i seek a relationship maybe a wife (Merged)

[cool999]

i am a nice guy seeking a relationship with a nice women i hope a nice girl contacts me please email me your contact details my ideal women will live in the uk but can be from any country and be any race i dont mind color and race is no boundry for love i am 31 honest living in northen england if you get in touch please give me your email address or yahoo messanger id and thanks for getting in touch

[aromulus]

i am a nice guy seeking a relationship with a nice women i hope a nice girl contacts me please email me your contact details my ideal women will live in the uk but can be from any country and be any race i dont mind color and race is no boundry for love i am 31 honest living in northen england if you get in touch please give me your email address or yahoo messanger id and thanks for getting in touch



:doh

[tiN]

Welcome to the forum cool999

[bornatbirth]

i am a nice guy seeking a relationship with a nice women i hope a nice girl contacts me please email me your contact details my ideal women will live in the uk but can be from any country and be any race i dont mind color and race is no boundry for love i am 31 honest living in northen england if you get in touch please give me your email address or yahoo messanger id and thanks for getting in touch

can i ask what kind of lady are you looking for? :Erm:

if your looking for a woman from anywhere in the world you are aware theres alot of them :omg: you may need to narrow down your quest for love :cwm12:

goodluck anyway!:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[kimmi]

hi cool999,

welcome to the forum..Goodluck on ur search..:D

[cool999]

a women in the uk would be nice but i am attracted to asian women like phil , chinese japanese women in general from asia,. but due to the fact i think long distance relationships dont work i think she has to live in the uk

[beaubrummie]

Hi cool999 U NEED TO THINK AGAIN ABOUT LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS. ME AND THE WIFE HAVE BEEN WED SINCE 1995 ,MARRIED & MET IN THE PHILLS. MANY MEMBERS HERE AVE DONE THE SAME . DEPENDS ON THE COUPLE AT THE END OF THE DAY!!SHRT AND LONG DISTANCE BOTH HAVE UPS & DOWNS. GUD LUCK AND WELCOME

[Tawi2]

True love isnt measured in distance,nowadays with internet,excellent phone links,and asia only a days flight away anyone is within reach,dont limit yourself and stipulate UK cool,the world is shrinking day by day :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Sophie]

i am a nice guy seeking a relationship with a nice women i hope a nice girl contacts me please email me your contact details my ideal women will live in the uk but can be from any country and be any race i dont mind color and race is no boundry for love i am 31 honest living in northen england if you get in touch please give me your email address or yahoo messanger id and thanks for getting in touch

welcome to the forum cool 999 :Hellooo::Hellooo: I hope you find what you're looking for here and goodluck in your search :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Ana_may365]

hiya!welcome aboard:Hellooo::Hellooo::Hellooo:

[aug06_2006]

Hello cool999,welcome to the forum and wish u a luck!

[Jay&Zobel]

Welcome Cool 999 Happy hunting!

[joebloggs]

but due to the fact i think long distance relationships dont work i think she has to live in the uk

:icon_lol: nearly everyone on here is from a LDR :doh

i've been married more than 6 1/2 yrs :NoNo: and i've just worked out, i've known the misses for more than 10yrs now :yikes:

:bigcry:

[bornatbirth]

a women in the uk would be nice but i am attracted to asian women like phil , chinese japanese women in general from asia,. but due to the fact i think long distance relationships dont work i think she has to live in the uk

i think you will find most of us in the forum have been in long distance relationships until our wifes or gfs finally get here?we must be doing something right.

just being in the uk wont mean a relationship will work either?

why do you feel a ldr wont work?

[irobot]

Irobot..." Sunny Different From The Rest..."

Hi There cool999...Welcome To The Forum...

Best Of Luck, Looking For LOVE...Phil...

[trader dave]

LDR's DONT WORK? :doh :Help1:I think that is a very rash statement to make :NoNo: as other members have said a very large percentage of all of us have at one point entered into a ldr ,now personaly if i had taken that view 18 months ago i would not be getting married in june and my bank balance would be looking a lot healthier:Erm:

i will admit it can be hard at times building trust ,honesty loyalty :doh but what do i know this will be wife number 3 :Erm: and the first 2 i met in the uk :NoNo::ARsurrender::icon_lol:

[cool999]

ok some peoples ldr seem to work maybe i'll try again the thing is i got scammed by a women in germony who came from ghana and after that i became so distrustful as i got badly hurt after i had my heart ripped out after i sent her money for brain sugery thinking she had a brain tumer and that was kinda of long distance so i think you can understand my feelings... and what about sex???? if dont see her you dont have sex???? long time no sex right???

[cool999]

my friend been dating a girl in manchester for a few months she is from vietnham but i need advise is it normal for asian girls not to want sex with her boy friend... i have dated phil thai chinese women before but when i go to bed with this girl when i go to bed we would make love and it was normal thing to me.. but this vietnam women i have been dating always says she is too tired at night to make love . i dont know if im talking to much off this but she seems tired all the time. i need some help here beacause i dont know if we as a couple is compatable. when it comes to sex. to exsplain when i visited her she not see me for 2 weeks but only make love once and for her not seeing me long time is difficult for her. but it is me who travel to see her i live an hour by train away from her but every time she seems too tired for sex on a night i know she works hard but she sleeps alot she goes to bed between 10 and 11 oclock. but is it me or is it her? when it comes to sex it seems she becomes very selfish and i dont know what to do i cant talk to her about it because she wont lisen she just will get upset. and she seems to have periods for long time. like a long week and she wont have sex,, although that depends on her some times, we not been dating long but we dont have sex much normally when i start a relationship you have alot of sex am i exspecting too much? she keep saying i use her for sex when i got upset when she say have period and cant make love... is it me or what she dont seem to like make love with me.

[Florge]

sorry... got lost here... is it your friend or you who's having this problem?

[cool999]

ok its me but i need advise i need to think is it me or her....

in responce to what i asked her and she said the following to me in a text message,,...u talk to me u argue not sweet like lover that make me want sex.and im working full time need sleep well if not im tierd so dont want sex.ask ur advice what i said......

this what she says in text on my phone....

what you guys think?

[cool999]

one thing i better tell you the situation i am unemployed at the moment trying to get a job my gf has been very good about it and suportive i think i needed some glasses as my eyesight got worse she paid £225 for them and she insisted paying £200 for driving lessions and also lent me another £200 for more drivng lessions and she pays for most things when we are out and about am i too hard on her about the sex thing do you still think she not really love me she runs 3 bussinesses in arndale market manchester and is very busy running the stores what do you think still be glad of your advise.... not many girl want unemployed man these days.....

[Tawi2]

"My friend" :Erm:Ok,its you right?I thought you were looking for a relationship with a pinay in another post?Can I ask your age cool?:Erm:

[Sophie]

one thing i better tell you the situation i am unemployed at the moment trying to get a job my gf has been very good about it and suportive i think i needed some glasses as my eyesight got worse she paid £225 for them and she insisted paying £200 for driving lessions and also lent me another £200 for more drivng lessions and she pays for most things when we are out and about am i too hard on her about the sex thing do you still think she not really love me she runs 3 bussinesses in arndale market manchester and is very busy running the stores what do you think still be glad of your advise.... not many girl want unemployed man these days.....

Looks to me she is just really tired most of the time, given how hard she works and having to run 3 businesses as you mentioned above. So i suggest you cut her some slack. She deserves some rest, she works hard everyday and she is generous and kind enough to help you out financially now that you are unemployed. Obviously she cares about you by being there for you and trying to support you in the best way she can, so i guess that should count for something.

[joebloggs]

relationships are about giving and taking, but you seem to be just doing the taking :cwm24: get a job and start treating her like a lady and not a object of sex :NoNo:

[Florge]

yeah... you were looking for a wife... from your other post...

[somebody]

Firstly no one is the same so just because you dated women from the same corner of the World. Does it mean you can expect them to be all the same.

If she has three jobs in a market (So likely to labour intensive and customer care) both likely to make someone very very tired. When does she wake up and start work. Blimey im suprised she was still awake at 10 or 11pm.

Sex is not in this relationship but the fact she sticks with you and supports you means it looks like you have a decent and caring Lady.

Must be hard to be out of work at the moment with the situation going on. But it should give you some time to have a long hard think.

Do you want to be with this Lady for the forseeable future?

If the answer is yes. Why instead always of trying to get a jiggy on, not offering to give her a nice massage so she rests better.She on occasions may relax and who knows. Don't going with the intention you must score to night everytime. Chill relax its not a race is it?

Lets face it whats tougher in physically, an hours train ride or working all week?

Stand back and take a good look.

[Eljohno]

So if i have got this right from reading what others have wrote you are looking for a wife but also having sex and sponging of this woman who is working very hard:doh

What a catch you will be for someone:bluegrab:

[pennybarry]

my friend been dating a girl in manchester for a few months she is from vietnham but i need advise is it normal for asian girls not to want sex with her boy friend... i have dated phil thai chinese women before but when i go to bed with this girl when i go to bed we would make love and it was normal thing to me.. but this vietnam women i have been dating always says she is too tired at night to make love . i dont know if im talking to much off this but she seems tired all the time. i need some help here beacause i dont know if we as a couple is compatable. when it comes to sex. to exsplain when i visited her she not see me for 2 weeks but only make love once and for her not seeing me long time is difficult for her. but it is me who travel to see her i live an hour by train away from her but every time she seems too tired for sex on a night i know she works hard but she sleeps alot she goes to bed between 10 and 11 oclock. but is it me or is it her? when it comes to sex it seems she becomes very selfish and i dont know what to do i cant talk to her about it because she wont lisen she just will get upset. and she seems to have periods for long time. like a long week and she wont have sex,, although that depends on her some times, we not been dating long but we dont have sex much normally when i start a relationship you have alot of sex am i exspecting too much? she keep saying i use her for sex when i got upset when she say have period and cant make love... is it me or what she dont seem to like make love with me.

Why not help your partner in her 3 business? That will make her happy and lessen her tiredness. You will be together and will know each other more. Who knows if you help her in any way you can, she will be the one to bring you in bed:D:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[trader dave]

yeah dead right long time no sex :action-smiley-081: its a case of diy but when you do meet its woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo:action-smiley-081::yikes::Rasp::Rasp::Rasp::bigcry::Cuckoo::cwm12::Hellooo:and more:Rasp::Rasp::Rasp::icon_lol::censored: buy her a toy also :doh:NoNo:

[trader dave]

so as you was looking for another relationship yesterday i take it you are thinking of dumping this hard working girl ????:NoNo::Erm:

[cool999]

thanks for your comments guys im 31 my past relationships were very sexual but she is not but she has the most giving heart of all maybe i should be more understanding and not so selfish i just needed some advise and a new way of looking at things from another perspective any commets are welcome though weather their good not good please be honest i will take the advise in and thank you

[cool999]

well if honest i was considering it as we are very different people. but maybe i should like some have said give her some slack...her english is not good so talking on phone not easy.... hard to believe her here in uk but english still poor...

[keithAngel]

So if i have got this right from reading what others have wrote you are looking for a wife but also having sex and sponging of this woman who is working very hard:doh

What a catch you will be for someone:bluegrab:

Bit harsh Eljohno on that basis a lot of Pinoys could be so caracterised too:rolleyes:

English doesnt seem to be the OPs first language either :Erm:

[pennybarry]

Why not try to find a job so that you can divert your attention rather than thinking of s x all the time. Your GF is busy making money and you were busy thinking about s x, well, someone should wake up.

Potpot is right. Don't think too much SEX especially now you are jobless, how if she got preggy? She can't make money for you:doh Hard life isn't it? Rich government of UK has more and more claimants this recession:D

[Ping]

So you are unemployed and depending on her and still your moaning of not having enough sex. If you're a sensible man you should help her instead of thinking sex.

Sex is not the basis of the long lasting relationship man.For me you are ungrateful ,selfish and inconsiderate.

[keithAngel]

Don't think too much SEX especially now you are jobless, how if she got preggy? She can't make money for you

That would make a GREAT poster in the Fils:icon_lol:

Whilst you do have to have sex to get Preggy unless you have friends in high places:rolleyes: You dont HAVE to get Preggy because you have sex:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[pennybarry]

So you are unemployed and depending on her and still your moaning of not having enough sex. If you're a sensible man you should help her instead of thinking sex.

Sex is not the basis of the long lasting relationship man.For me you are ungrateful ,selfish and inconsiderate.

Ehehehe take it from Ate Ping:xxgrinning--00xx3:


That would make a GREAT poster in the Fils:icon_lol:

You dont HAVE to get Preggy because you have sex:xxgrinning--00xx3:


How about poster in UK too??? There's baby capital in UK too:action-smiley-081:
Hmmm that's contracepcion or abortion

[Sophie]

So you are unemployed and depending on her and still your moaning of not having enough sex. If you're a sensible man you should help her instead of thinking sex.

Sex is not the basis of the long lasting relationship man.For me you are ungrateful ,selfish and inconsiderate.

:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3: I COULDN'T AGREE MORE :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::)

[aromulus]

ok some peoples ldr seem to work maybe i'll try again the thing is i got scammed by a women in germony who came from ghana and after that i became so distrustful as i got badly hurt after i had my heart ripped out after i sent her money for brain sugery thinking she had a brain tumer and that was kinda of long distance so i think you can understand my feelings... and what about sex???? if dont see her you dont have sex???? long time no sex right???

Small sacrifice indeed if you really love and respect the lady in question.:xxgrinning--00xx3:

If you are just after one thing, ie sex, in the relationship, then am afraid LDR is not for you.:NoNo:

[aromulus]

Sex is not the basis of the long lasting relationship man.For me you are ungrateful ,selfish and inconsiderate.

Korrek ka dyann...!!!!!:xxgrinning--00xx3:

I did more or less say the same in his other thread....






ok some peoples ldr seem to work maybe i'll try again the thing is i got scammed by a women in germony who came from ghana and after that i became so distrustful as i got badly hurt after i had my heart ripped out after i sent her money for brain sugery thinking she had a brain tumer and that was kinda of long distance so i think you can understand my feelings... and what about sex???? if dont see her you dont have sex???? long time no sex right???


Small sacrifice indeed if you really love and respect the lady in question.:xxgrinning--00xx3:

If you are just after one thing, ie sex, in the relationship, then am afraid LDR is not for you.:NoNo:

He is sending confusing messages, but one thing seems to be foremost in his mind and that is sex.....:omg:

The priorities seem to be a bit wrong, if I may say so.:doh

[vbkelly]

i am a nice guy seeking a relationship with a nice women i hope a nice girl contacts me please email me your contact details my ideal women will live in the uk but can be from any country and be any race i dont mind color and race is no boundry for love i am 31 honest living in northen england if you get in touch please give me your email address or yahoo messanger id and thanks for getting in touch

huh!:NoNo::NoNo::NoNo:

[Eljohno]

Bit harsh Eljohno on that basis a lot of Pinoys could be so caracterised too:rolleyes:

English doesnt seem to be the OPs first language either :Erm:


Usually i am not too harsh but this guy is taking money from a hard working lady and is complaining about sex while looking for a wife from somewhere else so really i am surprised people on here are being so gentle with him:Erm:

[Ji&Ma]

yeah dead right long time no sex :action-smiley-081: its a case of diy but when you do meet its woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo:action-smiley-081::yikes::Rasp::Rasp::Rasp::bigcry::Cuckoo::cwm12::Hellooo:and more:Rasp::Rasp::Rasp::icon_lol::censored: buy her a toy also :doh:NoNo:
:omg: Heheee, how true is this:xxgrinning--00xx3::Rasp::Rasp::Rasp:

[Tawi2]

yeah dead right long time no sex :action-smiley-081: its a case of diy but when you do meet its woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo:action-smiley-081::yikes::Rasp::Rasp::Rasp::bigcry::Cuckoo::cwm12::Hellooo:and more:Rasp::Rasp::Rasp::icon_lol::censored: buy her a toy also :doh:NoNo:

:ARsurrender: I havent got the energy anymore :Erm::ARsurrender:LDR's are better,more sedate,sexercise is way too energetic :NoNo:

[Eljohno]

Are we sure this guy is not a troll?

His story is unbelievable!!!!

[bornatbirth]

so as you was looking for another relationship yesterday i take it you are thinking of dumping this hard working girl ????:NoNo::Erm:

lets hope she dumps him first!


So you are unemployed and depending on her and still your moaning of not having enough sex. If you're a sensible man you should help her instead of thinking sex.

Sex is not the basis of the long lasting relationship man.For me you are ungrateful ,selfish and inconsiderate.

quite right :xxgrinning--00xx3:


Usually i am not too harsh but this guy is taking money from a hard working lady and is complaining about sex while looking for a wife from somewhere else so really i am surprised people on here are being so gentle with him:Erm:

your being easy on him Eljohno :xxgrinning--00xx3:

why are you wasting our time telling us your looking for a ldr with someone in the uk :Erm: then you start this thread saying you already have a gf?

she working 3 jobs and helping you with cash and all you can do is complain about the lack of sex.....get off your backside you inconsiderate moron,the very least you can do is go and help her..why are you not already doing this?

its amazing what goes on inside the mind of some men :icon_lol:

do you want my advice?

become a monk and leave women alone :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[aromulus]

For the sake of not having to follow this moron all over the forum, I took the liberty of merging both his threads into one.:Erm:
The tone is exactly the same, he's annoyed coz his girlfriend is too tired to have sex, after working three jobs, and he has to travel one hour long on a train to get his leg over....:omg:

Shocking....:doh
Such a harsh treatment he is getting...:doh

If you have come onboard to insult our intelligence, you might as well :piss2: off.

:Hellooo:

[Ji&Ma]

It must be troll, otherwise i just can't believe somebody could be this dumb:doh:Brick:

[aromulus]

It must be troll, otherwise i just can't believe somebody could be this dumb:doh:Brick:

Must be a United Supporter...:Erm:

They all have the same DNA.......:Cuckoo:

[vbkelly]

ok some peoples ldr seem to work maybe i'll try again the thing is i got scammed by a women in germony who came from ghana and after that i became so distrustful as i got badly hurt after i had my heart ripped out after i sent her money for brain sugery thinking she had a brain tumer and that was kinda of long distance so i think you can understand my feelings... and what about sex???? if dont see her you dont have sex???? long time no sex right???

sex maniac

[Ji&Ma]

Must be a United Supporter...:Erm:

They all have the same DNA.......:Cuckoo:

:omg:I'm not going to mention this in front of my manager, one of the MU fanatics:Brick::doh
In the current climate it is better to avoid any unecessary confrontation:action-smiley-081:
But - psst - obviously I do agree, just don't tell anyone:D

[Jay&Zobel]

it sounds abit like the reason you like asian women is more of a fetish than a romance. it seems your basis is sex over relationship. I know us guys like sex and obviously women seem to need warming up before they want it. if your GF is busy with business why dont you do everything you can to help her and make her life easier. she really sounds like you owe her, not she owes you. if you really want sex then you need to learn how to treat a woman right. when you do im sure you'll get the sex you desire. but it will always have to be on her terms. so give her some respect and learn and find ways that make her happy and make her days easier. being unemployed probably gives you alot of time and that will cause you to think about sex more. so you need to fill your time with things that take your mind away from it. and obviously you really need to try and find work asap. coz that will be another burden off your Gf.

as for posting looking for girls i think that is really low if you really are with someone. you really need to rethink your situation.



Jay

[trader dave]

i was realy going to rip him to bits :furious3: but i thought i might contact ally and let him do it :action-smiley-081::action-smiley-081::butthead::omg:
WHERES ALLY TGIRL

[Jay&Zobel]

i am a nice guy seeking a relationship with a nice women i hope a nice girl contacts me please email me your contact details my ideal women will live in the uk but can be from any country and be any race i dont mind color and race is no boundry for love i am 31 honest living in northen england if you get in touch please give me your email address or yahoo messanger id and thanks for getting in touch


Welcome Cool 999 Happy hunting!


I AM TAKING THIS BACK! AFTER READING ALL YOUR POSTS!!!!




my friend been dating a girl in manchester for a few months she is from vietnham but i need advise is it normal for asian girls not to want sex with her boy friend... i have dated phil thai chinese women before but when i go to bed with this girl when i go to bed we would make love and it was normal thing to me.. but this vietnam women i have been dating always says she is too tired at night to make love . i dont know if im talking to much off this but she seems tired all the time. i need some help here beacause i dont know if we as a couple is compatable. when it comes to sex. to exsplain when i visited her she not see me for 2 weeks but only make love once and for her not seeing me long time is difficult for her. but it is me who travel to see her i live an hour by train away from her but every time she seems too tired for sex on a night i know she works hard but she sleeps alot she goes to bed between 10 and 11 oclock. but is it me or is it her? when it comes to sex it seems she becomes very selfish and i dont know what to do i cant talk to her about it because she wont lisen she just will get upset. and she seems to have periods for long time. like a long week and she wont have sex,, although that depends on her some times, we not been dating long but we dont have sex much normally when i start a relationship you have alot of sex am i exspecting too much? she keep saying i use her for sex when i got upset when she say have period and cant make love... is it me or what she dont seem to like make love with me.


it sounds abit like the reason you like asian women is more of a fetish than a romance. it seems your basis is sex over relationship. I know us guys like sex and obviously women seem to need warming up before they want it. if your GF is busy with business why dont you do everything you can to help her and make her life easier. she really sounds like you owe her, not she owes you. if you really want sex then you need to learn how to treat a woman right. when you do im sure you'll get the sex you desire. but it will always have to be on her terms. so give her some respect and learn and find ways that make her happy and make her days easier. being unemployed probably gives you alot of time and that will cause you to think about sex more. so you need to fill your time with things that take your mind away from it. and obviously you really need to try and find work asap. coz that will be another burden off your Gf.

as for posting looking for girls i think that is really low if you really are with someone. you really need to rethink your situation.



Jay



That was my husband's reply.

Now, it's my turn:
YOU ARE SO SELFISH AND YOU CALL YOUR SELF AN HONEST GUY. NO WONDER YOUR VIETNAMESE GF IS WORKING HER ******** OFF JUST TO FORGET HOW IRRESPONSIBLE HUMAN BEING YOU ARE! YOU ARE YOUNG YET YOU HAVE GOT NO JOB! WHY DO YOU THINK YOUR GF IS NOT INTERESTED OF HAVING SEX WITH YOU? (COME ON! THINK?! OR WOULD YOU WANT ME TO HELP YOU ANSWER THAT QUESTION IF YOUR NOT THAT TOO LAZY!!)

NO WOMAN IS INTERESTED OF GIVING HERSELF TO SOMEBODY IF SHE ISNT BEING TREATED NICE!

RESPECT WOMEN ALL THE TIME! ALWAYS & FOREVER! THEY ARE NOT COMMODITIES, THEY ARE NOT OBJECTS! THEY ARE NOT JUST FOR SEX!

THEY ARE TO BE LOVED, BE CARED FOR & BE RESPECTED!!!

ARE YOU WORTHY TO BE LOVED TOO?
ARE YOU WORTHY TO BE RESPECTED TOO?
ARE YOU WORTHY OF THE SEX YOU ARE LONGING FROM HER?!!!!
THINK!!!!

I JUST FEEL SO SORRY FOR YOUR GF... SHE SEEMED NICE YET BEING DEGRADED BY SOMEONE LIKE YOU!!! NO WOMAN SHOULD BE TREATED LIKE THIS!!!!!!


All in capital letters & in red!!!! I am just annoyed if you can see!



Zobel

[trader dave]

if you are just after sex sex and more sex why not rent girls go to veitnam go to thailand go to the philippines you can shag yourself silly all day and night if you want :icon_lol::icon_lol: been there done that gets very boring in the end:Erm::Erm: but even with that the number 1 rule IS DONT FILL THEM WITH B~LLSHIT :Hellooo::Hellooo: and of course you might have to get a job here first to finance the trip ----type in pattaya secrets you can get some idea of what goes on in less restrictive countries :Hellooo::Hellooo::NoNo:

[eagles]

honestly i was annoyed with the post of cool999, can we ban him ???coz he is simply making the forum like he is airing his discontent with his current girl and he is seeking another one??he is not seeking advice actually - he is forum hopping..gross!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[pacificelectric]

It must be troll, otherwise i just can't believe somebody could be this dumb:doh:Brick:

Human stupidity is like the universe: always expanding and boundless. Still it is good to have these characters around, they make us feel so smart and wise all of a sudden!! :Rasp:

[pennybarry]

sex maniac



Eheheheh SEX MANIAC NEEDS SEX MACHINE or maybe a f***g:censored: doll
love to make sex but hate to work:omg: Hope you can find your compatible mate. There maybe few left:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Sim11UK]

Also are you 31 or 32?...I think you're 32...Not really relevent, but just adds to the confusion??? :Erm:

[Ladybug_sim]

relationships are about giving and taking, but you seem to be just doing the taking :cwm24: get a job and start treating her like a lady and not a object of sex :NoNo:

:Hellooo::Hellooo::Hellooo::Hellooo::Hellooo::Hellooo::Hellooo::Hellooo:

[keithAngel]

What a strange thread!!

No matter how naive the OP may be ,He has been Honest
he said he has been dating for a few months and is reaching the point where he is questioning the mutual compatability of the relationship and is explaining that HE has a need /wish /requirement for more sex than his girlfriend .

Nothing to do with him being unemployed or her having three jobs although tiredness may be a contributory factor, nor can I see the connection between her helping him financialy and his feelings about the relationship over all.

His reluctance to LDRs, for him, may be very wise and I wish him and everyone else here happiness in what ever form is right for you and your loved one:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Jay&Zobel]

i was realy going to rip him to bits :furious3: but i thought i might contact ally and let him do it :action-smiley-081::action-smiley-081::butthead::omg:
WHERES ALLY TGIRL

hehehe very naughty Trader dave!



if you are just after sex sex and more sex why not rent girls go to veitnam go to thailand go to the philippines you can shag yourself silly all day and night if you want :icon_lol::icon_lol: been there done that gets very boring in the end:Erm::Erm: :Hellooo::Hellooo::NoNo:

Sex is boring without love ;-)




What a strange thread!!

No matter how naive the OP may be ,He has been Honest
he said he has been dating for a few months and is reaching the point where he is questioning the mutual compatability of the relationship and is explaining that HE has a need /wish /requirement for more sex than his girlfriend .

Nothing to do with him being unemployed or her having three jobs although tiredness may be a contributory factor, nor can I see the connection between her helping him financialy and his feelings about the relationship over all.

His reluctance to LDRs, for him, may be very wise and I wish him and everyone else here happiness in what ever form is right for you and your loved one:xxgrinning--00xx3:


True true true but do not discount the fact that: IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO ;-) :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Jay&Zobel]

.her english is not good so talking on phone not easy.... hard to believe her here in uk but english still poor...


:NoNo::NoNo::NoNo: atleast she is an asset to the country (IMO) paying taxes and all...

[aromulus]

What a strange thread!!

No matter how naive the OP may be ,He has been Honest
he said he has been dating for a few months and is reaching the point where he is questioning the mutual compatability of the relationship and is explaining that HE has a need /wish /requirement for more sex than his girlfriend .

Nothing to do with him being unemployed or her having three jobs although tiredness may be a contributory factor, nor can I see the connection between her helping him financialy and his feelings about the relationship over all.

His reluctance to LDRs, for him, may be very wise and I wish him and everyone else here happiness in what ever form is right for you and your loved one:xxgrinning--00xx3:


I don't think it is worthy or honorable looking for a new relationship while still taking advantage sexually and financially of someone else, .

Would he not be more HONEST if he did the right thing first, like breaking up with the present hardworking lady, and then seek solace somewhere else...???:Erm:

[thejarvs]

well if honest i was considering it as we are very different people. but maybe i should like some have said give her some slack...her english is not good so talking on phone not easy.... hard to believe her here in uk but english still poor...

:furious3: Excuse me! It seems English is obviously not your first language either!

hmmmmmm me thinks I better leave this thread alone or risk flaming :cwm23:

[joebloggs]

:furious3: Excuse me! It seems English is obviously not your first language either!

hmmmmmm me thinks I better leave this thread alone or risk flaming :cwm23:

:doh

:gp:

:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Jay&Zobel]

honestly i was annoyed with the post of cool999, can we ban him ???coz he is simply making the forum like he is airing his discontent with his current girl and he is seeking another one??he is not seeking advice actually - he is forum hopping..gross!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Nope... do not ban him... he needs to read all the replies... baka mauntog ang ulo nya! (wives explain to your husbands what I'm saying here...)

[aromulus]

Nope... do not ban him... he needs to read all the replies... baka mauntog ang ulo nya! (wives explain to your husbands what I, saying here...)

Never was any intention to ban him.

[kimmi]

Nope... do not ban him... he needs to read all the replies... baka mauntog ang ulo nya! (wives explain to your husbands what I, saying here...)

sis I think he's wearing a very thick helmet..:doh:doh he's so pathetic and so thick..:CompBuster::CompBuster::Brick::furious3:

[ca143]

if im his gf shoe i had to bought poison for him.

[Mrs Daddy]

I have been reading this thread and I cant say anything as you said it all guys...:D:D:D

[Eljohno]

It seems mr cool has disappeared:Erm:

[Jay&Zobel]

It seems mr cool has disappeared:Erm:

Maybe he's keeping himself busy, helping his GF :Erm::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[bornatbirth]

he has his feet up watching tv and waiting for the gf to come home :Erm: :icon_lol:

[flomike]

only one thing i want to add I am so lucky having my husband can't ask for more:D

[cool999]

interesting the comments i got here really interesting you seem to think i am completly with out morals here but im not and to exsplain things i send gifts to my gf that i buy on ebay and send to her all the time as in regards to here bussiness, she has 3 stores but only mans one of them the others run them selves because her staff get a huge commision amount so in effect all her staff are partners in the bussiness;s any way i do help her when i can i design many posters and leaflets and give her advise on how to increase sales in the down turn and i would help her more but i am male and not a women and that means i cant work in a girly shop doing womens nails besides i dont have the skills to do womens nails or cut womens hair ...

i dont have the qualifications either but what i can do i try to help last night while she a sleep i dug up soil and planted alot of seeds for fruit and veg so in a few months will have many vegs to eat. and i do many things for her if i can.. but latley i been feeling we dont have alot in commen like she sleeps alot i know she works alot bit during days she has off she still sleeps i am not a troll i do take her feelings into account and i dont talk about her past because it will upset her she hates talk about it.

as for the work thing i am trying dame hard ok and i am even willing to work for free just to improve my cv and i do a part time evening course at college but its hard when you need qualifications to do any thing these days.

i did decide due to some comments left here decided to take your advise and take it slow but it is my gf who wants see me all the time i am happy to stay away and see her once a month but she likes see me more and to be honest i am unsure why she wants me any way i know i ant a model .

but the things that i guess i come across as being dishonest considering looking for another women while with one well to be honest its a what if we broke up i like to keep other possibilties open just in case.

im honest to find some one but some one i feel compatiabe with to give you an idea what she is like she is so quite getting her to talk is hard and her english is poor so understanding her is very hard but i do care i am just unsure if we can have a fucture because we like different things.

she dont like watching tv and i do and she says things like why you watching that. and she wont let me stay in her house while she is away working so for that reason i cant sat longer than a weekend even if she wants me stay longer because i get bored hanging around a nail beauty shop or walking around manchester town for hours to wait till she fisnsh work. the reason she says the co - owner of her house and she had an agreement not to let partners stay while their not their im not sure that is really true.

if we communicate differently liike different things and find talking to each other can we really have a relationship even if i had a job money and a house i would still be wondering if she is the one for me.

[keithAngel]

you must have come at an "old testament " moment :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[cool999]

keithAngel thanks for your kind honest reply it was touching yes we are all different

[Eljohno]

interesting the comments i got here really interesting you seem to think i am completly with out morals here but im not and to exsplain things i send gifts to my gf that i buy on ebay and send to her all the time as in regards to here bussiness, she has 3 stores but only mans one of them the others run them selves because her staff get a huge commision amount so in effect all her staff are partners in the bussiness;s any way i do help her when i can i design many posters and leaflets and give her advise on how to increase sales in the down turn and i would help her more but i am male and not a women and that means i cant work in a girly shop doing womens nails besides i dont have the skills to do womens nails or cut womens hair ...

i dont have the qualifications either but what i can do i try to help last night while she a sleep i dug up soil and planted alot of seeds for fruit and veg so in a few months will have many vegs to eat. and i do many things for her if i can.. but latley i been feeling we dont have alot in commen like she sleeps alot i know she works alot bit during days she has off she still sleeps i am not a troll i do take her feelings into account and i dont talk about her past because it will upset her she hates talk about it.

as for the work thing i am trying dame hard ok and i am even willing to work for free just to improve my cv and i do a part time evening course at college but its hard when you need qualifications to do any thing these days.

i did decide due to some comments left here decided to take your advise and take it slow but it is my gf who wants see me all the time i am happy to stay away and see her once a month but she likes see me more and to be honest i am unsure why she wants me any way i know i ant a model .

but the things that i guess i come across as being dishonest considering looking for another women while with one well to be honest its a what if we broke up i like to keep other possibilties open just in case.

im honest to find some one but some one i feel compatiabe with to give you an idea what she is like she is so quite getting her to talk is hard and her english is poor so understanding her is very hard but i do care i am just unsure if we can have a fucture because we like different things.

she dont like watching tv and i do and she says things like why you watching that. and she wont let me stay in her house while she is away working so for that reason i cant sat longer than a weekend even if she wants me stay longer because i get bored hanging around a nail beauty shop or walking around manchester town for hours to wait till she fisnsh work. the reason she says the co - owner of her house and she had an agreement not to let partners stay while their not their im not sure that is really true.

if we communicate differently liike different things and find talking to each other can we really have a relationship even if i had a job money and a house i would still be wondering if she is the one for me.

:NoNo::doh:rolleyes::NoNo::doh:rolleyes: enough said!!

[cool999]

i found another forum on the internet which seems nice am i allowed to post it here mod?????

[keithAngel]

keithAngel thanks for your kind honest reply it was touching yes we are all different

In my case I think it was the 2mt wingspan:bigcry:

[cool999]

i wanted ask simple question if you have girl friend living close by how much sex do you exspect in a given month?

[cool999]

another question some guy said been to asia done the meet girls and have sex thing where any of them lady boys???????????????

[keithAngel]

i wanted ask simple question if you have girl friend living close by how much sex do you exspect in a given month?

Thats a hard one cool :rolleyes: personaly you would need to define your terms

What do you mean by "sex":Erm:

[cool999]

do men in general in regards to asian women have to chance the way they talk and deal with the women oposed to talking and loving a english or american women.... some times it feels like i have to dumb down to get onto her level....

[cool999]

yes my written english is not good because i have a learning difficultie and i cant be bothered using a spell check besides they dont always work but trust me my spoken english is great hence being able to work for many call centres in the past. uk ones that is. one thing who here who is english hates speaking to indian call centres??????????? i;m curious????? i used to work for empire direct and had to deal with them all the time thats why i left the call centre enviroment....

[bornatbirth]

another question some guy said been to asia done the meet girls and have sex thing where any of them lady boys???????????????

i think your in the wrong forum :Erm:

are you saying your "friend" ie you as been with a lady boy :icon_lol: did he wake up with a sore :action-smiley-081:

or are you asking can you have to much sex with a ladyboy?

[cool999]

well sex is sex ant it did you do re at school i dont know if the mod would let me use the words to exsplain. keithangel

[bornatbirth]

sounds like you dont get on with her,so why are still with her?

why is sex so important to you!

dont you feel anything else in a relationship?

[cool999]

no i dont mean that its just some one posted a reply to say they have been to asia on a sex trip to be blunt you know about sex tourism right? no i not done it with a lady boy but i have been contacted by a few in the past but i know alot are in asia i was just curious if any the sex tourists who went out to asia for sex met a ladyboy by mistake or accident and what did they do... i remember steve in corry met one in spain and he walked away i wonder how many walk away maybe it too late if they in the bed almost naked i know some lady boys can look like women i remember the sky tv show which sky televison had to pay out compo for £100.000 for every guy on the dating show any one remember it???

[cool999]

to be honest this site seems great so helpful people here you are all wonderful people i just wanted to say such as i am at a cross roads and trying to decide if i should stick it out or find some one else but rest asured i wont cheat i never done it and never will.

[bornatbirth]

lol i dont think many on this forum are sex tourist!

but if you end up in bed with a ladyboy let us all know and tell us how it was?

[cool999]

i wanted ask seriously why do people in general date asian instead of english women.? in my case english women dont seem to like me thats why i dated asian women in first place.. english women seem to hate guys with ginger hair any way....

[bornatbirth]

to be honest this site seems great so helpful people here you are all wonderful people i just wanted to say such as i am at a cross roads and trying to decide if i should stick it out or find some one else but rest asured i wont cheat i never done it and never will.

well at least your making some sense,isnt time you ended the relationship and you both moved on :Erm:

btw how did you meet her?

[cool999]

funny enough their has been two lady boys contacted me on yahoo would any one like their contact details i am happy to give as they are seeking a nice boy friend any takers here? i think one is attched but is interested meeting guys the other one is looking and is single i guess others call them shemales i know this is going away from the topic i think but i like to help where i can.

[cool999]

we met on mate1 dating site i sent messages out to alot and she was one of the few to repy i find that dating sites are not easy as so many time waisters and scammers on their

[bornatbirth]

funny enough their has been two lady boys contacted me on yahoo would any one like their contact details i am happy to give as they are seeking a nice boy friend any takers here? i think one is attched but is interested meeting guys the other one is looking and is single i guess others call them shemales i know this is going away from the topic i think but i like to help where i can.


we met on mate1 dating site i sent messages out to alot and she was one of the few to repy i find that dating sites are not easy as so many time waisters and scammers on their

your english just got alot better :Erm: :icon_lol:

i dont think any members are looking for a shemale,maybe some of the moderaters will be :ARsurrender:

[Dedworth]

Looks like we have a Troll here

[Florge]

sis I think he's wearing a very thick helmet..:doh:doh he's so pathetic and so thick..:CompBuster::CompBuster::Brick::furious3:

nahhhh... it's the gf who's wearing a thick, metallic helmet... i hope the gf wakes up tomorrow and dump this guy... :doh

[aromulus]

i dont think any members are looking for a shemale,maybe some of the moderaters will be :ARsurrender:

Up yours, squire.......:CompBuster:

[ca143]

nahhhh... it's the gf who's wearing a thick, metallic helmet... i hope the gf wakes up tomorrow and dump this guy... :doh
yes,thrown into the sea water,im sure shark and dolphins very happy including IBIS....:icon_lol:

[Jay&Zobel]

If you don't have things in common and you are not getting what you want or you are both unhappy, why don't you break up with her then? You will be giving both yourselves a very BIG FAVOUR!!!

Yes, it's given that she is nice & supportive when it comes to finances but a relationship should not be based on that but LOVE...

Questions are... do you love this girl? or does she love you? or is it just the "physical" thing?

[NotYou]

Hey I'd go for physical everytime!

[cool999]

in regards to your question yes i love her and she feels same i think its just i think her personality is not what i would like ideally in a women it dont feel equal it always feels like i have to come down to her level so we can communicate and she dont talk to me about things i cant read her mind you see i think i am a good person and havent cheated on her or any thing its just im coming to the stage in the relationship and wondering do i want to spend the rest of my life with this girl. maybe we are not compatiable or maybe im rushing things too

[Eljohno]

in regards to your question yes i love her and she feels same i think its just i think her personality is not what i would like ideally in a women it dont feel equal it always feels like i have to come down to her level so we can communicate and she dont talk to me about things i cant read her mind you see i think i am a good person and havent cheated on her or any thing its just im coming to the stage in the relationship and wondering do i want to spend the rest of my life with this girl. maybe we are not compatiable or maybe im rushing things too

You are saying you have not cheated on her but is it ok to start a thread on here saying you are looking a wife when you already have a girlfriend..:Erm::doh

Its obvious you do not love this girl like you say:NoNo:

[DaveUK]

in regards to your question yes i love her and she feels same i think its just i think her personality is not what i would like ideally in a women it dont feel equal it always feels like i have to come down to her level so we can communicate and she dont talk to me about things i cant read her mind you see i think i am a good person and havent cheated on her or any thing its just im coming to the stage in the relationship and wondering do i want to spend the rest of my life with this girl. maybe we are not compatiable or maybe im rushing things too

How can you say you love someone, then say you don't see them as an equal and that you have to "come down to her level" when communicating?!

[adam&chryss]

it's so funny that u r posting different topics in ur own thread...
1st: looking for an asian wife
2nd: bout ur vietnamese gf who's giving u alot of things but not sex
3rd: bout having sex with a ladyboy or shemale

i wonder what's next :Erm:


well in regards to ur gf... u r a very lucky guy having her though u may not be compatible it doesn't mean ur relationship won't work out. me and my hubby aren't compatble too. we just love each other so much!
wat ur gf wants is to make love not have sex. does that make sense to you? :rolleyes: just my thoughts though :D

[Ji&Ma]

it's so funny that u r posting different topics in ur own thread...
1st: looking for an asian wife
2nd: bout ur vietnamese gf who's giving u alot of things but not sex
3rd: bout having sex with a ladyboy or shemale

i wonder what's next :Erm:


well in regards to ur gf... u r a very lucky guy having her though u may not be compatible it doesn't mean ur relationship won't work out. me and my hubby aren't compatble too. we just love each other so much!
wat ur gf wants is to make love not have sex. does that make sense to you? :rolleyes: just my thoughts though :D

Spot on!:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Jay&Zobel]

If you don't have things in common and you are not getting what you want or you are both unhappy, why don't you break up with her then? You will be giving both yourselves a very BIG FAVOUR!!!

Yes, it's given that she is nice & supportive when it comes to finances but a relationship should not be based on that but LOVE...

Questions are... do you love this girl? or does she love you? or is it just the "physical" thing?



in regards to your question yes i love her and she feels same i think - You think? You are not sure?

its just i think her personality is not what i would like ideally in a women
it dont feel equal it always feels like i have to come down to her level so we can communicate okay...but then you are unhappy with your relationship with her...don't you think you deserve to be happy too?..

she dont talk to me about things i cant read her mind Fair enough... In a relationship, the most important thing is COMMUNICATION! Yes physical attraction is just natural thing

you see i think i am a good person and havent cheated on her or any thing Then that's great if you stayed faithful despite of everything... It sounds like you really are unhappy with her. I'm sorry...

its just im coming to the stage in the relationship
and wondering do i want to spend the rest of my life with this girl. Yeah, true, it is only you who can decide whether you would want to spend your entire life with her...

maybe we are not compatiable or maybe im rushing things too That's the question or could also the answer...

You really need to have a good heart to heart talk with your GF you know... She may not be very fluent in speaking English but then there is nothing harm in trying right?... Just try, you might find the answers that you're looking for:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[cool999]

thanks guys you given me alot to think off..and i think i need look beyound sex and if i am honest i dont know why she wants to be with a guy with no job,,,,,

[cool999]

it's so funny that u r posting different topics in ur own thread...
1st: looking for an asian wife
2nd: bout ur vietnamese gf who's giving u alot of things but not sex
3rd: bout having sex with a ladyboy or shemale

i wonder what's next :Erm:


well in regards to ur gf... u r a very lucky guy having her though u may not be compatible it doesn't mean ur relationship won't work out. me and my hubby aren't compatble too. we just love each other so much!
wat ur gf wants is to make love not have sex. does that make sense to you? :rolleyes: just my thoughts though :D



thanks i understand what you said and im looking at things differently know

[Mrs.JMajor]

:yikes::yikes: On page 4 now and i dont have even one reply here,Hmmm sorry cool, to be honest ,didnt find your thread interesting for me....:Bolt::xxparty-smiley-004:

[Jillourds]

:doh

Hi Iam seeking for an english guy to make friend with.

[jimcarie]

im not sure cool knows wat he wants or hes just posting things that springs up in his imagination

[aromulus]

just posting things that springs up in his imagination

:doh, :censored: Me..........:doh He's got loads of that........:omg:

[Jillourds]

i am a nice guy seeking a relationship with a nice women i hope a nice girl contacts me please email me your contact details my ideal women will live in the uk but can be from any country and be any race i dont mind color and race is no boundry for love i am 31 honest living in northen england if you get in touch please give me your email address or yahoo messanger id and thanks for getting in touch

Hi,
I am also searching. hope we can talk on the web one of this days.:) Good luck on our search. I have my yahoo mail XXXXXX

[bornatbirth]

lets hope you see sense and dont chat with cool999 :doh and read the rest of his posts :xxgrinning--00xx3::icon_lol:

[Mrs.JMajor]

Hi,
I am also searching. hope we can talk on the web one of this days.:) Good luck on our search. I have my yahoo mail XXXXXX

:NoNo::NoNo::NoNo:

[cool999]

hello Jillourds do you have a yahoo messanger id?

[Mrs Daddy]

hello Jillourds do you have a yahoo messanger id?

is that you cool:yikes::yikes::yikes:

[bornatbirth]

is that you cool:yikes::yikes::yikes:

trust mrs daddy to notice him back? :icon_lol:

looks like cool is being a sneaky cool? :Erm:

[Mrs.JMajor]

hello Jillourds do you have a yahoo messanger id?
youre late to get it,she already delete it :xxcheeky-smiley-013

is that you cool:yikes::yikes::yikes:

trust mrs daddy to notice him back? :icon_lol:
looks like cool is being a sneaky cool? :Erm::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:
hey cool,where ya been? you dont feel posting...aint ?:Erm::xxcheeky-smiley-013

[aromulus]

youre late to get it,she already delete it :xxcheeky-smiley-013



No she didn't...........:omg:

I did..........:Hellooo:

[future=dreams]

We have known each other for 10 months not met her yet but know i will shes is always where she says she will be. I trust her she trusts me and will meet her this year spend an extended time meeting family and getting to know her. Now sure sex doesn't get in the way 8,000 miles sees to that but we talk for hours about many things without falling out. But every time i see her on cam I think my god shes beautiful my maganda pinay and shes a big part of the reason I stopped smoking.
We will never be rich but i can take my pension to the phils and sure if we make good use of it can build a future together we are open and honest she remembers things i tell her and my family are accepting i intend to spend my life with her.
trust me im happy:BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy:

[bornatbirth]

No she didn't...........:omg:

I did..........:Hellooo:

:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Mrs.JMajor]

No she didn't...........:omg:

I did..........:Hellooo:
I know very well its you Mod,I am just teasing him:Erm::doh

I know exactly that no one can post thier email add/links if newbie

[lordfortesque]

can i ask what kind of lady are you looking for? :Erm:

if your looking for a woman from anywhere in the world you are aware theres alot of them :omg: you may need to narrow down your quest for love :cwm12:

goodluck anyway!:xxgrinning--00xx3:
happy hunting young man

[cleopatra]

hi cool,i have a friend who is seeking for a lifetime partner
. she is 28years old and educated filipina







i am a nice guy seeking a relationship with a nice women i hope a nice girl contacts me please email me your contact details my ideal women will live in the uk but can be from any country and be any race i dont mind color and race is no boundry for love i am 31 honest living in northen england if you get in touch please give me your email address or yahoo messanger id and thanks for getting in touch

[aromulus]

hi cool,i have a friend who is seeking for a lifetime partner
. she is 28years old and educated filipina

:Erm: Obviously you havent been following the threads too closely......:doh

[jacqueline]

i am a nice guy seeking a relationship with a nice women i hope a nice girl contacts me please email me your contact details my ideal women will live in the uk but can be from any country and be any race i dont mind color and race is no boundry for love i am 31 honest living in northen england if you get in touch please give me your email address or yahoo messanger id and thanks for getting in touch

hi,Im jackie.I hope to know you my ym is xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Hope to hear from you soon.

[aromulus]

hi,Im jackie.I hope to know you my ym is xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Hope to hear from you soon.

:cwm23:

Will you please stop posting your e-mail address in the open forum?????

:cwm23: