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jeffro
30th July 2007, 11:28
Hello everyone:),i hope your all greatt:)
Please can member here give me any advice on how to help my anghel.
About 6 weeks ago she got this rash,its just on her hands and feet,its blistering and so so painful,and the itching is driving her loco and she cant sleep many times,i just came off line talking to her and she is in tears,she has suffered so vey much with this rash and feels `ashamed`and i keep trying to reassure her never to feel ashamed or sad because its not her fault..She has tried everything ,creams,injections,and faith healers ,but still it wont go,and its expensive for her .Ive sent E45 cream but its taking so long to get to her.She cant work,because she does manicuring to support herself,so this gets her down and sad even more because she needs the extra income,and again she said she feels ashamed to me because im sending Peso for her and our kids for food and jello,and for creams etc,and she doesent want me to keep sending, she is so good i cant say i words,my heart crys out to her . .I asked about this rash on yahoo ,and my anghel keeps saying its like someone has put a curse on her,i think the term is USOG?..I have told her not to think such things ,its an infection,maybe a tropical disease,or perhaps she could have got this infection by manicuring someones nails,i just dont know what to do to help her ,and i can see that she is becoming more and more distressed,how can i help her????..I asked can she go hospital and see the doctors there,but she said its expensive ,i told her please go now,because she really has suffered enough with this rash.To have to sit here and watch her cry and i am so far away is sooo upsetting and distressing,i just wish it was October and i was with her and could comfort her.Does any member here know anything about these rashes,or this usog???? and the best cream or course of treatment,and please could you let me know how i can help end her suffering,i am going into town later,if any member knows a good cream please let me know and i will post for her ,and thanks for any advice you can kindly give me and my anghel ,
many many thanks ,
jeff and Maria,and my anghel Mariasol:)

Mich
30th July 2007, 13:49
hi jeffro...


the best thing to do is to go to a doctor. it is ok to go to "faith healers" but if the symptoms still persist, she has to go to a doctor. it is not advisable to use any cream on it before seeing a doctor, it could have adverse effect on it.


i am saying this coz i have done self-medicating on myself whenever i get a rash or something and it never got healed (of course, i have been using the wrong topical meds, etc). so i consulted a doctor, and it turned out i got allergy.


:xxgrinning--00xx3:

jeffro
30th July 2007, 15:11
hi jeffro...


the best thing to do is to go to a doctor. it is ok to go to "faith healers" but if the symptoms still persist, she has to go to a doctor. it is not advisable to use any cream on it before seeing a doctor, it could have adverse effect on it.


i am saying this coz i have done self-medicating on myself whenever i get a rash or something and it never got healed (of course, i have been using the wrong topical meds, etc). so i consulted a doctor, and it turned out i got allergy.


:xxgrinning--00xx3:

Hello Mitch:) and thankyou for your kind advice .She has been to her doctors,fisrt she gave her cream ,and then injections,but its still there .She said the faithhealer just sort of blew smoke all over her??? I dont know anything of faith healers ,but seems his smoke didnt do anything,except make her cough :):):cwm23:,!!! As i write she is much happier,i think she was just mega down earlier.Hopefully she will be cured soon once the right cream etc is given to her .Thanks for all your kind advice and help:)

kentish
30th July 2007, 15:14
Hello everyone:),i hope your all greatt:)
About 6 weeks ago she got this rash,its just on her hands and feet,its blistering and so so painful,and the itching is driving her loco Maria,and my

By the description it looks like she caught chickenpox and if thats the case she has to avoid scratching and apply calamine lotion or caladryl they call it in the Phil..or best to consult skin especialist.

jeffro
30th July 2007, 15:24
By the description it looks like she caught chickenpox and if thats the case she has to avoid scratching and apply calamine lotion or caladryl they call it in the Phil..or best to consult skin especialist.

Hi Kentish,how are you:),thanks soo much:) .I though chickenpox,and its very similar the blistering,but i though chickenpox affected more than the hands and feet????i think calamine lotion could well help,its worth a try ,thankyou,and ill send some for her .
Many many thanks for your kindess and help!!!!:)

joebloggs
30th July 2007, 16:00
just asked my wife, could be anything she says, likely an allergy from what she puts on her customers nails, fungi or could be even scabies. with seeing her, impossible to really tell, but try a steriods cream.. :cwm24:

KeithD
30th July 2007, 16:10
Change soap, washing liquid, etc.....shaving cream :Erm:

jeffro
30th July 2007, 16:15
Change soap, washing liquid, etc.....shaving cream :Erm:

Ha ha:),your humour is very sarcastic in a nice way n very funny:),:xxgrinning--00xx3:
ill send razors too:):)

jeffro
30th July 2007, 16:38
just asked my wife, could be anything she says, likely an allergy from what she puts on her customers nails, fungi or could be even scabies. with seeing her, impossible to really tell, but try a steriods cream.. :cwm24:

:)Hi,hope you and your wife are well:)!!:)
thanks to both of you for your advice and help:).I think she really needs to go back to her doctors again but i dont know if its expensive for her to keep going and for medication,..i know she had to travel quite a way to see this faith healer,but he has`nt done anything ,i told her not to go no more to him and make her own smoke ,but maybe i said the wrong thing,but im not getting tampo- yet??? Ive posted E45,i hope it helps ,but as you advise and others, without knowing the source or kind of infection its difficult to help her.
Would it be very expensive for her to see a specialist in skin complaints??,i have so much to learn and understand about the way of life in the Philippines,and without sounding offensive i know many truly struggle,ive read medical costs are expensive,so the poorest really suffer because they cant afford the treatment.Im not saying my anghel is among the poorest,but she is struggling bringing 4 kids up on her own,and their home is just 1 room,it took me ages before she would send me a picture of her home ,because she said she felt ashamed,but i would sooner live in her /our 1 room and be happy than live in a mansion and be sad.
Many thanks ,i truly appreciate yours and everyones advice here,its a beautiful forum,salamat.:)

joebloggs
30th July 2007, 16:39
or if your a scouser, try having a bath b4 u :action-smiley-081: :yikes:

:D

jeffro
30th July 2007, 16:48
or if your a scouser, try having a bath b4 u :action-smiley-081: :yikes:

:D


ha ha,:)laughters still the best medicine:),except for this rash:yikes:

pennybarry
30th July 2007, 17:34
There are many good Dermatologists that can help her. There's a cream for anti itchy called Caladryl Lotion and will help her avoid scratching. :D

jeffro
30th July 2007, 17:41
There are many good Dermatologists that can help her. There's a cream for anti itchy called Caladryl Lotion and will help her avoid scratching. :D

Thankyou:)!!!,Kentish mentioned this too,i will ask my anghel if she has tried this ,im sure it will help her so much ,:)
My sincere thanks to you and everyone for all your kindness ,its truly appreciated so much :):)

gracia143
5th August 2007, 13:55
Hi Jeffro! How's your girlfriend by now? I hope the rashes are gone but if not tell her to buy Iterax tablets, they are not too expensive and have been very effective...my dermatologist recommended that when i had rashes few months ago...it worked.

bigtombowski
5th August 2007, 13:58
i hope she's fine too

gracia143
5th August 2007, 14:12
i hope she's fine too

Yeah, me too! Hey Tom! When are you coming to the Phils.?

andypaul
5th August 2007, 14:19
My Wife while still in phill suffered from a rash and for a while over in the UK. Part of the problem we noticed was due to stresss. You can have all the best medical care and lotions, but if your stressed either mentally or physically we all know the body suffers and will not heal so well.

The advice all ready given is good and far better than i can give, but a 2nd opnion from another doctor and making sure any stress mental or physicall is eased is what i might try if i was you.

bigtombowski
5th August 2007, 16:17
Yeah, me too! Hey Tom! When are you coming to the Phils.?

hi gracia

I will be flying to Phils on the 15 December :D:D

andypaul
5th August 2007, 16:48
So on the 14th expect gma on tv issuing a state of emgency Tom is on his way...:omg:

tiger@tigress
5th August 2007, 16:50
So on the 14th expect gma on tv issuing a state of emgency Tom is on his way...:omg:

:icon_lol::icon_lol: un state of emergency due to toms presence :icon_lol:

gracia143
5th August 2007, 16:55
hi gracia

I will be flying to Phils on the 15 December :D:D

4months from now...i better ask my Grandpa Fred Lim to clear the streets of Malate for you Tommy hehe...you're Welcome here! Don't miss Cowboy Grill when you are here...

tiger@tigress
5th August 2007, 16:58
4months from now...i better ask my Grandpa Fred Lim to clear the streets of Malate for you Tommy hehe...you're Welcome here! Don't miss Cowboy Grill when you are here...

Did Fred Lim win?

bigtombowski
5th August 2007, 23:11
So on the 14th expect gma on tv issuing a state of emgency Tom is on his way...:omg:


nassstayyyy!!!!

LoL

bigtombowski
5th August 2007, 23:13
:omg::omg:
4months from now...i better ask my Grandpa Fred Lim to clear the streets of Malate for you Tommy hehe...you're Welcome here! Don't miss Cowboy Grill when you are here...

I want all Manila to be cleared for the arrival of King Tommy :D:D

then I'll do a wee irish Jig, :irish::irish::irish::irish::irish:and then I will be presented with the biggest GUINNESS in all PI!:40__s::party-smiley-012::party-smiley-012::party-smiley-012::party-smiley-012::party-smiley-012:

bigtombowski
5th August 2007, 23:26
ANDYP
Im changing my name to Abdul and growing a nice black beard

Just going shopping for a backpack and that's me :D:D

andypaul
5th August 2007, 23:28
:omg::omg:

I want all Manila to be cleared for the arrival of King Tommy :D:D

then I'll do a wee irish Jig, :irish::irish::irish::irish::irish:and then I will be presented with the biggest GUINNESS in all PI!:40__s::party-smiley-012::party-smiley-012::party-smiley-012::party-smiley-012::party-smiley-012:


looks like imelda and gma gonna get upset if you take all the limelight watch out in case loads of shoes come flying towards you:Help1:

bigtombowski
5th August 2007, 23:30
:omg::omg::omg:

:cwm24::cwm24::cwm24:

:ARsurrender::ARsurrender::Bolt::Bolt::Bolt::Bolt::Bolt::Bolt:

andypaul
5th August 2007, 23:32
ANDYP
Im changing my name to Abdul and growing a nice black beard

Just going shopping for a backpack and that's me :D:D


In phill i think the muslims are the dvd dvd sales people in manila so if you walk round like that with a rucksack the police might to ask for a copy of the simpsons.

bigtombowski
5th August 2007, 23:34
haha,
was a funny film!

Im gonna get a copy of it

("not" pirate copy ;) )

gracia143
6th August 2007, 03:07
Hi guys! Yes, Fred Lim did win...you should see what happened to Baywalk (looks desserted to me). He had ordered that the establishments there be demolished which they had done for the past weeks now. That is part of his programs I think. And another thing, he asked the funeral parlors to do some expansions, as he thinks they would be needing more space during his term:omg:. But I like the man, he is one tough guy like Rodrigo Duterte of Davao. And Tom will be safe when he comes here to visit his uyab. But you cannot have guinness here, just try the San Miguel beer I'm sure you'll love it too.

bigtombowski
6th August 2007, 10:29
ooohhh i like the SM!

got big plans for Mr Miguel! ;)

gracia143
6th August 2007, 16:47
ooohhh i like the SM!

got big plans for Mr Miguel! ;)

Careful not to drown yourself Tom!

bigtombowski
6th August 2007, 21:37
it's more of a "shower" i was thinking of :D:D:D:D:D

gracia143
12th August 2007, 16:34
it's more of a "shower" i was thinking of :D:D:D:D:D

Missed this one Tom but is it a shower with Mar?

Pepe n Pilar
13th August 2007, 13:56
Hello everyone:),i hope your all greatt:)
Please can member here give me any advice on how to help my anghel.
About 6 weeks ago she got this rash,its just on her hands and feet,its blistering and so so painful,and the itching is driving her loco and she cant sleep many times,i just came off line talking to her and she is in tears,she has suffered so vey much with this rash and feels `ashamed`and i keep trying to reassure her never to feel ashamed or sad because its not her fault..She has tried everything ,creams,injections,and faith healers ,but still it wont go,and its expensive for her .Ive sent E45 cream but its taking so long to get to her.She cant work,because she does manicuring to support herself,so this gets her down and sad even more because she needs the extra income,and again she said she feels ashamed to me because im sending Peso for her and our kids for food and jello,and for creams etc,and she doesent want me to keep sending, she is so good i cant say i words,my heart crys out to her . .I asked about this rash on yahoo ,and my anghel keeps saying its like someone has put a curse on her,i think the term is USOG?..I have told her not to think such things ,its an infection,maybe a tropical disease,or perhaps she could have got this infection by manicuring someones nails,i just dont know what to do to help her ,and i can see that she is becoming more and more distressed,how can i help her????..I asked can she go hospital and see the doctors there,but she said its expensive ,i told her please go now,because she really has suffered enough with this rash.To have to sit here and watch her cry and i am so far away is sooo upsetting and distressing,i just wish it was October and i was with her and could comfort her.Does any member here know anything about these rashes,or this usog???? and the best cream or course of treatment,and please could you let me know how i can help end her suffering,i am going into town later,if any member knows a good cream please let me know and i will post for her ,and thanks for any advice you can kindly give me and my anghel ,
many many thanks ,
jeff and Maria,and my anghel Mariasol:)

Hi Jeffro,
Why not let her go and visit a dermatologist? It will only cost her something like P500.00 for consultation fee. She will be given the prescribed medicine for her rashes. It is not good to self medicate it will prolong her agony....

jeffro
13th August 2007, 19:15
`hey i was n the doctor my jeff n i just need another 2 check ups then nomore so im very happy my jeff` i just have to maintain the med that i take n the cream too u know i keep askin god to b well coz im too tired of bein sick my jeff

Thats the greattt :BouncyHappy:,if sad in parts,news my anghel told me this morning while we were chatting online:),and i just wanted to share with you.Thankyou/salamat:) everyone here for your kindness and consideration,and advice you have all so kindly given me on behalf and for my gf:).This has really made my gf sad and `embarrassed`the past 2 months .It seems now finally after going to the hospital a week or so ago, it was diagnosed as fungal infection,also,after her blood was taken at the hospital,she is dignosed as a diabetic.My anghels own Gp just gave her injections and cream,but never did blood tests.I sent E45 ,,but i have advised her to consult her doctor before she puts any cream on.This has been a really bad infection,and i have seen my anghel reduced to tears online,very heartbreaking because im helpess to comfort her or hug her,and at its worse her hands and feet were a mass of painful and bleeding blisters.Thank God at last the right diagnosis has beeen found,and the medication is being prescribed and appears to be working:BouncyHappy:
A billion thanks/salamat and well wishes to you all,:) and Godbless you all.:BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy:

gracia143
14th August 2007, 03:09
That's good news, hope she gets well soon...God bless!

joebloggs
14th August 2007, 10:21
:xxgrinning--00xx3: your g/f is getting better, also good to see all the money and time wasn't wasted on my wife going to med school. fungal infection was one of the things my wife said it might be.. pitty she did'nt know what was up with my dog thou :NoNo:

:xxgrinning--00xx3: