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ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 14:47
Is that possible that the man that I married here in the UK is married abroad? please enlighten me...

Terpe
13th August 2011, 14:54
Is that possible that the man that I married here in the UK is married abroad? please enlighten me...

Hi there, welcome here.

What an odd question! Why do you ask?

As I'm sure you know, it's possible that can happen anywhere.

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 14:58
Hi there, welcome here.

What an odd question! Why do you ask?

As I'm sure you know, it's possible that can happen anywhere.

Before we got married, will the home office not going to search about his status?? Are they not going to find it out?

Arthur Little
13th August 2011, 15:09
Before we got married, will the home office not going to search about his status?? Are they not going to find it out?

What's your husband's name :rolleyes: ... and is/was he ever a contributor to this site, by any chance?

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 15:13
What's your husband's name :rolleyes: ... and is/was he ever a contributor to this site, by any chance?

Im sure he is not a member here because he is not into social networking, we filed visa for my extension here to stay. Im just wondering if he is married why is it my fiance visa was approved? and why is it we got married without any hassles to the home office i.e. regarding his status? by the way, I just arrive here in the UK.

Maria B
13th August 2011, 15:29
Im sure he is not a member here because he is not into social networking, we filed visa for my extension here to stay. Im just wondering if he is married why is it my fiance visa was approved? and why is it we got married without any hassles to the home office i.e. regarding his status? by the way, I just arrive here in the UK.

:Hellooo:hi maricel,

unless if his first marriage is not genuine (fake marriage)...or not registered.

anyways, welcome to the uk:Wave:

Maria B
13th August 2011, 15:35
Before we got married, will the home office not going to search about his status?? Are they not going to find it out?

home office easily finds it out if either of you have previous marriage...unless previous marriage was a fake & not registered. Always check the registration number in your marriage contract. That's a proof that it's genuine. Mostly fake marriage contract w/o registration numbers are invalid.

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 15:56
:Hellooo:hi maricel,

unless if his first marriage is not genuine (fake marriage)...or not registered.

anyways, welcome to the uk:Wave:

Hi Maria, thanks, Im just so confuse because if the Home Office will not find out about his status. That means their system is not so good.

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 15:57
home office easily finds it out if either of you have previous marriage...unless previous marriage was a fake & not registered. Always check the registration number in your marriage contract. That's a proof that it's genuine. Mostly fake marriage contract w/o registration numbers are invalid.

Can they track it if the man is married abroad??

grahamw48
13th August 2011, 16:03
Blimey, it gets more like the old 'News of the World' on here every day. :icon_lol:

Welcome Maricel. :)

sars_notd_virus
13th August 2011, 17:46
My husband is married to another woman?
Is that possible that the man that I married here in the UK is married abroad? please enlighten me...

Is he a muslim? i think they can marry as many times as they want as long as he can support his different families:rolleyes:

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 18:48
Is he a muslim? i think they can marry as many times as they want as long as he can support his different families:rolleyes:

lol he is not a muslim and he doesnt have any religion either. Im quiet confused if the home office will investigate thoroughly about the applicants background before he/she can marry to another again? As for me, you cant just easily marry here in the UK unless you can comply all the necessary requirements. Does the Certificate of No Impedement is enough that he is not legally married to another woman abroad? Lets just say he got married in Mexico, Cuba, Philippines etc etc will it be recognized here in UK? He mentioned to me before that he had fiancee in a long term relationship abroad and visited many times there. I hope they didnt came up into this marriage thing before because we just recently married here in the UK.

Dedworth
13th August 2011, 18:56
I'm totally confused by this - - your status says Single but in post # 1 you state "man that I married" - are you now divorced ? If you suspect him to be a bigamist you should contact the Police

imagine
13th August 2011, 18:57
hello and Welcome to you Maricel,

where is all this suspicion of thinking he is married comming from ?, did he say he was to you

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 19:14
I'm totally confused by this - - your status says Single but in post # 1 you state "man that I married" - are you now divorced ? If you suspect him to be a bigamist you should contact the Police

Sorry my fault, I changed it to married now.

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 19:22
hello and Welcome to you Maricel,

where is all this suspicion of thinking he is married comming from ?, did he say he was to you

Nothing, I just read some of the forum that some are bigamist. Its suddenly appears in my mind that thoughts since he always travel to other country before we have met, much better know it earlier rather than finding it later . I love him so much and so does he to me. I only want to have a direct answer on my questions.

Farmerg
13th August 2011, 19:23
:Hellooo::Wave:

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 19:31
Can anyone answer my question please? Thanks for the welcome Farmerg.

Tawi2
13th August 2011, 19:34
Married to two separate pinays? With their attendant tampo and monthly mood swings? The mans a martyr :cwm24: Just ask him,isnt that the simplest solution?:Erm:

sars_notd_virus
13th August 2011, 19:37
lol he is not a muslim and he doesnt have any religion either. Im quiet confused if the home office will investigate thoroughly about the applicants background before he/she can marry to another again? As for me, you cant just easily marry here in the UK unless you can comply all the necessary requirements. Does the Certificate of No Impedement is enough that he is not legally married to another woman abroad? Lets just say he got married in Mexico, Cuba, Philippines etc etc will it be recognized here in UK? He mentioned to me before that he had fiancee in a long term relationship abroad and visited many times there. I hope they didnt came up into this marriage thing before because we just recently married here in the UK.


If he is ''legally'' married in other country then that marriage will also be recognized in the UK ...how did u managed to get a visa? if he is married and wants to marry again?? your making it all complicated, if its just a suspicion without any proof to hold on, stop it...not a good start for your relationship!!

imagine
13th August 2011, 19:39
there doesnt seem to be any valid reason to think so,
i dont mean to offend you, but if you dont trust him then it doesnt say much for a happy relationship

Terpe
13th August 2011, 19:40
Can anyone answer my question please? Thanks for the welcome Farmerg.

I did answer your question in the very first reply.

Yes ,It is possible that he can do that.
It's also possible he can have multiple identities.
But why are you asking?
What makes you feel he is previously married?
If you have any real suspicion or evidence why not contact the police.

I still find it an odd question.

Is this just another wind-up I ask myself?

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 19:45
If he is ''legally'' married in other country then that marriage will also be recognized in the UK ...how did u managed to get a visa? if he is married and wants to marry again?? your making it all complicated, if its just a suspision without any proof to hold on, stop it...not a good start for your relationship!!

Thank you. Thats the answer that Im looking for. Im a bit relieve now. :)

sars_notd_virus
13th August 2011, 19:49
Thank you. Thats the answer that Im looking for. Im a bit relieve now. :)

Welcome to the forum,..take it easy:)

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 19:54
I did answer your question in the very first reply.

Yes ,It is possible that he can do that.
It's also possible he can have multiple identities.
But why are you asking?
What makes you feel he is previuously married?
If you have any real suspicion or evidence why not contact the police.

I still find it an odd question.

Is this just another wind-up I ask myself?

Of course, he doesnt have any other multiple identities its just my suspicion at all. Im also looking an answer for this questions, this is my previous message above >>Im quiet confused if the home office will investigate thoroughly about the applicants background before he/she can marry to another again? As for me, you cant just easily marry here in the UK unless you can comply all the necessary requirements. Does the Certificate of No Impedement is enough that he is not legally married to another woman abroad?

imagine
13th August 2011, 20:02
the Certificate of No Impedement,is as much as i am aware the proof that there is no marrage,
records must be checked to make sure the person is not married before issue of that certificate,

if i am wrong what i say, im sure someone here will correct me

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 20:02
If he is ''legally'' married in other country then that marriage will also be recognized in the UK ...how did u managed to get a visa? if he is married and wants to marry again?? your making it all complicated, if its just a suspision without any proof to hold on, stop it...not a good start for your relationship!!

so is that means, that the legal marriage in ALL Countries will be automatically recognized here in the UK? He mentioned to me he visited many times in PHilippines, Mexico, Cuba, Spain and many more I forgot some of the countries he visited but are the Countries that I have mentioned above will be recognized automatically in here?

Terpe
13th August 2011, 20:03
Of course, he doesnt have any other multiple identities its just my suspicion at all. Im also looking an answer for this questions, this is my previous message above >>Im quiet confused if the home office will investigate thoroughly about the applicants background before he/she can marry to another again? As for me, you cant just easily marry here in the UK unless you can comply all the necessary requirements. Does the Certificate of No Impedement is enough that he is not legally married to another woman abroad?

I did not say he had multiple identities. I said it's possible he could IF he wanted.
Also its possible he could be already married abroad. I did not say he was I just said its possible.

If he declares he is single then it's accepted here. He does NOT need proof.
He does not need to produce any CNI for marriage in UK.

As a very friendly help and support I still enquire why you are asking?

imagine
13th August 2011, 20:07
so is that means, that the legal marriage in ALL Countries will be automatically recognized here in the UK? He mentioned to me he visited many times in PHilippines, Mexico, Cuba, Spain and many more I forgot some of the countries he visited but are the Countries that I have mentioned above will be recognized automatically in here?

you mean will the records of any marriage abroad , be checked also by the uk authorities, before issuing the Certificate of No Impedement,

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 20:31
I did not say he had multiple identities. I said it's possible he could IF he wanted.
Also its possible he could be already married abroad. I did not say he was I just said its possible.

If he declares he is single then it's accepted here. He does NOT need proof.
He does not need to produce any CNI for marriage in UK.

As a very friendly help and support I still enquire why you are asking?

Its just my curiosity at all, Im always worried that I will end up into a bad relationship again as I have experienced before with my previous x-bfs and now that I am married woman and very happy with him. Im so contented. Its just me that I have some questions in my mind and makes me bother all the time (what if this will happen to me) thats why I came up into this lovely forum. I dont know why it suddenly came up into this question maybe Im so paranoid about reading in breaking up relationships lol. Sorry for asking a lot of questions.

ImMaricel
13th August 2011, 20:39
you mean will the records of any marrage abroad , be checked also by the uk authorities, before issuing the Certificate of No Impedement,

I dont know, thats why Im also asking about it but as for my basic understanding. Certificate of No Impediment will be issued if you have plan to marry outside the UK and that there is no known obstruction to your proposed marriage.

imagine
13th August 2011, 21:22
I dont know, thats why Im also asking about it but as for my basic understanding. Certificate of No Impediment will be issued if you have plan to marry outside the UK and that there is no known obstruction to your proposed marriage.

i dont know if foreign records are checked, there are british people that have ilegaly married again while still married to their first wife, it is illegal but it happens,
where ever your getting your fears ,,paranoia from,
i would advise you to stop worrying, trust your husband if you love him trust his word, if you dont trust him you will spoil your relationship

Terpe
13th August 2011, 21:46
I will pass on this one.
Wind-Up :doh

Tawi2
13th August 2011, 21:49
Im so contented.
Your not really otherwise there would be no reason for the next part :icon_lol:
Its just me that I have some questions in my mind and makes me bother all the time

Steve.r
13th August 2011, 22:04
I think you need to get a grip on reality ImMarciel..........:crazy:

Your questions have been answered many times by our helpful members but you keep asking the same questions over and over. If you have a problem in your relationship why not ask your husband if he is married to another woman as well as you... solved ..:doh

Come to think of it, I have been to Spain and Cuba.... hmm.. but not Mexico......... but it does not mean that I got married there and am now hiding it. :NoNo:

Tawi2
13th August 2011, 22:16
I think he really is married to a young,beautiful,slim,sexy latina :bigcry: what a cad :angry: he is probably living a double-life of which your totally oblivious :bigcry: best advice is for you to get a mexican boyfriend on the premise that whats good for the rat is good for the mouse ;)

Terpe
13th August 2011, 22:20
:Erm: True Lies. :xxgrinning--00xx3:
Always enjoyed Arnies action movies, and of course Jamie Lee Curtis................well, say no more........:rolleyes:

Englishman2010
13th August 2011, 22:25
You obviously don't trust the guy, so why did you get married:crazy: The poor guy has probably spent a huge amount of his hard earned cash bringing you over here, get a grip on reality and treat the guy with more respect. If I were him and I found out you didn't trust me and were asking crazy questions like this, I'd be putting you back on the next plane to the Phils:crazy:

If going to all those countries makes him a bigamist in your crazy mixed up world, he could also be an MI6 agent, why don't you ask him if he's a spy too

Steve.r
13th August 2011, 22:28
:Erm: Just having a re-think :Erm: I have been to loads of different countries........ maybe each stamp in my passport entitles me a new wife :Sex: What have I been missing out on all these years :doh

Englishman2010
13th August 2011, 22:32
:Erm: Just having a re-think :Erm: I have been to loads of different countries........ maybe each stamp in my passport entitles me a new wife :Sex: What have I been missing out on all these years :doh

Think of it as a lucky escape Steve:D

Steve.r
13th August 2011, 22:35
Think of it as a lucky escape Steve:D

:icon_lol::xxgrinning--00xx3:

malditako
13th August 2011, 22:39
best way is to tackle it to your partner the things that bothers you :)

Faye_and_Brian
13th August 2011, 23:53
Its just my curiosity at all, Im always worried that I will end up into a bad relationship again as I have experienced before with my previous x-bfs and now that I am married woman and very happy with him. Im so contented. Its just me that I have some questions in my mind and makes me bother all the time (what if this will happen to me) thats why I came up into this lovely forum. I dont know why it suddenly came up into this question maybe Im so paranoid about reading in breaking up relationships lol. Sorry for asking a lot of questions.

Stop worrying! You already got the right answers to the respectable members here. It doesnt mean that your husband is married with somebody else because he travels all the time in many countries. You should trust him and listen to him. If you already talked about it just listen to his answers. He manage to take you over here in the Uk and spent a lot of money for all the processing. Leave all your insecurities behind. If your husband can read this he might be very upset of what you open up.

Faye_and_Brian
13th August 2011, 23:56
You obviously don't trust the guy, so why did you get married:crazy: The poor guy has probably spent a huge amount of his hard earned cash bringing you over here, get a grip on reality and treat the guy with more respect. If I were him and I found out you didn't trust me and were asking crazy questions like this, I'd be putting you back on the next plane to the Phils:crazy:

If going to all those countries makes him a bigamist in your crazy mixed up world, he could also be an MI6 agent, why don't you ask him if he's a spy too

Lol! :D

grahamw48
14th August 2011, 00:51
Has he just crashed his car ? :Erm:

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5466

Englishman2010
14th August 2011, 07:03
Has he just crashed his car ? :Erm:

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5466

It can't be him, I think this guy needs a bus to cart all of his wives around in:icon_lol:

Steve.r
14th August 2011, 14:47
It can't be him, I think this guy needs a bus to cart all of his wives around in:icon_lol:

He's got his own Jeepney