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    Quote Originally Posted by aprilmaejon View Post
    Not so much difference compared to those in their 70s and got married to a 20 year old... That only happens in an online meeting I guess, not unless if an elderly that age marry his personal carer.
    Yep--that's all part of my plan---lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by Michael Parnham View Post
    I've never been online looking for a lady, for a start I wouldn't know how to. Maritess and I first met in person May 2010 we married October 2011. I am now 71 years of age and Maritess is now 29 years of age and we get on so well together, if you were to see us together I don't think you would give the age gap a thought!
    That is a good thing.

    Anyway in the Philippines, it is more common to see a Filipina who is married to an older foreign man than to see a Filipina who is married to a younger foreign man.

    People think that these young Filipinas are just using these men for their life to get better (to have a big house and live in luxury).

    Most people think that it's much better to marry an old man as they have money, receive pensions, and they will likely to die soon...(not a very nice thing to think isn't it? The man is not dead yet but it sounds like that his grave is all ready for him).

    I think few of these "scenarios" are true, and false for those who really fall in love despite of the big age difference.

    When people in my town found out that I am engaged to a 28-year old foreign man, they asked me why a young man....? According to them, a young man doesn't have any money, no house, no savings and changes shirt so quick. I told them that I love my fiancé and I can't afford to be in a relationship with a man just for the sake of his money in the first place. They said that I am foolish for using my heart and not my head. They said that if I'm marrying a foreigner, it should be an old one so my future is brighter. Such a shame but that is how people back home judged my relationship. We haven't buy any land nor a house in the Philippines yet, and my mum still cooks and sells her food in the market to make some extra money----people said that this is because I married a young man and life for my family could have been a lot better if I married an older one.

    I just ignore everything that they say and carry on living the life I chose to have, besides at the end of the day, this is my life, not theirs.


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    One day my girl will find my birth certificate.


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    Quote Originally Posted by aprilmaejon View Post
    That is a good thing.

    Anyway in the Philippines, it is more common to see a Filipina who is married to an older foreign man than to see a Filipina who is married to a younger foreign man.

    People think that these young Filipinas are just using these men for their life to get better (to have a big house and live in luxury).

    Most people think that it's much better to marry an old man as they have money, receive pensions, and they will likely to die soon...(not a very nice thing to think isn't it? The man is not dead yet but it sounds like that his grave is all ready for him).

    I think few of these "scenarios" are true, and false for those who really fall in love despite of the big age difference.

    When people in my town found out that I am engaged to a 28-year old foreign man, they asked me why a young man....? According to them, a young man doesn't have any money, no house, no savings and changes shirt so quick. I told them that I love my fiancé and I can't afford to be in a relationship with a man just for the sake of his money in the first place. They said that I am foolish for using my heart and not my head. They said that if I'm marrying a foreigner, it should be an old one so my future is brighter. Such a shame but that is how people back home judged my relationship. We haven't buy any land nor a house in the Philippines yet, and my mum still cooks and sells her food in the market to make some extra money----people said that this is because I married a young man and life for my family could have been a lot better if I married an older one.

    I just ignore everything that they say and carry on living the life I chose to have, besides at the end of the day, this is my life, not theirs.
    Sweet sentiments Aprilmaejon, your hubby is a real lucky guy......


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    Quote Originally Posted by les_taxi View Post
    Yes that's what many men do-no intention of meeting
    I meet as many as I can - on the condition they only stay one night


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    Quote Originally Posted by alexis View Post
    Oh dear you better choose your words carefully.
    I don't think so because that's my opinion


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    Quote Originally Posted by aprilmaejon View Post
    Everytime men do that, I ignore them straight away and tell them to back off! It is so degrading in my part when men assume that I want money for sex...disgusting! However, there are also few desperate Filipinas who are willing to do it for the sake of money. Men will send them money to buy their very own personal computer so that they can do cyber sex in their own house...how pathetic isn't it?
    Many do work in cams as their only job and I have no problem with that

    As long as they are adults, who are we to condemn them!

    I had a 6 month relationship with a top model from a webcam site and it was not all bad


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    I love my old man grahamw48 only because he is a sex machine .


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    Quote Originally Posted by mercedes View Post
    I love my old man grahamw48 only because he is a sex machine .

    I read that at 6.00am before my breakfast


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    Quote Originally Posted by SimonH View Post
    I read that at 6.00am before my breakfast
    And I was having breakfast before breakfast


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    Quote Originally Posted by Michael Parnham View Post
    And I was having breakfast before breakfast
    Does your wife know?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mercedes View Post
    I love my old man grahamw48 only because he is a sex machine .
    -=rayna.keith=-
    ...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...



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    Quote Originally Posted by mercedes View Post
    I love my old man grahamw48 only because he is a sex machine .

    day and night ey?!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Nick30 View Post
    It doesn't seem to be working out Fred and Les is right, I don't want to turn up alone there, so hope to be introduced to someone on this site.
    Sorry to see that you and Anjelie haven't hit it off, but keep looking mate

    And good luck!


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    Quote Originally Posted by aprilmaejon View Post
    day and night ey?!



    Just only 3 times each day.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    Look for a single Filipina in the UK with citizenship, and save the visa money. Plenty of them about.
    I agree. Weve done our share of providing Keith

    Perhaps in the future a swap shop could be organised...it'll save us the tedious hours trawling through these dating sites again.

    Strangely enough, the ones already here having gained citizenship and freedom are generally looking for potential partners their own age. Strange that.


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    Quote Originally Posted by mercedes View Post



    Just only 3 times each day.

    Breakfast, lunch and dinner...it's a healthy diet then and very convenient


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    Quote Originally Posted by mercedes View Post



    Just only 3 times each day.


    Ahhh ehhh too much info I think? Hahaha


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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    Does your wife know?


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    Quote Originally Posted by aprilmaejon View Post
    I don't think any British Citizen Single Filipina will only be interested in a George Clooney-clone with good job, fabulous house and lifestyle to match. I think they will still be interested in a working class men, only that they will only have eyes to a man of their age level if you know what I mean...no offence meant though for those who have 30 years or more age gaps with their partners...

    especially if you think you can pull a younger model/--------no chance for that I'm afraid.
    So please explain, why is it different when they are in the Philippines. How is it Filipinas find much older men more attractive


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    Quote Originally Posted by aprilmaejon View Post
    Breakfast, lunch and dinner...it's a healthy diet then and very convenient
    ... "it's" apparently the healthiest form of exercise that's
    recommended ... !
    And gets rid of those extra calories a damn sight quicker than any prescribed diet while you're "at it"!


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    Quote Originally Posted by aprilmaejon View Post
    Breakfast, lunch and dinner...it's a healthy diet then and very convenient
    Real men don't wear pink. ....


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    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
    ... "it's" apparently the healthiest form of exercise that's recommended ... ! And gets rid of those extra calories a damn sight quicker than any prescribed diet while you're "at it"!
    I've been almost reduced to skin and bone.


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    Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
    I've been almost reduced to skin and bone.
    ... thought you already were, Graham ...


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    Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
    I've been almost reduced to skin and bone.
    Necrophilia
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    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
    ... thought you already were, Graham ...
    , mate. ... just my 'little' !


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    Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
    So please explain, why is it different when they are in the Philippines. How is it Filipinas find much older men more attractive
    Do you really want to hear my booooring explanation gwapito?

    Here it is then.....

    It is different in the Philippines because there's not a lot of single young foreign men that comes and visit the country for a holiday,work or in search for love. They are far too much busy with their work and would maybe rather choose a holiday in countries like Amsterdam,Australia, Ibiza Spain...etc.
    Mostly, the one that comes in and out of the Philippines
    are the retired foreigners who are on their holiday enjoying their pensions or the ones who want to settle down in the country permanently or the ones who are already married to a Filipina. So meeting a younger foreign man there and fall in love with is very unlikely to happen as there's not a lot of them around the country. (It still happens but not very common). What is common there is meeting an older foreign man as there are lots of them in the country...especially the retired ones who can afford a holiday...who got not work to come back for...so Filipinas who aim to marry a foreign man and get out of the country just settle for what is available. There's not so much of choices I suppose wherein here in the UK, Filipinas here got lots of choices....fishes are everywhere kinda type of thing.

    How is it Filipinas find much older men more attractive?
    I am not entirely sure about that.. If you ask me that question personally, I would say that it's not for me....not my cup of tea ... But most people said that older men have lots of life experiences, they are more wiser, more considerate ,will spoil you so much with love and care, will give you everything,very tolerant and .....


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    Poor Nick-he is hoping to find a new love and everyone's on a bout bonking their ladies,talk about rubbing it in


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