in our case, my husband pays for the bills and my salary goes to children's and our own savings. we are both working full time. I dont send money in the Philippines as my mum has her own business, my dad is in US and my brother is an IT specialist in Singapore. So not all Filipinas ask money from their English husband. I met my hubby here in UK and not just in internet sites and from that time I have a stable job in NHS.
Dont get me wrong but there are lots of Filipinas who wants to marry English men just to have a better life. I wish those people with a genuine heart will meet someone who will truly love them and not their pocket. lol