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8th February 2009 #91
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8th February 2009 #95
Hi everyone
Thanks again, just mulling a few things over at the moment.
Have a great day
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12th February 2009 #97
hi Sim11uk!
All the best for the future.
Phillip and FrancesTrue love waits.
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1st March 2009 #101
oh im sad on the turn of events for you Simuk11. Im from Cagayan de oro also and im here in the uk now to be with my husband. Pressures must have been in her shoulders to pleased her family if what she told you is the truth. Sometimes pressure from the people surrounding her can crumble her confidence and love for you especially being bombarded in every way they can. It takes really a strong determination for a woman not to be swayed by pressures surrounding her. They must have been thinking your not going to honor your promise to marry her thats why they let this other guy enter the picture ( Just a thought) . Or, else, he is her bf or worst husband in the side, and that she doesnt want to go further with you so that you wont spend much more than what you have done already..just an opinion
I hope and pray things will work out for the best.
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2nd March 2009 #102
Thanks acs for your kind words.
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2nd March 2009 #103
HI Sim11UK, i've been reading your post and it started 3 wks ago so sad to know the turn up of the events from then on. So many views from some members here and same with the rest i am hoping you could find the right girl for you.
I was surprised to know she at aged 33, still was pressured by her family. If she is deeply in love with you she can make her own decisions as she is of the right age already. I just suspect she has a bf or pregnant? (just my views).
Best of luck and God Bless. Happy searching .." The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
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2nd March 2009 #104
hi sim, im a newbie here...and ur story is like a novel...i do understand how u feel until this time...iv been reading the threads and waiting for ur next move...my situation was a bit similar to what is happening between u and ur ex(?) gf...but the difference is I waited for 5 years for him to marry me and then one day..he told me..he lost that loving feeling for me. I got engaged there in UK...Thai Square Restaurant...almost a year ago..then few months after that he dropped me...i was asking him the real reason/s but he always told me that one day he woke up and realized that he lost that feeling for me...quite strange huh? And what I did, I packed all my stuffs and went back to the Phils. as I was so devastated by what happened....Until now, I can't figure out what went wrong along the way but I do believe whatever is happening is all God'swill for me and for u. They say, there is always light after the tunnel...
Goodluck to u and enjoy life to the fullest!!!!!
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2nd March 2009 #105
Long distance relations can be very difficult sometimes. Yesterday my GF sent me a message telling me "if you find someone else just tell me".... I was stunned and asked what happened. She then explained that once before she had been in a LDR and the man with whom she had fallen in love in fact had a girl with him and of course she was hurt. The balance between hurrying too much and being too slow is not always easy to find, but what matters is that both partners find the adequate pace..
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3rd March 2009 #106
Thanks again everyone.
Well, I've just booked my flight for this coming sunday 8th march.
She has come back to the City & is not talking to her family at the moment?
I don't want to go into details, but persistance on my part & her own common sense, seems to have paid off.
Anyway, it's time to sort things out...I have to say, I feel a little numb about it at the moment?
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3rd March 2009 #107
hi sim i been reading ur post always and waiting for a good result of ur love story i hope that u will be happy soon and she can fight for ur love over her parents.goodluck
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3rd March 2009 #109
Goodluck to you sim, hope it goes well...
It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy.
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4th March 2009 #110
Hi Sim,
It is sad to know how all things turned out. My Simon (my bf) also went through the same pressure but maybe I am strong-willed and told my family to shush and let me be happy with my choice. And they did support me because they know that my Simon makes me happy. Everything happens for a reason and maybe it's because you're not meant to be together... and that you deserve a woman who'll stand by you no matter what.. who loves you so much that she's willing to take a bullet for you ... okay, that's morbid but you know what I mean... hehehe..
Anyway, if you're ready to love again, the girls here would be very willing to help. Good luck to you and I wish you all the best.
Florge
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4th March 2009 #112
Goodluck on ur trip Sim , i will pray for the good outcomes.
Hope everything will be OK.
"You don't have to be a certain age to fall in love;
although you've maybe been told you're to young.
For those who tell you that,
that don't know what is."
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4th March 2009 #115
Good luck Sim11UK. I have recently returned from Phil. after getting married there, and was saddened by the problems you are having. I wish you all the very best and think you are doing the right thing by flying out there to personally confront the situation.
Best wishes from Shirley and I (to you both), I hope you do find out there the happiness we both found and so many others in this Forum have. May love triumph for you both.
Paul
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4th March 2009 #116
Thanks Aposhark, the trouble was I had no contact from her, except for a couple of text messages & I would never have been able to find the family home, as it's quite remote.
Thanks Paul, congratulations to you both. I'm glad things have gone well for you. I wish you much happiness for the future.
Simon
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6th March 2009 #119
Wishing you all the best mate. Hopefully things will be a lot clearer when you're there.
Be responsible with little so that you can be trusted with much!!
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6th March 2009 #120
[QUOTE=Sim11UK;119015]Thanks Aposhark, the trouble was I had no contact from her, except for a couple of text messages & I would never have been able to find the family home, as it's quite remote.
So you mean, you're going there on your own.. and find their house on your own? Isn't she going to pick you up at the airport when you arrive?
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