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eagles
25th July 2009, 01:04
yesterday, i had a chat with my british boyfriend. He was pricky:doh. Our usual daily hour chat ended with hurt feelings. Why was that so? Overnight, i did looked back on how we are handling our long distant relationship that had span for 5 solid years. Yesterday, he felt irritated of my question " why are always offline in the IM?

trader dave
25th July 2009, 05:36
ldr,s are very hard work at times wether its 1 year 2 yrs or 5 years it does not get any easier :xxgrinning--00xx3: just hang in there maybe he just had a bad day at work :cwm24:

aromulus
25th July 2009, 06:06
. Yesterday, he felt irritated of my question " why are always offline in the IM?


I showed offline when relatives or friends were online, because I didn't want to be disturbed by them, while chatting with my mahal...:)

yam
25th July 2009, 06:12
Maybe he wasn't feeing well that time or he had a problem and he couldn't tell you that time...I wish everything would be fine later...

Arturo
25th July 2009, 07:09
yesterday, i had a chat with my british boyfriend. He was pricky:doh. Our usual daily hour chat ended with hurt feelings. Why was that so? Overnight, i did looked back on how we are handling our long distant relationship that had span for 5 solid years. Yesterday, he felt irritated of my question " why are always offline in the IM?

One hour a day ! seems a bit limited, even allowing for the time difference.

Not knowing the full story of your relationship. its hard to say anything.

BUT on your comments above, my opinion is that he is one of those who have a few filipina on his list to chat with.
And after 5 years.... maybe you should start again and look for a guy who is online and able to take less than 5 years to either get you into the UK or move to PI!

I hope I am wrong for your sake... but thats my opinion! Soory!

joebloggs
25th July 2009, 08:06
i did looked back on how we are handling our long distant relationship that had span for 5 solid years.

:yikes: 5yrs in a LDR :NoNo: how have you made it last so long :rolleyes:
3+Yrs me and the misses were in a LDR was bad enough..

time and distance not good for any relationship, you get use to living your own life in your own world :cwm24:

Sim11UK
25th July 2009, 09:09
Could just be a bad day, we all have them....one minute we can be up, the next minute down.

5 years is a long time, how many times has he been to visit you? :)

eagles
25th July 2009, 09:13
thanks for the advices.. :) Indeed 5 years is too long. :bigcry: By the stories shared on the forum, less than 3 years, the couple were either together and married. Anyway, we will see the outcome of this LDR

kimmi
25th July 2009, 09:20
yesterday, i had a chat with my british boyfriend. He was pricky:doh. Our usual daily hour chat ended with hurt feelings. Why was that so? Overnight, i did looked back on how we are handling our long distant relationship that had span for 5 solid years. Yesterday, he felt irritated of my question " why are always offline in the IM?

hi eagles,

sorry about what happened I am sure everything will be ok soon..:xxgrinning--00xx3: when my hubby and I chatted before he's also offline always and I prefer it that way because I am sure if he's online lots of other people will disturb us..:D:D

Uve been LDR for 5yrs? how many times uve meet already? oh sorry nosy.:doh

Sophie
25th July 2009, 09:29
Hi eagles, as what most here said already, maybe he just had a bad day.....
We all have bad days and get into a mood once in a while....due to outside factors most likely and nothing to do with you....
And yeah, 5 years of LDR is a bit long indeed but i commend you both for that....
it's not easy to sustain and maintain a long distance relationship and at that length - so kudos to both of you :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

monkeyface
25th July 2009, 09:40
Hi Eagles,
He probably is just tired or in a bad mood at the time. I hope everything works out between you and your boyfriend.
Wow, five years... Congratulations and I hope you can be together soon.
Take care.xxx

pennybarry
25th July 2009, 09:53
Sorry to hear that eagles. Five years is too looooong waiting. If you feel he's chatting with others, you can still give space for yourself to find Mr. Right. It depends on you on how long you can still wait.

When we first chat online, my hubby said "I Love you":omg:
I replied and said come on big man! you're crazy! we need to know each other first before you get my YES:D

After few weeks he said I want to marry you:omg:
Few months later we met and I can't resist anymore:Brick:
After we married, I had hard time to get my spouse visa.
So we need to chat online and I was the one who is always busy at my shop. I was always on invisible mode. I can see he's online but I ignore him sometimes if I'm so busy. Sometimes he sent me shock replies.
He said "I know you're there, I'm going to divorce you soon":omg:
I know he just want to get my attention and later on we get on well.
Too hard if your other half is too busy and always tired at work like me.
Try to catch her attention if you think he's online. Give him ultimatum if it will works:Rasp:

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 10:02
5 years is not too long,its a lot better than the speed-daters who meet someone online and instantly pledge eternal love,race off to pinas and are married or engaged within 6-9 months of first meeting:NoNo: Everyone has their own speed,if he is visiting you once or twice a year,your in daily contact and your still together after 5 years thats fine so long as your both comfortable with it right?These things have a habit of working themselves out :)He might be the cautious type or still healing after his last relationship,all scars dont close at the same speed :)ayaw pagdadali sa inyong panag-uban. hulata nga makaangay jud ka.
Hey,your having water problems in Davao this weekend due to the pipes being laid at Dumoy toril pumping station?

joebloggs
25th July 2009, 10:13
have to disagree with you tawi2, going to see someone twice a year for 3 or 4wks a year, for 5 years (and that's if your lucky, you can afford to and have the hols to) that's not what i would call much of a relationship, i've been there there, so for 48wks of the year your apart, getting on with your life, as i said before in your own little world, and wondering if being apart will ever end :Erm:

Jay&Zobel
25th July 2009, 10:21
:yikes: 5yrs in a LDR :NoNo: how have you made it last so long :rolleyes:
3+Yrs me and the misses were in a LDR was bad enough..

time and distance not good for any relationship, you get use to living your own life in your own world :cwm24:


Could just be a bad day, we all have them....one minute we can be up, the next minute down.

5 years is a long time, how many times has he been to visit you? :)


thanks for the advices.. :) Indeed 5 years is too long. :bigcry: By the stories shared on the forum, less than 3 years, the couple were either together and married. Anyway, we will see the outcome of this LDR


Hi eagles, as what most here said already, maybe he just had a bad day.....
We all have bad days and get into a mood once in a while....due to outside factors most likely and nothing to do with you....
And yeah, 5 years of LDR is a bit long indeed but i commend you both for that....
it's not easy to sustain and maintain a long distance relationship and at that length - so kudos to both of you :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:


5 years is not too long,its a lot better than the speed-daters who meet someone online and instantly pledge eternal love,race off to pinas and are married or engaged within 6-9 months of first meeting:NoNo: Everyone has their own speed,if he is visiting you once or twice a year,your in daily contact and your still together after 5 years thats fine so long as your both comfortable with it right?These things have a habit of working themselves out :)He might be the cautious type or still healing after his last relationship,all scars dont close at the same speed :)ayaw pagdadali sa inyong panag-uban. hulata nga makaangay jud ka.
Hey,your having water problems in Davao this weekend due to the pipes being laid at Dumoy toril pumping station?


Five years isn't that long! My bf now my husband, we met on the 6th year!!! :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

monkeyface
25th July 2009, 10:21
have to disagree with you tawi2, going to see someone twice a year for 3 or 4wks a year, for 5 years (and that's if your lucky, you can afford to and have the hols to) that's not what i would call much of a relationship, i've been there there, so for 48wks of the year your apart, getting on with your life, as i said before in your own little world, and wondering if being apart will ever end :Erm:

I totally agree, on my second year now in LDR. It's getting frustrating cos it feels like forever before you can finally be together! You don't know where the relationship is headed.

My boyfriend is going to kill me when he finds out this is how I feel.

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 10:21
We all have different speeds Joe,I guess some of us are slow :icon_lol: its the opposite end of the scale to meeting someone online and proposing to them before they have a chance to draw breath,but I know from experience the ones who take their time are the ones that last :xxgrinning--00xx3: Fools rush in where angels fear to tread......marry in haste repente at leisure.....etc.....etc.....etc,some of us just move at a tortoise like speed :icon_lol:

Sophie
25th July 2009, 10:23
5 years is not too long,its a lot better than the speed-daters who meet someone online and instantly pledge eternal love,race off to pinas and are married or engaged within 6-9 months of first meeting:NoNo: Everyone has their own speed,if he is visiting you once or twice a year,your in daily contact and your still together after 5 years thats fine so long as your both comfortable with it right?

A 5-year relationship is just fine, but a 5 year LONG DISTANCE relationship is another story............
Personally, a maximum of 3 years for a long distance relationship is enough for me.....
But that's just me, just an opinion :)

monkeyface
25th July 2009, 10:27
A 5-year relationship is just fine, but a 5 year LONG DISTANCE relationship is another story............
Personally, a maximum of 3 years for a long distance relationship is enough for me.....
But that's just me, just an opinion :)

Three years for me too. Ohh well, we can't rush guys though. So an extension of another year is ok, I guess.

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 10:32
I know someone who is doing specialist work for IOM,World-Bank,EU and several other organisations,she has known a guy for five years,she is a pinay,they are both doing seperate things but both have trust and know where they are heading so no rush,its a couples choice I guess,as long as your both comfortable.

monkeyface
25th July 2009, 10:40
I know someone who is doing specialist work for IOM,World-Bank,EU and several other organisations,she has known a guy for five years,she is a pinay,they are both doing seperate things but both have trust and know where they are heading so no rush,its a couples choice I guess,as long as your both comfortable.

You could be right, but is it not also true that, when you love someone, you can't wait to spend the rest of your lives together?

Sophie
25th July 2009, 10:48
Three years for me too. Ohh well, we can't rush guys though. So an extension of another year is ok, I guess.

I agree, it's not advisable to rush guys into marriage thing,
it has to be something they decide on their own and by choice, not forced nor pressured upon....
And as tawi said, if you're comfortable with the set up, then it's fine
as long as you're open to each other and has a clear vision of where you're relationship is heading....
As time progress, so should your relationship too.....:xxgrinning--00xx3:

pennybarry
25th July 2009, 10:49
Three years for me too. Ohh well, we can't rush guys though. So an extension of another year is ok, I guess.


That's cool!:xxgrinning--00xx3:

We live together after 3 years of dating and chatting!

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 10:50
Thats true,but from personal observation women are normally the ones who try to force the issues over time,all I am saying is if your both comfortable with the relationship and you both have a set plan and you can see each other for maybe 2 months a year thats fine for some,we dont all have the same agenda :)

monkeyface
25th July 2009, 11:00
Thats true,but from personal observation women are normally the ones who try to force the issues over time,all I am saying is if your both comfortable with the relationship and you both have a set plan and you can see each other for maybe 2 months a year thats fine for some,we dont all have the same agenda :)

Trudat. I am guilty for raising such issues before, not to force him to marry me as I know I am neither ready for the responsibilities. I think girls, raise them cos, well, not speaking for everyone, we are more clingy?! Who doesn't want lambing all day and night long!:Rasp:

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 11:08
Some guys like lambing some guys like mas maglambing and some guys ayaw ng malambing :icon_lol:

aposhark
25th July 2009, 11:12
yesterday, i had a chat with my british boyfriend. He was pricky:doh. Our usual daily hour chat ended with hurt feelings. Why was that so? Overnight, i did looked back on how we are handling our long distant relationship that had span for 5 solid years. Yesterday, he felt irritated of my question " why are always offline in the IM?

Hi eagles,

5 years LDR !!!!!

Has he been over many times to visit you?
Does he love you, have you made plans to marry?

Be careful dear, he could be stringing you along.
How long can you wait?

Jay&Zobel
25th July 2009, 11:21
Some guys like lambing some guys like mas maglambing and some guys ayaw ng malambing :icon_lol:


What are you then Tawiwi?:Erm::D

monkeyface
25th July 2009, 11:22
Some guys like lambing some guys like mas maglambing and some guys ayaw ng malambing :icon_lol:

Not sure if that was Madonna inspired or the voices in my head are back. :s But it sure got me singing! :icon_lol:

Happy weekend everyone!
Tc.xx

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 11:24
What are you then Tawiwi?:Erm::D

ako ay pambihira:icon_lol:

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 11:26
Not sure if that was Madonna inspired or the voices in my head are back. :s But it sure got me singing! :icon_lol:

Happy weekend everyone!
Tc.xx

It wasnt imspired by Madonna :icon_lol: but if you can put a tune to it you can plagiarise the words and make a Pinoy Number one song hit :icon_lol:

may lalaki na gusto malambing, mas malambing o di kaya'y ayaw nila ng mga malalambing.

monkeyface
25th July 2009, 11:30
It wasnt imspired by Madonna :icon_lol: but if you can put a tune to it you can plagiarise the words and make a Pinoy Number one song hit :icon_lol:

may lalaki na gusto malambing, mas malambing o di kaya'y ayaw nila ng mga malalambing.

I knew the voices are back! Monkeyface is my name, plagiarism aint my game!;-p

I should stop before I say it.. MEN!!!! Oooppss, I just did! Hahaha!

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 11:33
Your like a female versiom of eminem,your stage name can be Mukhang-unggoy :icon_lol:

monkeyface
25th July 2009, 11:35
Your like a female versiom of eminem,your stage name can be Mukhang-unggoy :icon_lol:

Hush hush, that's our secret! ;-p

Jay&Zobel
25th July 2009, 11:38
Some guys like lambing some guys like mas maglambing and some guys ayaw ng malambing :icon_lol:


What are you then Tawiwi?:Erm::D


ako ay pambihira:icon_lol:


PAMBIHIRA ka talaga!!! :Erm::doh:rolleyes::D:D
Pakipot eh!:rolleyes::D

GaryFifer
25th July 2009, 11:43
Please do not fight about the internet and trust in each other. Usually it clouds over issues due to technical problems. Sometimes yahoo does not login properly to the Yahoo server. For example sometimes me and my mahal get upset because my little picture disappears. Connection problems and technical issues should not make the both of you fight about small things. In the end, fight about things that really matter, because this is a minor issue. I am upset about my mahal not telling me important things like she needs more nappies, cos she run out, because she talks about small idiotic things.But what is important to her, is not important to me.Which is why couples have differences. I try to smooth things out and concentrate on the baby,but I try to explain sometimes Yahoo is a pain in the ass. It is only a tool for talking.Nothing else. Good luck explaining it!

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 11:46
Pinakamahirap hulihin ang pinakamalinamnam na isda :icon_lol:

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 11:47
Could be worse,200 years ago a letter from pinas to UK would have taken 10 years to be delivered :icon_lol:

Sophie
25th July 2009, 11:51
may lalaki na gusto malambing, mas malambing o di kaya'y ayaw nila ng mga malalambing.

Personally, i don't think there's any man on earth who don't like the "lambing" stuff.....
It's a love gesture, a bond, an interaction - something that connects us to another person...
And it makes us feel good, loved and valued.....
It keeps us going and inspires us everyday.....
If you're one of those few, who's not into the lambing stuff, then you sure are missing a lot :D:D

joebloggs
25th July 2009, 11:52
T I am saying is if your both comfortable with the relationship and you both have a set plan and you can see each other for maybe 2 months a year thats fine for some,we dont all have the same agenda :)

what if both are not? who wants to waste 5yrs, going seeing some one for 1 month a year if your lucky, and because of time and distance apart for that 'relationship' to go nowhere.

Sophie
25th July 2009, 11:53
PAMBIHIRA ka talaga!!! :Erm::doh:rolleyes::D:D
Pakipot eh!:rolleyes::D

Or Duwag???:Erm::Erm::D:D just kidding tawiwi :D:D:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 11:58
what if both are not? who wants to waste 5yrs, going seeing some one for 1 month a year if your lucky, and because of time and distance apart for that 'relationship' to go nowhere.

Well,if both of you are not happy in a relationship the unhappy one should bail-out,thats common sense,who is going to sit in a sinking boay while the water is lapping around their ankles :icon_lol:But every single couple on the face of this planet has a different relationship from their neighbours,we are all different.

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 11:59
Or Duwag???:Erm::Erm::D:D just kidding tawiwi :D:D:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

Afraid or a coward :Erm:Nahhhhhhh,we are all different :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Sophie
25th July 2009, 12:05
Afraid or a coward :Erm:Nahhhhhhh,we are all different :xxgrinning--00xx3:

LOL, it was a joke :D:D:D:D
I know you're an advocate of "slowly but surely" movement, lol :xxgrinning--00xx3:
Anyway, it's good to take your time until you are 100% sure, it's a lifetime commitment,
it's wise to think long and hard before you jump into it :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

joebloggs
25th July 2009, 12:06
Well,if both of you are not happy in a relationship the unhappy one should bail-out,thats common sense,who is going to sit in a sinking boay while the water is lapping around their ankles :icon_lol:But every single couple on the face of this planet has a different relationship from their neighbours,we are all different.

but it isn't a relationship when you've spent 5yrs seeing someone for maybe 4wks a year, surely lifers in prison get more rights than that :D

so say after 3yrs, one wants to end this waiting game and the other wants to continue, what about the 3yrs of commitment that person gave you, wasted ?, easy to say walk away..

but yes each to their own.. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Arthur Little
25th July 2009, 12:06
yesterday, i had a chat with my british boyfriend. He was pricky:doh. Our usual daily hour chat ended with hurt feelings. Why was that so? Overnight, i did looked back on how we are handling our long distant relationship that had span for 5 solid years. Yesterday, he felt irritated of my question " why are always offline in the IM?

Hang on in there, my friend. Five years is a long time for ANY relationship ... let alone one conducted from opposite ends of the world ... and I can empathise with your frustration. But YOU have the right to know where things are heading, and HE in turn should be considerate of your feelings.

Maybe, as others have indicated, your boyfriend had simply been having an "off day" [it can happen to us all at times!]. Work problems perhaps? Whatever, I think it's best to clear the air between you (for BOTH your sakes) next time you talk. Explain to him how hurt you felt at the way your previous chat had ended. And, hopefully, he will prove to be more understanding than before.

Best Wishes to each of you. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 12:11
but it isn't a relationship when you've spent 5yrs seeing someone for maybe 4wks a year, surely lifers in prison get more rights than that :D

so say after 3yrs, one wants to end this waiting game and the other wants to continue, what about the 3yrs of commitment that person gave you, wasted ?, easy to say walk away..

but yes each to their own.. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Lifers in prison?Yup,thats a good analogy for people who have rushed into marriage and find out too late they chose the wrong partner,most pinays will just hang on in there for the sake of ang pamilya :NoNo: Your also right about 3 years wasted on failed relationships,the chinese call it spilt milk,but havent we all had girlfriends even for a few months that didnt work out?Thats also wasted time,if you have 10 girlfriends,each lasted 3 months theres two and a half years gone,its all relative.Different strokes for different folks,we all have varying speeds in life.

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 12:13
LOL, it was a joke :D:D:D:D
I know you're an advocate of "slowly but surely" movement, lol :xxgrinning--00xx3:
Anyway, it's good to take your time until you are 100% sure, it's a lifetime commitment,
it's wise to think long and hard before you jump into it :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:


mas mainam na dahan dahan lang. Huwag kang padala sa mga udyok :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Sophie
25th July 2009, 13:05
mas mainam na dahan dahan lang. Huwag kang padala sa mga udyok :xxgrinning--00xx3:

sa udyok ng tukso? sa silakbo ng damdamin :icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:
This are deep tagalog, lol, for filipino poets :D:D i think you are a multi lingual poet as well, lol :):)

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 13:08
Temptation? :Erm:Outburst of emotion :icon_lol: Deep tagalog :icon_lol: Sophie,I am surrounded by hundreds of books,its emotional :icon_lol:

aposhark
25th July 2009, 13:51
.........But every single couple on the face of this planet has a different relationship from their neighbours,we are all different.

I thought I was unique in my pursuit of happiness with my new Mahal.
We all start out on a quest and are bewildered at times.

Some things happened and I was amazed at the insight of the members on this forum.
That is why advice here is invaluable to everyone, because there is no substitute for experience and some here have seen the same problems over and over again.

I have realised that "no man is an island" and I can respect the viewpoint of others here to see the red flags / warning signs.

5 years does seem a tad too long for this lady to wait, but hey, I have been wrong before!

eagles
25th July 2009, 14:09
wow, the conversation here liven up my spirits.. BIG THANKS... I will take things slowly , discuss this over with him and see how this goes.. He came online and ask for an apology.

Arthur Little
25th July 2009, 14:50
wow, the conversation here liven up my spirits.. BIG THANKS... I will take things slowly , discuss this over with him and see how this goes.. He came online and ask for an apology.

Like yourself, I believe it often helps to discuss one's concerns with trusted friends. There's a great deal of truth in the old maxim that "a problem SHARED is a problem HALVED". It's also encouraging to learn that your boyfriend has since been online to ask for an apology.

All the very best to you both!! :cwm38::cwm38:

aposhark
25th July 2009, 14:58
wow, the conversation here liven up my spirits.. BIG THANKS... I will take things slowly , discuss this over with him and see how this goes.. He came online and ask for an apology.

Glad you're happier, eagles.

Not too slowly though, huh?
It will be 2014 before you know it.......

Arthur Little
25th July 2009, 15:00
Hang on in there, my friend ...

To the person who very kindly nominated me extra Reputation Points for this post, I'd like to express my grateful thanks. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

aposhark
25th July 2009, 15:02
To the person who very kindly nominated me extra Reputation Points for this post, I'd like to express my grateful thanks. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Crawler !!!!!!!
:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

LEAHnew
25th July 2009, 15:03
Goodluck to you eagles I hope you discuss it and sorted quickly with so much understanding and love in your heart:cwm38: I've noticed your post been edited I guess u mentioned some words that you felt very hurt that time I'm glad u managed to edit it and got some time to assess how you feel:xxgrinning--00xx3:
Feel free to use the PM and I'm glad to share my past LDR trials:doh:xxgrinning--00xx3:
keep smiling and enjoy life:Hellooo::Hellooo:

vbkelly
25th July 2009, 21:03
wow, the conversation here liven up my spirits.. BIG THANKS... I will take things slowly , discuss this over with him and see how this goes.. He came online and ask for an apology.

you'll be alright eagles just spread your wings and fly fly fly up to the sky:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

Tawi2
25th July 2009, 21:07
Glad you're happier, eagles.

Not too slowly though, huh?
It will be 2014 before you know it.......

http://i24.photobucket.com/albums/c23/aposhark/babytowoman.gif http://i24.photobucket.com/albums/c23/aposhark/muttley.gif

Thats cruel,I just watched that little bird getting older....and older....and older.....and Mutley sniggering :bigcry:
All women are afraid of being left on the shelf,past their sell by date :NoNo::bigcry:

aposhark
25th July 2009, 22:17
Thats cruel,I just watched that little bird getting older....and older....and older.....and Mutley sniggering :bigcry:
All women are afraid of being left on the shelf,past their sell by date :NoNo::bigcry:

It was not meant to be cruel.
Life moves on and we cannot wait for someone forever.
It was meant to make her aware that another 5 years is too long to wait.
All men also know about their mortality, that is why we should all be aware of time-wasters and people who mess us about with no real thought about time.

You mentioned earlier about her taking a long time, implying we are all different and that it was ok.
I don't subscribe to that way of thinking.

I want her to be happy, you just interpreted my icons in a different way to the way they were meant.

And why do you persist in writing in Tagalog?
The rules of the forum state that we must type in English?

Arthur Little
25th July 2009, 22:22
Crawler !!!!!!!
:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

:Erm: If I might be permitted to "crawl" once more, I'd like to express my gratitude to the other anonymous donor who has further enhanced my points.

aposhark
25th July 2009, 22:25
:Erm: If I might be permitted to "crawl" once more, I'd like to express my gratitude to the other anonymous donor who has further enhanced my points.

You're doing well today, Arthur.
If I might be permitted to say "You old smoothie"... :-)

trader dave
25th July 2009, 22:25
wow, the conversation here liven up my spirits.. BIG THANKS... I will take things slowly , discuss this over with him and see how this goes.. He came online and ask for an apology.


just to sum up:xxgrinning--00xx3: YOU ARE GOING TO TAKE THINGS SLOWLY:Erm: so what is he doing :doh:doh an ldr for 5 years :Brick::Brick:

i think some decisions should be made soon :cwm34::Hellooo:


we are just coming up to 2 yrs on our ldr and it drives both of us nuts at times:CompBuster:

eagles
25th July 2009, 23:28
Hi Trader dave.. I know that some may not be able to bear more than 2 years LDR. I had made it to 5 years.. But I am not saying that I am willing to wait for more years.. We are sorting this out and am crossing fingers

trader dave
26th July 2009, 01:19
Hi Trader dave.. I know that some may not be able to bear more than 2 years LDR. I had made it to 5 years.. But I am not saying that I am willing to wait for more years.. We are sorting this out and am crossing fingers


good good good good:Hellooo::Hellooo::Hellooo:

beppe
26th July 2009, 03:29
yesterday, i had a chat with my british boyfriend. He was pricky:doh. Our usual daily hour chat ended with hurt feelings. Why was that so? Overnight, i did looked back on how we are handling our long distant relationship that had span for 5 solid years. Yesterday, he felt irritated of my question " why are always offline in the IM?

What makes you think he is hiding something from you, ask him strait.

Arturo
26th July 2009, 06:22
Sorry... I must be stupid....... also curios!

What is LDR. :ARsurrender:


Arthur

Sim11UK
26th July 2009, 06:39
Sorry... I must be stupid....... also curios!

What is LDR. :ARsurrender:


Arthur

Loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong distance relationship :xxgrinning--00xx3: :)

kimmi
26th July 2009, 10:02
Sorry... I must be stupid....... also curios!

What is LDR. :ARsurrender:


Arthur


L- Long
D- Distance
R- Relationship

kimmi
26th July 2009, 10:04
Sorry... I must be stupid....... also curios!

What is LDR. :ARsurrender:


Arthur


Loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong distance relationship :xxgrinning--00xx3: :)

that was a very looooooooooooooooong one Sim..:icon_lol:

L- Long
D- Distance
R- Relationship

:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::icon_lol:

joebloggs
26th July 2009, 14:08
that was a very looooooooooooooooong one Sim..:icon_lol:

L- Long
D- Distance
R- Relationship

:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::icon_lol:

thats becuase its a 5yr ldr :D