getting legal advice from your local citizens advice bureau. .ie A shoulder on here then the facts from CAB.
As for sharing with Mods and trusted members. .does that mean us mortals aren't worthy. .rubbish. ..she knows who she can trust on here.
In hindsight, I quite possibly blurted out too much. .still, it's done now :NoNo:
The difference here is its only you, not uncle Tom cobbley and all.

Btw. ..I like that. ..''trusted'' members treating stuff on here posted by fellow members with the upmost confidentiality.
Not digging at you Arthur. .far from it.

[Ako Si Jamie]

I've always wondered that. What is a trusted member anyhow? :Erm:

[raynaputi]

I've always wondered that. What is a trusted member anyhow? :Erm:

Trusted Members are the ones that the Admin can trust (with the forum, personal issues, etc.). Usually, to get that status, a trusted member would nominate a possible trusted person. But it's still up to the Admin whether we can trust that person enough to gain that status.

[jake]

Trusted Members are the ones that the Admin can trust (with the forum, personal issues, etc.). Usually, to get that status, a trusted member would nominate a possible trusted person. But it's still up to the Admin whether we can trust that person enough to gain that status.

So why did Keith ask for a large amount of chips for any casino in Las Vegas :xxparty-smiley-004:

POKER ......... i havent even kissed her :biggrin:

[raynaputi]

So why did Keith ask for a large amount of chips for any casino in Las Vegas :xxparty-smiley-004:

POKER ......... i havent even kissed her :biggrin:

:laugher:

[gWaPito]

I've always wondered that. What is a trusted member anyhow? :Erm:

There's your answer Jamie. ..the old pals act comes into play ...I'm wondering now how does one nominate.

If you're the outspoken type but knows where to draw the line, you ain't got a chance. ..although I've noticed it's those types who provide entertaining threads. Can't have it all :biggrin:

Btw. ..in recent times there's been a number of mods and trusted members banned so this system in place isn't so great.

[raynaputi]

There's your answer Jamie. ..the old pals act comes into play ...I'm wondering now how does one nominate.

If you're the outspoken type but knows where to draw the line, you ain't got a chance. ..although I've noticed it's those types who provide entertaining threads. Can't have it all :biggrin:

Btw. ..in recent times there's been a number of mods and trusted members banned so this system in place isn't so great.

Hence we only have very few TRUSTED people now.. So far, the trusted members we have now are the best we can have in the forum.

[Ako Si Jamie]

There's your answer Jamie. ..the old pals act comes into play ...I'm wondering now how does one nominate.

If you're the outspoken type but knows where to draw the line, you ain't got a chance. ..although I've noticed it's those types who provide entertaining threads. Can't have it all :biggrin:

Btw. ..in recent times there's been a number of mods and trusted members banned so this system in place isn't so great.


Hence we only have very few TRUSTED people now.. So far, the trusted members we have now are the best we can have in the forum.Forums need outspoken characters like yourself, Graham and Ded or they would be no fun but then again it's good to have helpful members too such as Arth and Pete.

By the way, which mods/trusted members got banned?

The only long standing member I know who was booted off was Lastlid and I don't think his status was 'trusted'.

[imagine]

Forums need outspoken characters like yourself, Graham and Ded or they would be no fun but then again it's good to have helpful members too such as Arth and Pete.


its a good balance and it works :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[imagine]

There's your answer Jamie. ..the old pals act comes into play ...I'm wondering now how does one nominate.

Btw. ..in recent times there's been a number of mods and trusted members banned so this system in place isn't so great.

no system is perfect,but personally i think it is working pretty well:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[gWaPito]

Hence we only have very few TRUSTED people now.. So far, the trusted members we have now are the best we can have in the forum.

I answered my own question :biggrin: Point taken :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[London_Manila]

why it seems the whole world is on my shoulder?? have i born to suffer??:cwm3::cwm3::NoNo:

Sounds like you need a good long holiday diba :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Moy]

Sounds like you need a good long holiday diba :xxgrinning--00xx3:
:cwm24: hol?? thats why i got probs..coz i cant lols

[gWaPito]

:cwm24: hol?? thats why i got probs..coz i cant lols

In the great scale of life I wouldn't call that a problem. ..With the ''lol''tagged on the end I will assume you been on the tease :biggrin:

[stevewool]

i am trying to book a holiday but Ems keeps saying lets wait

[Moy]

In the great scale of life I wouldn't call that a problem. ..With the ''lol''tagged on the end I will assume you been on the tease :biggrin:

:bigcry::bigcry: u should be in my place to judge the situation i suppose:wink:

[Ako Si Jamie]

We can't help you Ros if you don't tell us. :wink:

[gWaPito]

:bigcry::bigcry: u should be in my place to judge the situation i suppose:wink:

I didn't mean to offend. .when one does ''lol'' I'm assuming you are laughing a lot. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I'm judging no one. .I've enough on my plate already without criticising others. .especially if I ain't got the foggiest what they're on about. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Moy]

I didn't mean to offend. .when one does ''lol'' I'm assuming you are laughing a lot. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I'm judging no one. .I've enough on my plate already without criticising others. .especially if I ain't got the foggiest what they're on about. :xxgrinning--00xx3:
oh dont worry gwapito we all have our agony in life..kept smilin i do understand you:wink:

[gWaPito]

oh dont worry gwapito we all have our agony in life..keot smilin i do understand you:wink:

I'm glad I haven't caused any lasting damage between us, not that we talked very much anyway.

I wish you well Moy :smile:

[Moy]

I'm glad I haven't caused any lasting damage between us, not that we talked very much anyway.

I wish you well Moy :smile:

:cwm25: true and we can only wish ourselves goodluck lols:xxaction-smiley-047:biggrin:

[gWaPito]

:cwm25: true and we can only wish ourselves goodluck lols:xxaction-smiley-047:biggrin:

I love happy endings...let's hope our own current problems end like this one :xxgrinning--00xx3: