Graham,i know both you,i,and a few others remember the days when people used snail mail,and waited in anticipation of back and forth letters,nowadays i have met guys who have met pinays online,chatted for a short time,had a little bit of cyber sex or whatever,and proposed marriage to some doe eyed slim nymphet within a month or or two,fools rush in where angels fear to tread,marry in haste repent at leisure scenarios,they havent ended well,several sadly have played out on this very forum over the years the old days were best.