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30th December 2013 #121
I don't believe for one minute that smacking turns a kid bad regardless what the 'experts' say. It could be a number of factors but the lack of nurturing, love and support would most likely be the number one reason.
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30th December 2013 #122
I got smacked plenty of times when I was in gradeschool because of frequently shouting at my parents whenever I reason out and fighting with my siblings.. I don't think I turned out a bad person. It also didn't make me think my parents were doing it the wrong way. In fact, seeing one of my classmates with a big belt mark in the face (he said that time when his dad was gonna smack him on his butt, he mistakenly hit him on his face when he was trying to run away , not sure how it happened though) made me think my parents were too soft with us!
Some said that being smacked when you were a kid might/may become a cycle with their own kids. I don't have a child so I don't really know if that's true. I just smack Keith from time to time though..
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30th December 2013 #123I just smack Keith from time to time though.
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30th December 2013 #124
well there are 4 outcomes
you will have kids that had never been smacked who turned out ok
you will have kids that had never been smacked that turned out bad
you will have kids that had been smacked and turned out ok
you will have kids that had been smacked that turned out bad
the problem is every kid is an individual so no one can say how they will have turned out whether they were smacked or not.
without some reports of say looking at the prison population and finding out if they were smacked or not might give a rough idea but i'm sure its not that simple
thou i found this.. go to the table at After Effects of Physical Punishment
http://www.naturalchild.org/research...unishment.html
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30th December 2013 #125
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31st December 2013 #126
C'mon Ded ... you're a great advocate of punitive action being meted out to wrongdoers. ... WHY, then - on this, of all threads - did you "choose to go into hiding"?
Speak up, man!
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31st December 2013 #127
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Omg these types would have you locked up for even scolding a child
You can find so called experts on anything but that does not mean that they are right, normally these so called experts are just pushing their own agenda normally based on who funds them
Sorry Joe some unruly delinquents need some respect beaten into them
Unpalatable to you it may seem but your softly softly approach would just get laughed at
Try taking that approach with the yobs in gangs based in south london
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31st December 2013 #128
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31st December 2013 #130
JI think you'll find that the majority of these yobs exist because of a lack of parental control and a breakdown of the family unit. Its not a slapping that they lack its the fact that most of them probably wouldn't know their dad if they walked past him in the street.
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31st December 2013 #131
5yrs med school, 2 years foundation training and 5 yrs specialist training to be a paediatrician , plus many years of experience from seeing 1000's of kids i think they can call themselves experts oh and lets not forget many are parents themselves
i suppose you tell the garage what the exact fault is on your car, or the gas engineer what the fault is on your boiler but then people know better than paediatricians and psychiatrists
you probably didn't look at the last link i posted,http://www.naturalchild.org/research...unishment.html have a look at the table, look at the row most Violent inmates at San Quentin and it looks to merespect beaten
also this thread has gone from alittle slaprespect beaten into them
my misses has had to deal with children with bruises and injures in A&E and contacted social services when she and other medical staff have been concerned as they are trained to do, that maybe Unpalatable to you, but that's the procedure,
as for beatingunruly delinquents
this is my last post on this , no it is..
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL
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31st December 2013 #132
Your last post on this! Halalula
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31st December 2013 #133
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31st December 2013 #134
I usually go to Amsterdam for a slapping session for being a naughty boy ..... this is the S&M forum isn't it?
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31st December 2013 #135
This is you, isn't it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0TJozRzkkI
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1st January 2014 #136
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My point was these cretins that join gangs and cause as much bother as they can to normal people would not be acting like that if they had a bloody good beating when they were younger
A type of beating that would put the fear of god into them
The courts are overrun with these idiots and its too late to do anything with them now
You are still allowed to beat your child as long as you dont leave any bruises
This kind of pc bullshit makes me sick
Next time you pass a group of thugs on the street joe just go and try your softly softly approach
Every town has a group of idiots hanging around up to no good so they wont be hard to find
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1st January 2014 #137
Occasional slap wouldnt do harm when kids are really as long as they feel loved at home all the time. Discipline starts at home
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2nd January 2014 #139
I didnt get too involved with this smacking thread because..As I said..I dont like Politicians or a BIG government telling me how to bring up my kids!!..
The thing is,I dont advise any new parent or those with youngsters of any age to smack their kids in order to discipline them..
Thats because I mind my own business.. Each parent is responsible for their childrens general behaviour and its each parents job in life to teach their kids in the best way they know how and to mould them into young adults we can be proud of.
I dont believe in spoiling kids to make me feel better short term!!
If you love something ...Why spoil it?
If I see kids that come out of a house battered and bruised,Im gonna ask questions until I find out if the kid is OK..That is my social responsibility and conscience working..Not a new law telling me how to be a good parent. To be honest,if my questions are not answered then the Police and social services will know about it..
What I dont like is when society tells me to be a good responsible parent and then set rules that disable sensible options in case I feel I need them..
They cant have it both ways..It just aint gonna work.
I smacked my kids very rarely and along with many other disciplinary measures which I back up to this day,I have 3 very well grounded young adults that any parent would be proud of..
If you dont believe me..Ask my kids.
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Good post Fred.
Proof is in the pudding, and all that.
Common sense....something often sadly lacking these days.
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2nd January 2014 #141
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2nd January 2014 #142
Can we put this thread out of it's misery now
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2nd January 2014 #143
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I'm only replying cos I'm using my new Hudl tablet. Hahaha......carry on...
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