Mr. Sim11UK, I am very sorry this has happened to you but I think you have options.....

What I am about to say is a little direct, only because I think if she really loves you and you love her, you should step up a gear.

"A faint heart never won a fair maid"

Well, I see you were planning to get married, but as she is 33 she probably thinks you are not committed enough as the marriage was too far into the future.
She could be trying to stick a rocket up your
If you really love her and really believe she feels the same and if you have money, get over there and sort it, Man.

Go and capture her and haul her onto the proverbial white horse.

She is 33 - she is too old to marry to satisfy her family only.

Well, sorry if today I have been too direct, but I really do feel that some men don't act powerfully enough to want to spend the rest of their lives with their love

If you can win her, you can marry in Phils in 6 weeks or so and then plan the settlement visa.

Don't forget that she is 33 and not 23, I feel it does make a difference.