Christmas wishes to you too, Mara/Mharj ... and

Cue Marianne Faithful, an English singer, songwriter and, latterly, actress. Where's the similarity? Well ... none, really, except - when the names are inverted - they seem to perfectly describe you, 'faithful Marianne' ... a dutiful daughter who, most admirably, is prepared to forego her love of travel in order to care for her father.

May you find someone worthy of your obvious devotion to family. And good luck also, with your nursing studies.